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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>The Beer Bar Latest Topics</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/forum/5-the-beer-bar/</link><description>The Beer Bar Latest Topics</description><language>en</language><item><title>Forum Look</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80223-forum-look/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>I think I was able to change the way it looked. At least for me. Did it revert for others? </p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80223</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 12:07:13 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Turkish Police raid gay clubs</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80251-turkish-police-raid-gay-clubs/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>All in the name of "family values".</p><p></p><p><strong>Police in Turkey have detained 47 people in a series of raids on gay bars and the homes of LGBTQ+ activists, officials say.</strong></p><p>Raids took place in 12 provinces over the weekend as part of a campaign dubbed "My Family is Safe" that the Turkish government says has been designed to protect family values.</p><p></p><p><a rel="external nofollow" href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cpve191wy47o">BBC Report</a></p><p><br></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80251</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2026 19:07:55 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>istanbul raids</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80249-istanbul-raids/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>Has.anybody heard if this was the Aquarius in the raids in Istanbul and around the country.</p><p>"Also targeted was a men’s hammam reputed to be a venue for prostitution."</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80249</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2026 18:15:53 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Bangkok Airport link</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80216-bangkok-airport-link/</link><description><![CDATA[<p><a rel="external nofollow" href="https://loyaltylobby.com/2026/09/10/bangkok-airport-rail-link-in-shambles-due-to-operator-changes-following-contract-expiration/">https://loyaltylobby.com/2026/09/10/bangkok-airport-rail-link-in-shambles-due-to-operator-changes-following-contract-expiration/</a></p><p></p><p>I know a number of members use thec airport rail link, and have possibly already seen this encouraging report!</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80216</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 12:50:40 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>You heard it here first!</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80230-you-heard-it-here-first/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>Lady Gaga just had her first baby. I have it on good information that the pregnancy was a surrogate one. I looked it up on the internet, and apparently it's not common knowledge. I can't figure out the reason for the secrecy on this matter... </p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80230</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2026 19:23:36 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Site connection problems, AGAIN !</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/79318-site-connection-problems-again/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	Once again, today the site is not behaving,....   connection problems,  endless buffering, and the "contact us" tab DOES NOT function......
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	After the last issues the other day, it worked FINE for awhile,  but now again, its almost impossible to use the site.
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	<strong>(I hope it isnt IRANIAN sabotage and retribution for Trump ?) </strong>  <span class="ipsEmoji">🤣</span>
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">79318</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2026 17:21:03 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Caution to criticism in Thailand</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80219-caution-to-criticism-in-thailand/</link><description><![CDATA[<p><img src="https://scontent.fyvr4-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t39.30808-6/802699497_10166229960246318_2417966180413841650_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_tt6&amp;cstp=mx2048x2048&amp;ctp=p526x296&amp;_nc_cat=109&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=127cfc&amp;_nc_eui2=AeGpMFlzFH_XO-xUDBlYLPsJm32Uk7WBtxebfZSTtYG3FxaDNVKqIt_iEU8qW_OH_zo&amp;_nc_ohc=KGjHtab1loQQ7kNvwE3PymO&amp;_nc_oc=AdoeqE550JOr3Op7-OLVyTARZ-ls4I7oF8XLvDvjXEp6Z7MNadqhb8hd6SNHMrVOX_g&amp;_nc_zt=23&amp;_nc_ht=scontent.fyvr4-1.fna&amp;_nc_gid=JiwJKsDIa4wYgSnrL38XSg&amp;_nc_ss=7b2a8&amp;oh=00_AQLfQG8LXn3Pi9n-KQlX2x4Ar0YpsxfHWgreQfJaqGWljA&amp;oe=6AA8B8AB" alt="May be an image of text" class="ipsRichText__align--block" width="526" height="526" loading="lazy"></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80219</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 17:39:45 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>What's the most you've paid to go into a museum?