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    Gaybutton got a reaction from TotallyOz in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    For several reasons I still wear the mask.  For me, I wear it because nearly all the Thais wear it and I live here.  Even though the mask is no longer required in public, so many places still require it that it seems pointless to me to try avoiding it.
    Also, I have become so used to wearing the mask that now I feel uncomfortable and awkward if I'm not wearing it.  It's not hurting anything, so I wear it.  I take it off when driving my car or entering a restaurant.  Other than that, most of the time it's on.
    One other little thing - with a face that looks like mine, I'm doing the world a favor by covering it up with the mask.  A few others around here might be kind enough to consider doing the same . . .
     
    "I know I'm ugly.  On Halloween when I open the door, the kids give me candy."
    -  Rodney Dangerfield
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Ruthrieston in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    For several reasons I still wear the mask.  For me, I wear it because nearly all the Thais wear it and I live here.  Even though the mask is no longer required in public, so many places still require it that it seems pointless to me to try avoiding it.
    Also, I have become so used to wearing the mask that now I feel uncomfortable and awkward if I'm not wearing it.  It's not hurting anything, so I wear it.  I take it off when driving my car or entering a restaurant.  Other than that, most of the time it's on.
    One other little thing - with a face that looks like mine, I'm doing the world a favor by covering it up with the mask.  A few others around here might be kind enough to consider doing the same . . .
     
    "I know I'm ugly.  On Halloween when I open the door, the kids give me candy."
    -  Rodney Dangerfield
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from VancBCMan in Where do you all live & are you planning on living in Asia ?   
    That was the smart thing to do and is what I always recommend.  If serious about moving to Thailand, if possible try a long term stay first before committing and make sure to leave yourself an escape route in case it doesn't work out.  Thailand is not for everybody.  People very quickly find out that actually living in Thailand is very different from a holiday in Thailand.
    You did it just right.  People like me are living in Thailand because it did work out and we are here because we want to be here - and wanting to be here is a far cry from finding yourself stuck here.
    It is reminiscent of that old saying - "It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there."
    Folks, if you are serious about wanting to live in Thailand, make sure you are doing your thinking with your head, not your crotch.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from alvnv in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    For several reasons I still wear the mask.  For me, I wear it because nearly all the Thais wear it and I live here.  Even though the mask is no longer required in public, so many places still require it that it seems pointless to me to try avoiding it.
    Also, I have become so used to wearing the mask that now I feel uncomfortable and awkward if I'm not wearing it.  It's not hurting anything, so I wear it.  I take it off when driving my car or entering a restaurant.  Other than that, most of the time it's on.
    One other little thing - with a face that looks like mine, I'm doing the world a favor by covering it up with the mask.  A few others around here might be kind enough to consider doing the same . . .
     
    "I know I'm ugly.  On Halloween when I open the door, the kids give me candy."
    -  Rodney Dangerfield
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Lucky in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    For several reasons I still wear the mask.  For me, I wear it because nearly all the Thais wear it and I live here.  Even though the mask is no longer required in public, so many places still require it that it seems pointless to me to try avoiding it.
    Also, I have become so used to wearing the mask that now I feel uncomfortable and awkward if I'm not wearing it.  It's not hurting anything, so I wear it.  I take it off when driving my car or entering a restaurant.  Other than that, most of the time it's on.
    One other little thing - with a face that looks like mine, I'm doing the world a favor by covering it up with the mask.  A few others around here might be kind enough to consider doing the same . . .
     
    "I know I'm ugly.  On Halloween when I open the door, the kids give me candy."
    -  Rodney Dangerfield
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from floridarob in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    For several reasons I still wear the mask.  For me, I wear it because nearly all the Thais wear it and I live here.  Even though the mask is no longer required in public, so many places still require it that it seems pointless to me to try avoiding it.
    Also, I have become so used to wearing the mask that now I feel uncomfortable and awkward if I'm not wearing it.  It's not hurting anything, so I wear it.  I take it off when driving my car or entering a restaurant.  Other than that, most of the time it's on.
    One other little thing - with a face that looks like mine, I'm doing the world a favor by covering it up with the mask.  A few others around here might be kind enough to consider doing the same . . .
     
