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  1. I'm also heading to SP in a couple of weeks. Did you need a CPF to join a gym or is there a pay as you go option for gringos?
  2. Agree 100% , tough words but I needed to hear them , thank u 🥲
  3. some harsh truths that I think I needed to hear 😔
  4. hey guys! hope you're well? Sorry for the longish post. Now I have a bit of a conundrum and didn't really have anyone else to ask so thought i'd post here. All thoughts appreciated! After losing my Brazil viriginity in Feb 2023, I'm heading back at the beginning of November. The land where ths sun is hot and the boys are even hotter! In the run up to my February trip, I struck up coversation with a really sweet GP (online) and the plan was to meet in São Paulo and do the deed. Now this guy is from Brasilia and only comes to SP a couple of times a year for brief stints of work. He is 100% hetero, mid to late 20s, a couple years younger than myself. Like many Brazilians he is right on the poverty line. He is trying to fund a potential career in bodybuilding/personal training and is in and out of minimum wage jobs at home and lives with his parents. Exactly my type, sweet, friendly, down to earth and built like Hercules, phenomemal chest and nips, nice tattoos and no evidence of significant steroid use. He's built but not ridicuously massive either, right on the sweet spot. We chat on whatsapp/insta every two weeks or so on average. For anyone wondering about potential safety concerns, we have been friends on whatsapp and Instagram since Feb. He has a healthy following, posts alot and seems like a friendly down to earth family boy. He is also quite shy. Im 95% sure he is fine but of course the risk is never zero in Brazil. I do have his pix/cpf too as I have helped him out a fair few times. He has also helped me alot with Portuguese. Now unfortunately we didn't get to meet in Feb as he fell sick but he wants to come back to SP while i'm there and hang out for a few days with me in my apartment before heading home. At one point I had fully accepted I'd been 'friend zoned' and was expecting that he would be staying with someone else in SP but he asked if he could stay with me. I've agreed and will be happy to host him for a few days. As I said before, he is hetero and even though I do lightly flirt with him on occassion, he always defaults to us being Bros or amigos haha. Like he'll send me a selfie knowing it will get me going, i send a love-struck emoji and he'll send a TMJ emoji (emoji for friends in Brazil) haha but I wonder if this is just because he wants something from me i.e dinheiro haha! Maybe, maybe not. Plus Im wondering if he has been trying to friend zone me since Feb. Have the benefits of a paying client without actually having to do the work HAHA Now I think in his case the Garoto programa thing may have been a one off job as he was desperate for money at the time. He also seems shy and I don't think he has the guts to be a GP but I could well be wrong. And I think If I were to ask him about it Im sure he would say it was just a one off and he no longer does that work. But my question is am I naive/wrong to expect or intiate sex when he stays over. I don't know if that ship has sailed or if I should make a move when he comes. I mean even the thought of seeing him topless in my apartment drives me crazy!! But also I'd rather not be rejected and embarrassed and just keep it friendly if i have to. I'd rather decide sooner rather than later. If its a No I can emotionally prepare myself in advance and focus on all the other hunks Brazil has to offer. Even if nothing happens I would be happy to keep him as a friend. All opinions welcome!
  5. God damn I would kill for a session with Lipe. Maybe one day 😪
  6. Trueee....I guess I struggle to get used to how bold and upfront they are! I struggle to ask my friend to buy me a drink if I forget my wallet/phone...I'm that embarrased. I was raised to never borrow money from people. Maybe if I were in their shoes and only earning a few hundred USDs per month I'd be begging to same extent, they have nothing to lose.
  7. Omg that is crazy!! The audacity.... I guess eventually after days of not responding on whatsapp they'd figure out you're ignoring them, but still a good idea. Interestingly im yet to have any issues with the brasilian chicas Ive banged..... touch wood.
  8. I say all this to say, the fact they are GPs/prostitutes shouldn't be the sole means of defining that individual. First and foremost they are people with interests, views, hobbies, lives etc just like us. But as I said, keeping it transactional is totally fine too if that's what you prefer.
  9. I think given it was my first trip to Brazil and I was alone I was more open to making friends and building relationships. Personally, just because someone engages in prostitution it wouldn't necessarily exclude them from being friends with me, especially in Brazil. I think I'm naturally more inclined to building relationships with people if they have positive characteristics and we share similar views and interests. No, you don't sound snobby, completely understand why some people would want to keep it strictly transactional.
  10. Exactly this is where I feel bad. Most are just trying to survive, in any way they can.
  11. This is so accurate man! Not even lying I've had the picture of the empty fridge too 😂 And a request for a Iphone! 🤣 For me its the lies and sob stories..why lie? I'd have more time if they said straight up 'things are tough right now can you spare anything?'. The stories they tell are book worthy lol
  12. Understandable, that would make life easier I guess. But in some cases, for me at least, a GP can unintentionally become a friend, especially where we have similar interests and you're travelling solo. Note, I only keep the numbers of people I genuinely like. If I've been forced into giving my number I do as you said.
  13. It's a slippery slope bro 🙈 I'm learning the hard way!
  14. Wow really!!? That's impressive. I don't think I throw off a 'rich guy' vibe as you put it, at least not intentionally. I think the mere fact you're in Brazil as a tourist from the UK/USA/AUS etc indicates, to them at least, that you have some level of disposable income to which they feel entitled.
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