</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80222-whats-the-most-youve-paid-to-go-into-a-museum/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>I saw a blurb on the local news about a former hospital in the area being turned into a temporary museum, called "The Hospital of Emotions." The rooms in the former hospital were turned into expressive works of art, and one tours the hospital to visit these repurposed rooms. I went into the website, and was shocked to find out they were charging $58 per person to visit this exhibit--PLUS $20 a car for parking! In other words, $138 for my hubbie and myself to visit. You buy a 10-minute entry window in advance. I'm scratching my head to think back if I've ever paid such a sum to visit a museum. I can't recall that I have. I looked up what it costs to get an all-access pass to the castle in Versailles:</p><p>You can buy official tickets on the Château de Versailles</p><p> Ticketing Portal.</p><p>Passport Ticket (Full Estate Access)High Season (April 1 – October 31): €35 standard price, €32 reduced price for EU/EEA residents. Includes the Palace, Trianon Estate, Queen's Hamlet, and Gardens (including fountain/musical shows).</p><p>Low Season (November 1 – March 31): €25 standard price, €22 reduced price. Gardens are free during this period.</p><p>So 35 Euros for an all-access pass during high season, or about $40. And this place ain't the Château de Versailles. What's the most you've ever paid for a museum entry fee?</p><p>Not that we exactly can't afford it, but I can think of better ways to spend $138.</p><p><img src="https://media.tenor.com/5frkroPFxZAAAAAM/pedro-monkey-puppet.gif" alt="pedro-monkey-puppet.gif" class="ipsRichText__align--block" width="220" height="293" loading="lazy"></p><div class="ipsEmbeddedVideo" contenteditable="false" data-og-user_text="https://youtu.be/nyYlhu-K0TI" style="--i-media-width: 100%;"><iframe width="200" height="113" src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/nyYlhu-K0TI?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allow="encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; fullscreen" title="HOSPITAL OF EMOTIONS | EVERY ROOM | LOS ANGELES" loading="lazy"></iframe></div><p></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80222</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 06:45:07 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>From the Forum to Fajitas: Meeting Jimmie50 on His Home Turf</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80214-from-the-forum-to-fajitas-meeting-jimmie50-on-his-home-turf/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>One of the great things about this board is occasionally getting to meet one of its members, esteemed or otherwise, on their own turf. <span class="ipsEmoji" title="">😎</span></p><p>While we were in the Denver area, my boyfriend, another friend who lives there, and I met up with <a href="https://www.gayguides.com/profile/19112-jimmie50/" class="ipsMention" data-mentionid="19112" data-ipshover="" data-ipshover-target="https://www.gayguides.com/profile/19112-jimmie50/?do=hovercard" rel="">@jimmie50</a> at a Mexican-themed restaurant, because apparently I don’t get enough of Mexico while actually living in Mexico. <span class="ipsEmoji" title="">😂</span></p><p>My impression of Jimmie50 was exactly what I expected. He seems like a truly nice, genuine guy, and I have no doubt he’ll handle his time in Cambodia just fine, as long as he stays of prop planes and I'm really happy for him.</p><p>We hung out for a couple of hours, and the time flew by. It felt less like meeting someone from an online forum and more like catching up with someone we already knew.</p><p>And if anyone’s ears were burning that night, there may have been a reason. Of course, everything we said about all of you was complimentary., more or less <span class="ipsEmoji" title="">😇</span></p><p>So, how many other members here have actually met someone from this board in person  on their/your home turf?</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80214</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 03:21:26 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>In Memory of "Lucky" &#x2013; Rest in Peace</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80205-in-memory-of-lucky-rest-in-peace/</link><description><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hi everyone,</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I am writing to share some sad news. Our fellow member, </span><strong><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lucky</span></strong><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">, unexpectedly passed away on July 7, 2026, following a brief illness.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">On a personal note, Lucky and I were in touch for over two decades. When I hadn't heard from him or seen him post anything lately, I emailed him. When there was no reply, I expected the worst. His sister must have gotten access to his email account because she eventually replied and notified me of his passing. Believe it or not, despite everything he accomplished in his career, he always looked up to me. Keeping in contact with him for 20 years was a true privilege, and I am going to miss our whore stories exchanges.