Anthonyvan you will need a sexy picture of your torso to entice messages, a sexy mysterious profile tagline and mention you come from the US. Then, wait and watch as ur Grinder lits up and explodes inundated with messages. Then, have prepare your best cocks, ass, full body and face pics to entice further. Then, agree to meet. Be sexy, be nice and enjoy!!! That's how I did it. I also offered and paid their Uber to and from my apt, like 3 to 7 bucks each way, depending on location.