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I’m in Japan at the moment. There are lots of Chinese from Taiwan and lots of Russian tourists, too. To get into Japan you have to jump through quite a few hoops. You also need proof of 3 vaccinations and not all are recognised. I don't think the Chinese ones are on the list. If that is the case it will take a long time before any prospective tourist can come to Japan, as all 3 vaccinations must be completed. I think that takes about 9 months altogether. Surely Thailand has a list of recognised vaccinations. If the Chinese just have to pass a simple Covid test, that will spell disaster for Thailand and they'll be back to where they started 2 years ago, with no tourism industry to speak of. Surely the government is not that stupid. Then again,.........

Local guys turn up late in the afternoon, probably after work. They lie down on the sunbeds, have a swim and many then head to the sauna and jacuzzi area. During the day the place is rather quiet as most guests seem to head out into town. Hmmm....maybe it's time I made another visit to Phnom Pehn!

My friends and I often went to a public bath, even though we all had baths and showers at home. People go there to enjoy the social atmosphere. Many just go to look at naked guys, with the well-endowed ones walking around flaunting their wares. A public bath near a university is always a good bet. If you go to a public bath or a hot spring and want to go into the really hot pool, here's a little tip - slowly lower yourself into the water and then sit perfectly still. Don't move at all and very soon you will stop feeling the heat. The hot pool is especially good in winter because you come out pink and your body is thoroughly heated through. It means you can walk home in the cold and not feel a thing. I'm off to Japan next month with a friend and I can't wait to introduce him to the joys of the public bath.

King of College Japanese website warns punters that when it comes to anal, the guy may not be able to get it up. The English site just says : "The boy could be not as horny as you want because of his health or any other incidents, we would like your understanding." Be warned!

3P means a threesome Circle means ok, triangle means maybe and cross means no. There is no explanation on the site but I think B refers to the customer and what he can do to the guy.

As a general rule, if you have sex in the bar you have to pay the off fee as well as what you would normally tip the guy if he were to go to your room. If the 1000 baht was collected from you on behalf of the guy, chances are he did not get it all. Is the long-haired ladyboy mamasan still there? She's a very nasty piece of work. She'll screw you for every baht if you let her. On one occasion she refused to hand over my change, insisting that I give it to her as a tip. In the end she gave it to me and in return I gave her a tip - you try that again and that will be the last time you ever see me in your bar. The tall, short-hair effeminate mamasan is just as bad.

Watching that guy in the second photo seems to have really turned you on, Nirish!

I have never found the guys to be clingy or demanding. As Nikom says, guys will often recommend their friends - they seem quite willing to share the money around and help each other out. It's one of their many admirable qualities.

It's easy to get bored in Western Australia. You have to make your own fun here. That's one reason why we travel so much.

These days google maps, rather than printed maps, is a better way to get around. Unless you are familiar with Tokyo -or any other big city - it can be a total nightmare! If I remember correctly, I was using Google maps in Osaka and it was actually showing not just the map, but a photo of the street which constantly changed as I was walking along! I'm not sure the City Hotel Lonestar is still open. In any case, as Peter says, the rooms are really small. Also, when I stayed there, you could not bring guests back.

My favourite show was called "Keiji Koronbo". You know it better as "Columbo" starring Peter Falk.

Nice looking guys. Min would be mine, but Nu would do, too!

One of the most interesting forum posts in a long time, Ruthrieston.. Thank you.

That reminds me of another incident. I collect watches as a hobby , but I never take anything expensive with me when I travel to Thailand. However, on one occasion I was sitting on the plane and when I checked the time, realised that I'd forgotten to swap over to the cheap watch I bought at the Patpong night market. I went to a massage place near Tukom in Pattaya. I took off my watch, placed it on the side table in the room and had a shower. After the massage I got changed and left but within a minute realised I'd left my watch behind so went back to get it. Needless to say, it wasn't there. The masseur and the boss pretended to search for it but, surprise, surprise, it was nowhere to be found. The masseur had a small bag and I should have asked him let me search it but I thought that might be going a bit too far. I returned the next day and offered a substantial amount of money as a reward if it were found. I was told they'd have another look and to come back the next day. It hadn't been found. It had obviously been disposed of, probably for a few hundred baht. I blame myself rather than the masseur. I should have put the watch in the safe and gone out and bought a cheap one. And the temptation for the masseur was too great, I suppose. Lesson learnt.