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Many of you might remember </span><strong><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lucky</span></strong><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> as an occasional contributor to these forums since 2006, chiming in over the years to share his fondness for annual trips to Bangkok or join discussions in </span><em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Beer Bar</span></em><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">. He truly enjoyed the community and the lifestyle we all share here.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">However, the true mark he left on this world was through his deeply distinguished, trailblazing career as an attorney fighting for justice. Long before he was able to freely travel, he served as a high-ranking prosecutor and the </span><strong><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Chief of a major District Attorney’s Hate Crimes Unit</span></strong><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> in California during the 1980s and early 1990s.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What makes his legacy so incredible is that he was an openly gay attorney doing this job during a deeply volatile and hostile era for our community. Working right on the front lines, he pioneered tough, unprecedented prosecutions against homophobic violence and secured landmark felony convictions against those who targeted gay individuals. He famously used his platform to send a clear message to institutions like the military that violence against the LGBTQ+ community would not be tolerated. He was also a fierce advocate for attorney rights, standing up for core legal principles within the state system.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When health concerns forced his early retirement in 1993, he didn't stop living fully. He spent his decades of retirement exploring the world alongside his lifelong love and partner, and caring for his beloved Scottie dogs.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lucky was a devoted partner, a fierce advocate, a true traveler, and a man who fought hard to make the world a safer place for all of us. He will be deeply missed.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Safe travels on your final journey, Lucky.</span></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80205</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 06:05:22 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Highly talented, handsome gay man publicly announces suicide on Instagram</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80206-highly-talented-handsome-gay-man-publicly-announces-suicide-on-instagram/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>Although not a close friend, I was acquainted with Hunter Hardin/Lulu Lovebottom, and found out yesterday that he committed suicide after he apparently timed his announcement of giving up on life to pop up after it was too late, on Instagram. He was a talented burlesque dancer, and performed at one of my parties. I knew him mainly as the friend of some mutual friends. We would talk briefly at parties, but I never got to know him well. His post simply stated "Been hurt for the last time by someone I shared my heart with <span class="ipsEmoji" title="">💔</span>". I could only wish to have a fraction of his talent, which I admired. Although we weren't close, I had nightmares about his death last night. How many of us wished we could have just talked to him before. </p><p>I didn't even know until I read the article in <em>OUT</em> magazine this morning that he also did OnlyFans. I admired him as a talented performer/dancer, who seemed to have everything going for him. Would a hug have made the difference? I guess one just never knows what someone else may be going through. <span class="ipsEmoji" title="crying face">😢</span></p><p> <a rel="external nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/lululovebttm/">https://www.instagram.com/lululovebttm/</a> </p><p></p><figure data-og-url="https://www.out.com/news/hunter-hardin-dies" data-og-description="Friends and family are mourning the loss of the OnlyFans creator and burlesque star." data-og-image="https://www.out.com/media-library/hunter-hardin.jpg?id=67739556&amp;width=1200&amp;height=600&amp;coordinates=0%2C60%2C0%2C60" data-og-title="Gay adult star Hunter Hardin dies at age 30" data-og-site_name="Out Magazine" data-og-image_width="1200" data-og-image_height="600" data-og-user_text="https://www.out.com/news/hunter-hardin-dies#rebelltitem1" class="ipsEmbedded_og ipsEmbedded"><div class="ipsEmbedded_og__site-name"><h5>Out Magazine</h5></div><img class="ipsEmbedded_og__image" src="https://www.out.com/media-library/hunter-hardin.jpg?id=67739556&amp;width=1200&amp;height=600&amp;coordinates=0%2C60%2C0%2C60" alt="No image preview" width="1200" height="600" loading="lazy"><figcaption><h3 class="ipsEmbedded_og__title">Gay adult star Hunter Hardin dies at age 30</h3><div class="ipsEmbedded_og__description">Friends and family are mourning the loss of the OnlyFans creator and burlesque star.</div></figcaption></figure><p></p><p><img src="https://scontent-lax3-2.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t39.99422-6/800993663_948791891601221_3530200492986621781_n.png?stp=dst-jpg_tt6&amp;cstp=mx1080x1440&amp;ctp=s1080x1440&amp;_nc_cat=100&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=833d8c&amp;_nc_ohc=X-8atO2UFCUQ7kNvwFXWv-Q&amp;_nc_oc=AdqtOzdY4vrFk22sJb4hASmzjy35xmOX1jAvS38wnveeUVjnTU52_V0uOYjZ6i9qYtQ&amp;_nc_zt=14&amp;_nc_ht=scontent-lax3-2.xx&amp;_nc_gid=i2XKO5rD6-2e1b7_SsWlNQ&amp;_nc_ss=722a8&amp;oh=00_AQLudoWJ8q9xTW_I6hRwJIWCDkQlAIIPCsA0zIz3Jchkcg&amp;oe=6AA62B0C" alt="May be an image of text that says 'Remembering Hunter Hardin 1996-2026'" class="ipsRichText__align--block" loading="lazy"></p><p></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80206</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 18:32:21 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Is there a problem adding photos after the latest "update"?