I just came back from Pattaya. I walked by in May, and saw this man in his bar, and thought I would say hello to him again, as I have done for some years. And I looked forward to a beer also.
He sat there looking at his phone, and did not even look up to me as I approached him and said "Hello, is this chair free?"
The conversation:
He: Didn't I already tell you?
Me: Sorry, tell me what?? When??
He: You have a boyfriend from here!
Me: Yes, and he lives with me in Finland.
He: Then you don't need to come here.
and so it went on me trying to understand why, arguing about why...getting a good answer, but no
The original reason for going to his bar the first time is that this bar is a bar for truckers. I've been a trucker for 20 years, not anymore though. Before we got along well, I always came to his bar in daytime alone. My boyfriend then usually being in WeCare getting a facial treatment. And he always came there also after he was ready, and he had a good chat with the lady that worked there. The boss just happened to be away when my bf arrived, so he never got to see us together... until last year in May. Then we sat there both having some drinks, and the boss came. We left soon and said goodbye, it was the last day of our holiday, and I did not notice anything. Perhaps the boss was not there as we left, I don't remember.
I would not be so pissed off if we had come to this bar together the first time, and he had told me to back off, this is not a bar for gays. But in this case me and him have chatted a lot during 3 years on our 1 month holidays, and everything was fine. He never asked me about my preferences. I also enjoyed chatting with some truckers from Finland, we didn't know eachother from before.