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Haha - thanks Macaroni and vinapu. Thr size of a kitchen?! Heck! I didn’t know the place was so small! I’ll have a mull if I should wear my Secret Squirrel shades.. and thanks for the heads up on the Siloam Plaza massage outlets, reader. You’re incredibly connected!

Thanks again for this vinapu. I think I will try to head over to Tawan a bit earlier at say 10pm and get an inconspicuous table by the side.. to observe, but hopefully not be in the clear sight of being excessively observed to th e extent I can! These are enormously helpful tips. With all these exchanges, I’m feeling I’m so looking forward to the trip! 🙏

Thaiophilus reading and re-reading your post is making me really quite intrigued with this ‘therapy’ at SpaBangkok. Think it’s a bit of kink of mine to try to endure getting edged by a guy’s teasing hands, trying to hold out and resist, only to be slowly tipped over the edge..lol. So maybe this is a form of therapy I should bite the bullet and try. It lasts 1.5 hrs then I thunk is what you’re saying, 45 min parts x 2. I find there’s always been something very erotic going for a massage, and valiantly trying not to get aroused to avoid embarrassment- but somehow being inexorably and slowly tipped over the edge with just some strategic stroking. This treatment sounds almost like that - and I’ve always wondered if there was a tickle teasing and edging therapy, and this is probably as close as it gets .. lol, unless anyone knows of any other professional edger in BKK that I’d be up for a challenge for? thanks for the feedback.. it’s great!

What do people think of evergreen laurel? Seemingly very decent deals from 1200 Bht ongoing now and walking distance to the action.. though not obviously so since it’s more sathorn, especially if one is in BkK for other commitments as well..

Thanks reader. It looks a very modest shop indeed for an outfit to be charging what its site suggests it charges. It doesn’t even look open! theophilus - I’d be really keen to get a sense what you thought of the session you had there, and how long it lasts as the site is very vague on length of time. Did the clinician whom you couldn’t choose deliver an earth shattering treatment? Hehe thanks hugely flashBarryAllen and vinapu for your kind input. Great advice. Still haven’t booked anything hotelwise, though I’m veering away from the initial thought of staying at a hotel I had in mind one bts stop away at ratchadamri for somewhere a little closer instead. Guess I’ll need to have a sufficient stack of 100s when I do visit Tawan and the bars - wouldn’t be averse to the odd shoulder massage at least at the Tawan if that should be forthcoming …. Is it right that if someone just sits with you for 5 mins and circulates, that’s 100 each time? And more if he happens to touch or shoulder rub you during that time? I’m just trying to get a sense I guess.. thanks again for all your helpful input .. really much appreciated..

Wow, thanks so much reader, vinapu, spoon and macaroni21 - I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your input! It’s somewhat reassuring to hear spoon’s account, and the ‘walking on the other side of the road’ back and forth past the bar, internally struggling al, the way, is an experience I’m familiar with.. Maybe this time, it will be a different outcome for me! I appreciate your frank sharing and I’m dead keen to have a massage every day at Prime if organisable - like what I pretty much I used to do at Healthland every evening, at the Sathorn branch, for many of my previous BKK trips. I’ve never ever asked if a therapist from Healthland will do hotel outcall before, vinapu, but I think I will attempt this at Prime when I’m next there! Reader and vinapu - I’ve just scoured and search, and the bangkok spa outfit I meant is spabangkok - https://spabangkok.net/silom/ . But gosh, baht3200 that they have advertised there for their tantric massage - and likely tips on top of that - is very steep! I’m mulling… and wonder if any in the forum have tried that! vinapu, it looks like Tawan should be my maiden port of call for the bar scene, I read - in one of the posts here - of a forward Tawan chap massaging one’s bulge until close to one being made to lose control - whilst tactically negotiating an off fee, in that state of serious compromise, and I think such an experience would rather agree with me. Pleasure control.. lol.. and older guys would appeal more to me. I think the seemingly forward nature of the men at Tawan would facilitate engagement, with these first time attack of trepidation and nerves. Macaroni, or shamelessmack, I’m privileged to be in your company here. Your site was the first serious site I pored over for BkK massages way back, and you’re absolutely right! It was B&N - and it was your site recommendation that prompted me to go there - first ‘such’ massage I got in BKK ever. Man, that was well over a decade ago! Incredible! 🙏🙏

I’ve been a lurker on this site after discovering it at the start of the year, and have just today become a new member. This forum has been such a treasure trove of information amid really positive vibes amongst the posting members. A trip to BkK is planned shortly after over 5 years. I am recalling how in one of the 8-ish trips I’ve made to BkK ( invariably for work, with friends or family), I had mustered up the courage to go - for the first time ever - for a massage at a gay outfit in BkK. This would have been probably 10+years ago - and how my heart was thumping stepping into the shop, and having a bunch of guys semi-circling round for the choice to be made. It was in a Korean dominated complex of sorts, along sukhumvit I believe, and what a revelation that first session had been with the typical Thai enthusiasm (despite it being nothing more than just a sensuous massage with a hj and some feet fun, and nothing else). And how I got bolder in then trying out another.. Arena .. and then Senso - but again, it was purely a massage and some hj activity. Closeted here with closeted interests, and I had never been to any of the bars (didn’t have the gall to go on own!) that this forum has so much information about, nor thr saunas etc that BKK has to offer. Now after the big 50 has hit, I am much more keen to ‘live and scratch the itch’, and ‘try new things’. Carpe diem at last after all this while.. lol. Never off’d any guy, but I’m really wanting to check out one of the gay bars/ shows out with the parading boys to be off’d. I’ve read the wealth of info and the ones available, dreamboys, Tawan, etc, but could I ask for suggestions which one might be recommended as the more appropriate (eg least intimidating!) for a first timer, sole, oriental, mature visitor to go for to ease oneself into this scene … Or is there not too much to choose between the offerings? massive fan of massages here, and I’m really looking forward to trying out Prime Massage that so many in here have extolled thr virtues of.. and also maybe that Bangkok Spa Massage place in the same building as Arena in Silom that requires membership but seems to provide an intriguing tantric edging massage I’d be keen to try! If anyone has any suggestions for Thai outcall-to-hotel massuer contacts who can do nice long 2+ hours of Swedish or deep tissue massage (just handwork required, and edging an added bonus), please do let me know as there seems to be a dearth of those. I guess it wouldn’t be possible or entertained to try suggesting to individual masssurs at outfits like Prime or H3althland if they would moonlight for outcalls to hotels? thanks again for all the newsy information on this forum!