</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80191-is-there-a-problem-adding-photos-after-the-latest-update/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>Unless I start a new topic, I don't see a place to attach a file/photo from my files. In the past, there was a prompt to "<u>choose files</u>...". </p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80191</guid><pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2026 22:48:55 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Older Americans have dementia without knowing</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80213-older-americans-have-dementia-without-knowing/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>Duh. Silly title. Of course they wouldn't know it if they had dementia especially among certain nationalities that generally lack self-awareness. I recall reading somewhere that dementia is quite prevalent among older foreign residents in Thailand due to loneliness. They aren't alone because they have people around them but they're (emotionally) lonely. I don't know whether this finding was anecdotal or based on scientific research but going around places like Chiang Mai and Pattaya where there are a lot of older farang one gets the vibe that quite a few of them aren't "all there" (which may not necessarily be clinical dementia but some form of personality disorder or social dysfunctionality ).</p><p><a rel="external nofollow" href="https://www.newsweek.com/older-americans-have-dementia-without-knowing-experts-reveal-signs-to-watch-12414002">https://www.newsweek.com/older-americans-have-dementia-without-knowing-experts-reveal-signs-to-watch-12414002</a></p><p></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80213</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 12:56:21 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>The problem of excess baggage: should the passenger be weighed too?</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80193-the-problem-of-excess-baggage-should-the-passenger-be-weighed-too/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>What say you?</p><p><img class="ipsImage ipsImage_thumbnailed ipsRichText__align--block" data-fileid="62424" src="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_09/FB_IMG_1788695858220.jpg.65988e340315630927b8cb9bf3b1adf0.jpg" alt="FB_IMG_1788695858220.jpg" title="FB_IMG_1788695858220.jpg" width="400" height="500" data-full-image="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_09/FB_IMG_1788695858220.jpg.65988e340315630927b8cb9bf3b1adf0.jpg" loading="lazy"></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80193</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2026 12:00:22 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>HIV/AIDS Generation Survivors</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/79461-hivaids-generation-survivors/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	 
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	<span style="font-size:12pt;">I’m in Florida, USA, today and was out with friends for the evening.<span>  </span>Returning home I tuned-in to cable network TCM – Turner Classic Movies.<span>  </span>Philadelphia (1993) was the feature movie. <span> </span>I’ve always had an emotional response watching the movie. <span> </span>At some points, tears … always.<span>  </span>Tonight was no different. </span>
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	<span style="font-size:12pt;">There are those of us here, not all, who are old enough to have lived through the terror of HIV/AIDS crisis starting in the early-1980s.<span>  </span>To say I was sexually active those years is an understatement. Somewhere in the range of 30 guys I’d slept with didn’t survive, as far as I know. I survived, and I’ve often wondered: why was I spared? A generation of gay life was wiped out. </span>
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	<span style="font-size:12pt;">44 million people have died from HIV/AIDS thus far. Half have been men. </span>
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	<span style="font-size:12pt;">I’m sometimes triggered by posts on these forums suggesting money boys, garotos, whomever are pressured to or paid extra to have unprotected anal sex, to perform acts which place them … and many of us … in danger.</span><span style="font-size:12pt;"> </span>
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	<span style="font-size:12pt;">The reminder that, <em>"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it,"</em> is as applicable today as ever before. </span>
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	<a href="https://www.yahoo.com/news/world/articles/thai-resort-cracks-down-sex-114159591.html" rel="external nofollow">https://www.yahoo.com/news/world/articles/thai-resort-cracks-down-sex-114159591.html</a>
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	Thai police have launched raids on sex workers in a resort city before the arrival of 5,000 American sailors who have spent nine months at sea.