    "I know I'm ugly.  On Halloween when I open the door, the kids give me candy."
    -  Rodney Dangerfield
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Mavica in In Thailand Right Now, Do You Wear A Mask Or Not?   
    For several reasons I still wear the mask.  For me, I wear it because nearly all the Thais wear it and I live here.  Even though the mask is no longer required in public, so many places still require it that it seems pointless to me to try avoiding it.
    Also, I have become so used to wearing the mask that now I feel uncomfortable and awkward if I'm not wearing it.  It's not hurting anything, so I wear it.  I take it off when driving my car or entering a restaurant.  Other than that, most of the time it's on.
    One other little thing - with a face that looks like mine, I'm doing the world a favor by covering it up with the mask.  A few others around here might be kind enough to consider doing the same . . .
     
    "I know I'm ugly.  On Halloween when I open the door, the kids give me candy."
    -  Rodney Dangerfield
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Mavica in Pattaya: how to drive to touristic sites?   
    Is this something you've heard or read and accepted as fact?  I heard that about 20 years ago.  Doesn't it sound as utterly absurd to you as it does to me?
    I'm living proof that it is just not true, but you are by no means the only one who thinks it is.  It is nothing but a nonsense rumor that somebody started years ago, and as a result many believe it really works that way.  WRONG!  It's another one of those things that is pure horse dung, but if repeated often enough people start believing it.  Can you imagine your insurance company accepting that idea?  It's right up there with the belief that Thais don't get upset when someone close dies because of their belief in the next life.  Go to a Thai funeral.  Then tell me all about how they don't get upset.
    Twice I was involved in accidents, one in which the Thai driver of the other vehicle suffered a broken bone, and in both instances the police blamed and fined the Thai driver - not me.  And so, by the way, did his insurance company.  I also know of other accidents involving farang and the Thai driver was blamed.
    Just like it is supposed to be, if you are at fault, you'll be blamed.  If the Thai driver is at fault, the Thai driver will be blamed.
    The idea that "the farang is always in the wrong because, had he stayed in his own country, the accident wouldn't have happened" is absolutely ridiculous.  I can't cite a single verified instance when that ever happened and I doubt either can you or anyone else - and for a very simple reason.  It never happened. 
    Don't forget - if you stayed in your own country you wouldn't have been the victim of a pickpocket, wouldn't have been shortchanged by a baht bus driver, wouldn't have had the wrong order served to you at a restaurant, and wouldn't have offed a boy who turned out to be a dud.
    Oh, I nearly forgot - how careless of me - it was Trump who really won the election . . .
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from alvnv in Pattaya: how to drive to touristic sites?   
    Is this something you've heard or read and accepted as fact?  I heard that about 20 years ago.  Doesn't it sound as utterly absurd to you as it does to me?
    I'm living proof that it is just not true, but you are by no means the only one who thinks it is.  It is nothing but a nonsense rumor that somebody started years ago, and as a result many believe it really works that way.  WRONG!  It's another one of those things that is pure horse dung, but if repeated often enough people start believing it.  Can you imagine your insurance company accepting that idea?  It's right up there with the belief that Thais don't get upset when someone close dies because of their belief in the next life.  Go to a Thai funeral.  Then tell me all about how they don't get upset.
    Twice I was involved in accidents, one in which the Thai driver of the other vehicle suffered a broken bone, and in both instances the police blamed and fined the Thai driver - not me.  And so, by the way, did his insurance company.  I also know of other accidents involving farang and the Thai driver was blamed.
    Just like it is supposed to be, if you are at fault, you'll be blamed.  If the Thai driver is at fault, the Thai driver will be blamed.
    The idea that "the farang is always in the wrong because, had he stayed in his own country, the accident wouldn't have happened" is absolutely ridiculous.  I can't cite a single verified instance when that ever happened and I doubt either can you or anyone else - and for a very simple reason.  It never happened. 
    Don't forget - if you stayed in your own country you wouldn't have been the victim of a pickpocket, wouldn't have been shortchanged by a baht bus driver, wouldn't have had the wrong order served to you at a restaurant, and wouldn't have offed a boy who turned out to be a dud.
    Oh, I nearly forgot - how careless of me - it was Trump who really won the election . . .
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from thaiophilus in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from vinapu in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    I've never heard the one about the rice, but I have heard the one about leaving some on your plate.  I also know it's something someone just made up years ago and somehow it stuck.  It's not true.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from floridarob in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    I've never heard the one about the rice, but I have heard the one about leaving some on your plate.  I also know it's something someone just made up years ago and somehow it stuck.  It's not true.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from emiel1981 in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Boy69 in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    Was it a Thai restaurant?  If it was, ordering 3 or 4 dishes is the norm.  Only rarely do they order only one dish, especially if it's dinner time and for sure if someone else is paying.  In farang restaurants the meal usually includes other items, such as potatoes and vegetables and it's your own food. 
