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I wasn’t talking about me. The other guy to which I replied wrote that he noticed most men transition from top to bottom when they get older. My reply is: yes because when you get older it’s harder to become hard on command. This is not a statement about me. And indeed I am still working. My retirement is far away.

Because when you get older getting hard on command isn’t as easy. I do wonder however how they prepared their ass for bottoming. I tried it a few times and find it very painful.

Don’t assume that. For young guys around age 20 it is very easy to get hard.

This is in reply to my message? Twink masseurs consider us too old?

Apparently not when you are an expat. Then this rule doesnt apply. Even if you just like me - a tourist - are at that moment a customer of the bar and like to have company of boys. Then as an expat just paying the drink is enough. Next time I will say "I am an expat, I understand you dont expect tips then so I wont give you anything, only a drink"

Well you did pay them in the above scenario more or less. You buy the bottle and share it with them. Free drinks for the boys. If they sat with you and you did not give them anything at all, and yet they chatted with you for free for 30 minutes-1 hour, does that happen? If this does happen and you get this for free I will never tip them again for sitting with me. Because why pay if other older farang get their company for free?

@Londoner: I was talking about Colombia not Thailand. Thailand is save. Isn't Colombia dangerous?

In March I was in one of the massage shops in Saphan Kwai area. And the photos the man behind the desk showed me where only muscular manly guys

I will move when I can retire. How can I move now? I dont have enough funds to retire now.

They dont have twinks correct?

Yes it is allowed. Woke is only sensitive for non-white steroetypes. Since farang = white western male it is allowed. You can even call them racist, evil etc. All allowed. Of course not allowed for any other race/gender.

Hi. I am going there later this week. Which massage shops have twink masseurs?

I often see a few boys sit with only one customer drinking together. He pays for all these boys (drinks AND tip for sitting with him)? Or he is just a regular and the boys know him and come sit for free with him?

It is a great injustice to Western Europeans that we have to travel so far and pay a lot of money to be in a setting with boy bars and go go bars and gay massage parlors. In the Netherlands there is NOTHING like this at all. And if you can get gay massage it is never from a 20 year old Asian twink. These Singaporeans can get what they want far cheaper than we. Life is unfair.

Is that legal in Thailand? In the Netherlands this would not be allowed.

I am too scared to go there. I read always horror stories. You need to rely 100% on the apps there not?

So how can it make money then and pay rent ?

Do people still go to the Golden Cock? It looks so totally run down. That bar makes money ?

I wonder what reason can there be not to want your guest being registered. It takes only one minute.

How did you avoid the dangers if it is less safe? You for example gave passport boy to hotel reception so boy knows if he does something police will know it was him. So more safe for you. Did you mainly rely on the apps? Or in most cases you scored boy in bar or so?

I forgot to add: what other job gives them so much free time ? money boy still earns way better and gives much more free time.

Not a good explanation in my view. These other opportunities pay far and far less. Having 5 customers a week gives you 7500 baht a week. What other job gives them that ?

Does Colombia have gogo bars and bars like in Jomtien? What city did you visit ? You mainly used the gay dating apps?

Agree. Direct flight Amsterdam to Bangkok used to be in the 700-800 EUR range. Now 1200-1300. It makes me go now only one time a year. In stead of two or three. I am back now after one year. I notice in the big street near BoyTown there are less massage shops with boys. They used to have a few along 2nd Beach Road opposite BoyzTown

Do they have twinks giving massage? Online I only see photos of musular guys