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	After a gruelling deployment that has been repeatedly extended,<span> </span><a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/08/18/uss-abraham-lincoln-aircraft-carrier-us-navy-culture/" rel="external nofollow" style="border-style:solid;border-width:0px;">the USS Abraham Lincoln</a><span> </span>is set to dock late on Tuesday in Pattaya, a coastal city that has hosted US troops seeking rest and recreation since the Vietnam War.
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	Before their arrival, however, Pattaya's police force has clamped down on the sex industry, with at least 40 people arrested in nightlife raids over the weekend.
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	Anek Srathongyoo, the city's police chief, said law enforcement agencies have been ordered to step up security measures to prevent undesirable situations. 
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	But there are also fears the arrival could lead to an outbreak of sexually transmitted diseases.
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	While prostitution is illegal in Thailand, it is openly visible in tourist hubs, and Pattaya's red-light district is perhaps the country's most infamous.
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	Anek Srathongyoo, Pattaya's police chief, told Reuters that the crackdown was challenging because sex workers can solicit in public areas without the knowledge of officials. "We are doing our best, but it is difficult," he said.
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	Police will step up security measures during the troops' five-day stay, including additional patrols around the city's main beachfront and nightclubs, he added.
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	Pipatpong Fakfare, an associate professor at Bangkok University's school of humanities and tourism management, added: "The risk to health and safety, as the influx of a large number of customers may increase the likelihood of sexual exploitation and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases."
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	Others have welcomed the imminent arrival of US servicemen as a boon to Pattaya's economy. It is the low season, but tourism has been hit hard because of the war in Iran, which disrupted both flight routes and prices.
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	The USS Abraham Lincoln's deployment has been repeatedly extended partly because of the Iran War. Having left San Diego in November headed for the Indo-Pacific region, it was redirected to the Middle East in January, just before conflict broke out.
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														Last month, one<span> </span><a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2026/08/27/sailor-suicide-uss-abraham-lincoln-charges/" rel="external nofollow" style="border-style:solid;border-width:0px;">sailor jumped overboard</a><span> </span>in an alleged suicide attempt, while there have been reports of food and critical supply shortages.
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														"They come to relax because it's been almost 280 days since anyone came ashore," he said. "Our preparations will focus on safety and ensuring fair pricing, so we don't take advantage of them."
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	Any interest in such a string?
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	<img alt="No photo description available." width="320" src="https://scontent-lax3-2.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.18169-9/971237_607460672598775_384801773_n.jpg?_nc_cat=107&amp;ccb=1-7&amp;_nc_sid=5f2048&amp;_nc_ohc=B6W1y1rrgA8AX8L8LWM&amp;_nc_ht=scontent-lax3-2.xx&amp;oh=00_AfA3iffSFf72CNpUZMQSDjW9fBhpcbyoHcEzv0dHRENT9A&amp;oe=6618DD55" loading="lazy" height="236.8">
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">46758</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2024 07:13:11 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Countries pulling their gold out of the USA</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80184-countries-pulling-their-gold-out-of-the-usa/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	Noticed this article about the Netherlands removing their gold from the USA. 
