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Gay Thailand

This is the main forum for all things gay in Thailand. Post about specific events, places, activities, questions, and comments under the relevant city heading. If commenting on more than one city or other parts of Thailand, use the general comments section below. Keep the topics related to information on Thailand.

  1. Started by 18past19,

    …. the last meal at 5 star michelin place. Until we meet again, my dear Bangkok. IMG_2278.mov

  2. Started by Pandaman89,

    Hi Guys, I’ve been to Thailand a few times now, and frequented a few of the go go bars but never really understood how the process works, who to tip, how much to tip and often find my self just walking out overwhelmed by it. Looking for answers I can’t seem to find any post that are written after 2014 that talk about appropriate tips, or what the average “off” rate is to a bar or what the recommended/expected short time or long time rates are on average. There have been a few times I’ve spoken to and see guys in these bars that I would of loved to take back to my hotel and this trip would really like to. I would appreciate any advice, and r…

  3. Started by Milk78,

    for my trip later in the year I am thinking of booking the first week but then seeing where I end up. I have not done this before, I usually like to have a bit of a plan and book hotels in advance. What are your experiences of booking in advance or just rocking up and sourcing a hotel on the day (or the day before)? Do you find there is a difference in rates that you will pay - can you get a good deal as they try to fill rooms or is it better to secure better rates in advance?

  4. Was in silom tonight to visit my favorite swimwear/underwear stalls only to find they are no longer there does anyone know where they moved to, or any market in Bangkok which has stalls selling sexy men’s clothing, swimwear, fetish clothing, etc? thank you

  5. Started by Milk78,

    Planning a trip for later in the year when I can get some funds together. I am thinking about spending some time in Hua Hin. Does anybody have any recommendations or thoughts on the place? Is there a scene/ any boys? What are the apps like etc etc.

  6. Started by 18past19,

    in case anyone would like to save the date,

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  7. Started by TotallyOz,

    I met a guy up north of Thailand through Twitter and Onlyfans and said it was easier to communicate via LINE. He added me and we chatted. He added me to a few of his groups. It was odd but I joined. I didn't see anything going on so I thought boring. He asked one day if I liked the new video and I didn't know what he was talking about so I went to the group chat and no conversations. But, when I clicked NOTE, there were hundreds of his videos there. I could save them all. I was a bit surprised but it was fun. I have been added to other groups and now started checking and the same things. Anyone else do this?

  8. Started by Londoner,

    Has anyone been fortunate enough to experience the traditional ceremonies for Songkran, still practised in many areas of the country? I find the visits to elderly relatives, the sprinkling of water and the delight that is visible on the faces of the recipients touching....if only we showed similar respect here in the UK.

  9. Started by tomtom69,

    Hi, i am going to be back in bangkok and pattaya this May and it will be my first trip since covid. I am a size queen btm and was wondering if anyone here can share experience and recommendations for well endowed guys.

  10. Started by TotallyOz,

    I have found many lads recently on the apps from Vietnam and not working in the bars. In a conversation with @paulsf he said he heard this is happening more often. I am glad for this. I guess I was hoping that Screwboys would open soon and draw them all in. But, being a bit impatient, I made a booking with one yesterday for this weekend. He quoted 2k for short time plus transportation. He was cute and versatile. I am looking forward to traveling to Vietnam even if only for one hour (or less).

  11. Started by t0oL1,

    Heading to Thailand in August. Any interesting bars in Nahkon Sawan?

  12. Started by TotallyOz,

    I do think massage shops should disclose if a guy has beads in their penis. I had a guy from Intra yesterday and he was handsome but his dick had several beads in it. It is a complete turnoff for me. I know they will never disclose this, but I'd like to know in advance and may even start asking.

  13. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    I admit that I had no idea what "cisgender" meant before reading this article--and I'm not altogether sure I do now. From The Nation What can businesses do to improve the work environment for transgender people? That was the question asked by transgender representatives at a recent Bangkok seminar to discuss issues they still encounter at work – and potential solutions. “Thailand appears to be an LGBTQ heaven, but in reality they are only tolerated, not included. Otherwise, we would see a greater presence of them in all kinds of occupations,” said Nikki Phinyapincha, founder of the TransTalent consulting group. Nikki was speaking at the “Tr…

  14. Being a southern boy and growing up in the deep south, I sometimes get a desire for some good southern food. It is hard to find outside of the south in USA. I grew up going to Mardis Gras every year since I was a toddler. Bourbon Street was always a stop and I still remember my youth of looking inside a bar and seeing fuck shows on stage. I collected beads and necklaces for years and years. I marched in several parades with my band. Recollections of good Cajun food are infused with these memories. A friend took me to this restaurant. It is great food and reasonable prices. I had Spinach Artichoke dip for appetizer and Red Beans and Rice with Italian Spice Sausag…