I once had a scary encounter back in the days when Screwboy used to be in Soi Twilight. The guy I offed immediately hopped into bed and went to sleep! I woke him up and told him he was invited back to do something else but he simply refused. I lay next to him wondering what to do? When I told him we were wasting time and asked him to leave, he becane angry, got in my face and demanded payment. He was bigger and stronger than me and even though I probably could have taken care of myself as I have a background in martial arts, I wasn't going to risk it. I'm not sure how much I paid him but I was happy just to get him out of the room. But the next night I got my revenge! I went to Screwboy every night to off someone and I spent liberally on drinks for the boys. I was a valued customer. I walked past the bar and one of the waiters rushed out to greet me and lead me to my usual seat. I smiled and walked on by. He came chasing after me. I told him what had happened and that I wouldn't be coming back to the bar - I'd take my business elsewhere. He apologised profusely and asked me to come into the bar and identify the guy. He was sitting with another customer. When he saw me he smiled and acted as though nothing had happened. After pointing him out to the waiter I got up and left. The next night the waiter came up to me and told me the boy had been fired! I had the following experience on a trip to Bali back in 2014: Just had a very unfortunate situation with Eddy. He came around at 2 pm for sex and I paid him the usual $30. But he wanted an extra $10. I told him he would not be getting another rupiah more and that he was willing to accept the $30 I'd paid him the day before. And as he'd turned up again today, I was of the understanding that he knew I'd pay the same as yesterday. But he wouldn't take no for an answer and refused to leave the room. After about about 15 minutes of a stalemate I finally just walked out of the room and left him there. I went to the bank and came back and he was still there, refusing to go. I was about to ask reception to call the police but I had a better idea. I called the cleaning staff and told them to lock the room when they'd finished. I hid down by the pool and waited for him to finally leave. What's wrong with these guys? Have they no business sense at all? I told him in bed that I wanted him to come around every day and that I was considering staying an extra week. That's a guaranteed income for him every day. And it's the going rate. Of course, he'll probably turn up tomorrow but I'll have nothing more to do with him. What a loser!

I am not into rimming guys so I would never ask a guy to do it to me. However, if they decide to go for it while they're down there, I just lie there and enjoy it. It was only after many years of travel to Thailand that a guy finally rimmed me. It was my regular masseur at Narcissis massage in Pattaya. And it took many massages before he did it. The other guy was my big-cocked regular from Natureboy. Again, it didn't happen straight away. And the first night he rimmed me he also let me cum in his mouth. I warned him I was about to cum and he just kept working on me. From then on, every encounter with him involved both. They are the only 2 guys in Thailand who ever rimmed me. One more guy who was from Laos and worked at Golden Cock gave me a blowjob in the bar and was happy to let me cum in his mouth. It was an unexpected treat so I upped my tip considerably. I would not ask a guy to do something I would not do. But if they offer, I'll gratefully accept!

I've had lots of conversations over the years with bar boys, especially those working at the old Eros and BBB in Pattaya. Plus I've spoken to my 2 regular guys and various offs over many years. The consensus is : a) Japanese guys are the friendliest, pay the most and are just into vanilla sex b) Chinese pay well but are pushy and sometimes rude c) local Thais look down on them and do not pay well d) farang are fine but sometimes argue over money e) if they were interested in a relationship it would be with fellow Thais or Japanese. Farang culture is apparently too hard to get their head around. That's info from way more than 3 guys but at the end of the day, it's only their opinions. And as we know, opinions differ.

The late Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, spoke German very well.

I had one of my guys come and live with me. Sex was on tap 24/7, although I didn't feel the need to take advantage of that. Even so, it was nice to know if was there if and when I wanted it.

I still see life through an Asian perspective, even though I now live in Australia. I can easily see why the guys prefer fellow Asians but it's hard to put into words. It's a feeling which in Japanese is called kan and refers to something along the lines of an unspoken understanding between 2 people. Some Thai guys have told me they feel different towards me than towards other farang. I kind of feel the same. I imagine it's an expression of kan. I think that, compared to farang, Asian people are more gentle in their interactions with each other. I remember when I came back to Australia to live how shocked and uncomfortable I was with the way people spoke to each other - no subtlety, just telling it like it is. Their behaviour came across as boorish and unsophisticated. In actual fact, that is not true at all; it's just a different approach to life. I also think that in Asian culture it is very much an "us and them" outlook - us Asians versus the rest of the world. So the Thai guys preferring Asian customers comes as no surprise at all to me.