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	<a href="https://247wallst.com/investing/2026/09/02/the-netherlands-just-pulled-86-4-tons-of-gold-out-of-the-u-s-to-improve-crisis-readiness-amid-global-tensions/" rel="external nofollow">https://247wallst.com/investing/2026/09/02/the-netherlands-just-pulled-86-4-tons-of-gold-out-of-the-u-s-to-improve-crisis-readiness-amid-global-tensions/</a>
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	France did the same thing.  When asked about it the Dutch did not mince words: we've seen what Trump did to the oval office...how much gold do you think he will need to do the same in the ballroom? We think it is better to keep OUR gold out of reach.  <span class="ipsEmoji">🙈</span>
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	<a class="ipsAttachLink ipsAttachLink_image" href="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_09/2110.jpg.beafaea38ba323c78fd498c3b7f98caf.jpg" data-fileid="62345" data-fileext="jpg" rel=""><img class="ipsImage ipsImage_thumbnailed" data-fileid="62345" data-ratio="80.04" width="937" alt="2110.thumb.jpg.3f6cfccedb17ec7fe7e1d15f7481b5ce.jpg" src="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_09/2110.thumb.jpg.3f6cfccedb17ec7fe7e1d15f7481b5ce.jpg" /></a>
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80184</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 13:41:29 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Gloria Steinem dies at 92</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80180-gloria-steinem-dies-at-92/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	<a href="https://www.theguardian.com/books/2026/sep/03/gloria-steinem-groundbreaking-feminist-campaigner-dies-aged-92" rel="external nofollow">https://www.theguardian.com/books/2026/sep/03/gloria-steinem-groundbreaking-feminist-campaigner-dies-aged-92</a>
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	She was already looking very frail and seemed a bit forgetful (or she wasn't speaking much) when I last saw her on a talkshow, I think it was the <em>The View</em>, about a year or two ago.
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80180</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 10:52:52 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>The pedantic vicar</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80153-the-pedantic-vicar/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	This makes me laugh every time I watch it. <span class="ipsEmoji">😆</span>
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	<a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTzKN1yCEaB/?igsi=MW4wczlhejk5OHk2bA==" rel="external nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTzKN1yCEaB/?igsi=MW4wczlhejk5OHk2bA==</a>
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	Doesn't the good vicar remind you of a much younger version of a recently departed (but quite possibly soon to be resurrected under a different name) forum member? <span class="ipsEmoji">😏</span>
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80153</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2026 22:16:28 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Do you get a special pleasure at seeing someone get his just deserts?</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/79998-do-you-get-a-special-pleasure-at-seeing-someone-get-his-just-deserts/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	<a href="https://meduza.io/en/feature/2026/08/19/brent-jindra-voted-for-trump-three-times-then-ice-handcuffed-his-russian-wife-at-the-airport-in-california-and-ended-his-support-for-the-president" rel="external nofollow">https://meduza.io/en/feature/2026/08/19/brent-jindra-voted-for-trump-three-times-then-ice-handcuffed-his-russian-wife-at-the-airport-in-california-and-ended-his-support-for-the-president</a>
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	"Brent Jindra voted for Trump three times. Then ICE handcuffed his Russian wife at the airport in California and ended his support for the president... In mid-July, officers from U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) detained a Russian citizen, Galina Bobreneva, in California. She arrived in the country in late 2021 and, according to her lawyer, has been in the United States legally ever since. She is awaiting a green card based on her marriage to a U.S. citizen. ICE officers sent her to a detention center anyway, where she spent more than two weeks... 
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	About 18 hours later, Bobreneva was put in a restraint belt and shackled at the wrists and ankles, and driven with several other detainees to the detention center in Adelanto. “I felt like a piece of meat, not like a human,” she said. The conditions there were appalling, Bobreneva said. The center had seven shower stalls for 120 people, and only four of them worked. Detainees were constantly short of drinking water. The sick were denied medical care until they needed hospitalization. Bobreneva also began losing sleep: the lights never went off, and the guards’ radios never went quiet... Jindra, who once called himself a MAGA supporter, grew disillusioned with Trump <strong>after</strong> his wife was detained...". 
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	It's all fun and games until you're personally affected, isn't it? <span class="ipsEmoji">😉</span> My sister used to subscribe to a website, which in 2021 would report on deaths of COVID vaccine deniers who succumbed to their own ignorance. I think the website was called "Bye, bye, denier," or something like that. That was one of her secret pleasures...