    In Thai restaurants what you order is what you get.  The meal doesn't come with anything unless you order it.
    I quite often eat with Thais in Thai restaurants.  Nobody ever orders a meal for himself.  They always order several items and everybody shares.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Olddaddy in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    Was it a Thai restaurant?  If it was, ordering 3 or 4 dishes is the norm.  Only rarely do they order only one dish, especially if it's dinner time and for sure if someone else is paying.  In farang restaurants the meal usually includes other items, such as potatoes and vegetables and it's your own food. 
    In Thai restaurants what you order is what you get.  The meal doesn't come with anything unless you order it.
    I quite often eat with Thais in Thai restaurants.  Nobody ever orders a meal for himself.  They always order several items and everybody shares.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from PeterRS in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from vaughn in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Mavica in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from vinapu in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from alvnv in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from bkkmfj2648 in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from reader in Vietnam Bar Boys   
    The idea that it is valid to prejudge a bar boy based upon where he comes from has to be one of the most absurd, idiotic ideas I have ever seen posted on these boards.
    You go to a bar, see a boy you like, call him over for a drink, and then discover he comes from Vietnam.  And that is supposed to automatically mean one way or another he is going to mistreat you or is at least more likely to mistreat you than boys who come from other countries?  I don't know what kind of mind conjured up that one, but I hope those reading this have better sense than to assume such a thing is what to expect.
    Any bar boy, no matter where he comes from, has the potential to be one of the best experiences you have ever had or the potential to be a nightmare.
    It has been my experience that how well a bar boy treats you is the likely result of just one thing, and only one thing - how well you are treating him.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from Olddaddy in Where do you all live & are you planning on living in Asia ?   
    That was the smart thing to do and is what I always recommend.  If serious about moving to Thailand, if possible try a long term stay first before committing and make sure to leave yourself an escape route in case it doesn't work out.  Thailand is not for everybody.  People very quickly find out that actually living in Thailand is very different from a holiday in Thailand.
    You did it just right.  People like me are living in Thailand because it did work out and we are here because we want to be here - and wanting to be here is a far cry from finding yourself stuck here.
    It is reminiscent of that old saying - "It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there."
    Folks, if you are serious about wanting to live in Thailand, make sure you are doing your thinking with your head, not your crotch.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from a-447 in Where do you all live & are you planning on living in Asia ?   
    That was the smart thing to do and is what I always recommend.  If serious about moving to Thailand, if possible try a long term stay first before committing and make sure to leave yourself an escape route in case it doesn't work out.  Thailand is not for everybody.  People very quickly find out that actually living in Thailand is very different from a holiday in Thailand.
    You did it just right.  People like me are living in Thailand because it did work out and we are here because we want to be here - and wanting to be here is a far cry from finding yourself stuck here.
    It is reminiscent of that old saying - "It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there."
    Folks, if you are serious about wanting to live in Thailand, make sure you are doing your thinking with your head, not your crotch.
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    Gaybutton got a reaction from PeterRS in Where do you all live & are you planning on living in Asia ?   
    That was the smart thing to do and is what I always recommend.  If serious about moving to Thailand, if possible try a long term stay first before committing and make sure to leave yourself an escape route in case it doesn't work out.  Thailand is not for everybody.  People very quickly find out that actually living in Thailand is very different from a holiday in Thailand.
    You did it just right.  People like me are living in Thailand because it did work out and we are here because we want to be here - and wanting to be here is a far cry from finding yourself stuck here.
    It is reminiscent of that old saying - "It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there."
    Folks, if you are serious about wanting to live in Thailand, make sure you are doing your thinking with your head, not your crotch.
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