Yes. When I was going over to their place I was paying the standard rate. After they became my go-to guyd and started coming to my house they dropped their asking price, based on the fact that they'd have a regular income from me. I'm quite generous and I have always believed that in life you get what you pay for, generally speaking. Apart from the money they can have a good time at my place with lots of activities available apart from sex. They also have use of my credit card at the liqour store and are free to buy whatever they want to drink. They have never abused the privilege. Like me, they are not big drinkers and just enjoy a few drinks at night so although the alcohol is expensive, we don't drink a lot of it. In return they are very generous with their time and like my 2 regulars in Thailand they are very enthusiastic in bed. And they never ask for anything. When I'm on an Asian sex trip I have sex every day - once in the afternoon and once (sometimes twice) at night. It feels like I need to get off so often because I've come all this way. Plus, the Asian guys are a real turn-on for me; I need to make up for the lack of Asians available in Perth. There are lots of Asian students at the universities here but they tend to come from wealthy backgrounds so don't need to sell their bodies. Unlike my sex trips, at home I don't need to have sex day after day and in any case I'd wear myself out very quickly. On a trip, I can only last a couple of weeks before I have to come home and have a rest. As I said, I don't know how long this set-up can continue. When it does I'll just have to visit Asia more often. At the moment, the Myannmar spa guys are looking very attractive!

I used to find rent guys advertising in the personal columns of the newspapers in Perth. I had a list a mile long to choose from and for years I'd get in my car and drive all over town whenever I felt horny. As I grew up in an Asian country it was only natural for me to prefer Asian guys but most of those advertising were Western. I got really excited when one day I found a guy who was Thai. I got into my car and rushed over to his apartment but was shocked to see he was a ladyboy! I tried to escape but he somehow managed to cut me off at the pass and before I knew it I was lying down on the massage table. He gave me a quick hand job and I then got up and rushed out the door. I found a few guys who said they were Japanese but strangely enough, they didn't understandca single a word of what I was saying in Japanese. Turns out they were Chinese. Unfortunately, they were rather pushy, just wanting to get the deed over as quickly as possible, so the sex was barely acceptable. There's nothing worse than a guy looking back at you over his shoulder asking "Have you finished yet?" I've lost count of the number of guys I've contacted through their newspaper ads, but again, the sex was very mechanical. However, I did actually meet 3 guys who I really liked. Not only did they have the necessary attributes - handsome, swimmer's body, friendly personality and big, fat cock - they were also awesome in bed and best of all, they were versatile. These 3 guys became my regulars and we have spent a lot of time together. One is now off the scene but the other 2 are available. The routine is, I'll call one over in the late afternoon or early evening. He has his own room on the far side of the house. We'll have sex then sit out on the balcony and watch the sunset while we have a drink or two. Then we go out for dinner. After dinner we'll sit and chat or get into the jacuzzi or have a swim. We then have sex again and he goes off to his room to sleep. He comes back to my room in the morning and we lie in bed for a while just chatting and planning the day before we have some more fun - usually just a wank, sometimes just a cuddle. Both guys are into cars so we often go for a drive out in the country. In winter we go to the movies and in summer we go to the beach. Then it's back home after lunch and I like to just sit on the sofa and play with my Ipad and he might go to his room for a while. There's heaps of things at home to keep him busy - I've got a gym and I've also bought an xbox with some car racing games, compete with driver's seat, steering wheel, etc. All this is just to make sure that he doesn't get bored when he comes over. Even though this arrangement is almost perfect for me, I wonder how long it will last as sooner or later the 2 guys will have to move on. That means I'll have to try and find someone else and that might be very difficult to do. The other problem is, they are not Asian. If they were, my life would be perfect. Oh well, you can't have everything.

As visitors to their country we should respect their wishes vis à vis masks. What we do in our own country is our own business. Farang disregarding local sentiment is not a good look for us Imho.

Although I live in Australia I would be very happy to live in or near Tokyo. I don't have any family but I have lots of friends in both countries. I will now probably just stay here a a couple of years ago I built my dream home by the ocean and it would be silly to give that up now. I like lots and lots of space - something that is hard to find in Japanese houses. Most of the rooms remain unused, but it's nice to know that they're there just in case. During Covid I had a live-in "friend" to look after me, so to speak. He lived on the other side of the house because I like my own space and enjoy being by myself sometimes. When I was living in Tokyo my apartment was considered quite large by Japanese standards ( my company owned it, not me ) but compared to my present house it was very tiny indeed. But while I was living in it, it never occurred to me how small it was. I guess you get used to it. I don't know if I could do that now. There is no jet lag between Perth and Tokyo so it's easy to fly back and forth as I wish. So I guess I'm attracted to the space. And anyway, the Japanese summer is unbearable!

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