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">79998</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2026 17:50:42 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Being fit for your travel</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/80085-being-fit-for-your-travel/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	This trip if I hadn't been relatively fit I wouldn't of got through it easily 
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	Everything from lifts out to escalator etc , had to carry my luggage <span class="ipsEmoji">🧳</span> upstairs several times in Philippines 
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	Get my <span class="ipsEmoji">🧳</span> out of Grab cars , walk on uneven footpaths etc 
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	Railway station steps , balance in the train travel standing up most trips , etc 
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	Trying to balance on a train without holding on takes skill
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	People nowadays this generation don't care if your old they will push you , rush for seats etc 
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	I don't know how you guys go who are not as fit 
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	I try to go to the gym to train to travel <span class="ipsEmoji">🧳</span> 
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<p>
	If your not fit ...please all I ask you to do is ..... exercise <span class="ipsEmoji">🤸‍♂️</span><span class="ipsEmoji">⛹️</span>‍<span class="ipsEmoji">♂️</span><span class="ipsEmoji">⛹️</span>‍<span class="ipsEmoji">♂️</span><span class="ipsEmoji">🤺</span>
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]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80085</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 04:47:34 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Starving actor?</title><link>https://www.gayguides.com/topic/78773-starving-actor/</link><description><![CDATA[<p>
	I've followed this actor, on whom I have a little crush, for a while, and I got this rather cryptic e-mail from him:
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	<a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/help-154038202?post_id=154038202" rel="external nofollow">https://www.patreon.com/posts/help-154038202?post_id=154038202</a>
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	"<em>Writing to you all to let you know that due to the health of my father declining, my mother and stepfathers divorce causing massive issues in finances, my car breaking down on me, my immense debt due to supporting my family financially and finally, my rapidly declining health which has caused me to "pass out" randomly (guess I'm stressed?) .. I have to ask for support to afford rent this month. I have been doing all kinds of side jobs, gigs, streams, selling personal belongings etc. to make it, but I.. don't have it this time. I can see myself failing to make this happen and so I wanted to reach out and ask for help and support if you have the means. I don't have much to offer you (other than my sincerest gratitude), I'm sure I can do a livestream to thank you, send each of you homemade cookies in the mail with a written, personalized letter (if you're okay with brown sugar, cinnamon, choc. chip cookies), mail you polaroid's... but I'm at my limit of what I can do. <img alt=":(" data-emoticon="" src="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/emoticons/default_sad.png" title=":(" /> The number is above a thousand, but I would be grateful to even raise $5. Anything to help me find a step to stand up and continue forward</em>...".
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<p>
	<a href="https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/skyler-seymour.html" rel="external nofollow">https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/skyler-seymour.html</a>
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<p>
	<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/yoskylerseymour/" rel="external nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/yoskylerseymour/</a>
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	If I can trust the internet, he lives quite near me (in Burbank). I'm thinking of handing him over $100 cash if he'll have coffee with me. He also works as a magician, and I suppose I could hire him for entertainment at my next pool party (June 13 or 14). To make it clear: I would shoot myself before I'd ever cheat on my husband, and am not interested in an intimate encounter--just to meet him. Sound reasonable?
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	<a class="ipsAttachLink ipsAttachLink_image" href="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_03/SkylerSeymour786.jpg.1e2d98a7631a2ab965e0bf1349615aa0.jpg" data-fileid="57902" data-fileext="jpg" rel=""><img alt="Skyler Seymour786.jpg" class="ipsImage ipsImage_thumbnailed" data-fileid="57902" data-ratio="125" width="600" src="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_03/SkylerSeymour786.thumb.jpg.5bf34cecf0e36a54d3b804d941c51089.jpg" /></a>
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	<a class="ipsAttachLink ipsAttachLink_image" href="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_03/skylerseymour857.jpeg.dd3df579053d90283270b117c8e0b1af.jpeg" data-fileid="57903" data-fileext="jpeg" rel=""><img alt="skyler seymour857.jpeg" class="ipsImage ipsImage_thumbnailed" data-fileid="57903" data-ratio="103.73" width="723" src="https://www.gayguides.com/uploads/monthly_2026_03/skylerseymour857.thumb.jpeg.28a2be67fc071480e4d8b0d2bfffd53e.jpeg" /></a>
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