  15. A bit out of the gay falang favourite Silom area, but while scrolling twitter I found this fetish cafe: 500cafe. Location on Google maps: https://g.page/r/CUrXQRX8mnJ8EBM Looks exciting, something else than the regular places. I'm not a hardcore fetish person, but still looks interesting. Anybody been there? https://www.facebook.com/500cafebangkok https://twitter.com/500cafebangkok https://instagram.com/500cafebangkok

  16. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From The Nation Thailand’s heat index – a measure of temperature and humidity – will soar as high as 45.8 degrees Celsius (114.44 Fahrenheit) on Wednesday, according to the Thai Meteorological Department (TMD). The department forecast the hottest areas in each region as follows: North: Tak province, heat index of 41C Northeast: Si Sa Ket, 38.4C Central: Bangkok’s Bang Na district, 45.5C East: Chonburi, 45.8C South: Phang Nga, 43.3C The heat index, also known as the “felt air temperature”, combines air temperature and humidity to measure how hot the weather actually feels to the h…

  17. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Thai Newsroom WITH Songkran festival kicking off next Thursday (Apr. 13) revellers might be disappointed to hear that Silom road will not be close this year for them to gather there for a splashing good time but they can still enjoy themselves on the sidewalks and the alleys leading off this key artery of the metropolis, Naewna newspaper said this afternoon. Bang Rak district said while Silom road will not be closed, their officials and the police will be on hand to take care of revellers and tourists who gather on the sidewalks and alleys to participate in this festival. The district office added that there are many other places in Bangkok where Songk…

  18. Started by Milk78,

    I have finally made it back to BKK! It is two years since I was here last, my first time in the city, and I have had to cancel the trip at least twice during that period because of Covid. I long debated whether i would come this time with all the restrictions still in place and the danger of testing positive and ending up in a hospital for 10 days! I arrived at 5am this morning, was in my room and tested by 6.30am. The test results came back all clear at 1.30pm. Not a bad turnaround I suppose. In June last year I picked up an amazing flight deal which worked out at 50% of the normal price of return Premium Economy with Swiss. It turns out that the tickets were…

  19. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From World Beach Guide Thailand is well known for its beautiful beaches and to some extent this has meant that many of the most amazing beaches are now over-crowded and heavily commercialised. However, you don’t have to go to far off the beaten track to still find a pristine gem and the island of Koh Kradan is home to just such a beach.This stunning stretch of powdery white sand remain a relative haven despite being only a few kilometres off the mainland. Ko Kradan is one of the Trang Islands, a group of around 40 large and small islands which form a major part of the Hat Chao Mai national park. Of all these islands and islets Koh Kradan is perhaps the mos…

  20. Started by ichigo,

    Hi all, I'm just having a think about my next Thailand holiday and would love spend some days having a relaxing time on an island resort. As Thailand's islands are plentiful, I'm hoping for some recommendations if you have any. Preferably easy to get to (like one flight from Bangkok, or one ferry ride), beach/ocean views (from the hotel), good food nearby etc. Not completely remote, but not too built up either. Not too worried about gay bars or massage parlours as I'm sure there will be options on Grindr. I've already been to Phuket and Koh Larn, so preferably somewhere I haven't been. Or even somewhere coastal, not necessarily an island. If you have any ideas, I wou…

  21. Started by a-447,

    Having made contact with my regular Bangkok guy and ascertaining that he was still in Bangkok, I decided to fly up to meet him. We arranged to meet in Nature Boy/Golden Cock and to celebrate catching up after 3 years we started drinking beer. We had 3 beers each and although that probably doesn't sound a lot to many, if you are basically a non-drinker like me, it is. We returned to my hotel to catch up on lost time. After he left I really needed to piss after all that beer but was unable to do so. I stood waiting for about 10 minutes or so but even though I was busting, nothing happened. Not a drop. Not a dribble. It goes without saying that the urge to pis…

  22. Started by 18past19,

    I am sure many have talked about jt multiple times before and I am sorry for having to create a new topic on this subject. For some reason, I am having a glitch using the search function. I usually used XOne or that jewellery shop on Surawong for exchanging money on my previous trips. But this time I am arriving on Songkran, and I dont think either will open. So I am thinking to use the ones in the lower levels of the airport which many have recommended here. My flight will arrive late so I wonder how late they open.

  23. Started by Milk78,

    I am planning a trip to LOS at some point between late April and the beginning of June. Hotel prices, whilst not expensive seem to have risen a fair bit. There are still deals to be had for sure, but this time out there I am looking at apartment/ condo options that will help me keep the costs down. If anyone has any recommendations that can post that would be really helpful. I am not particularly fussed where as my travel plans are very flexible, so any of the usual spots - BKK, Chiang Mai, Pattaya, Ko Samui, Being close to the boys would be good, at least not miles away from any action. Wifi is important. Any thoughts?

  24. Started by Ryanqqq,

    Hello, has anyone got info if 45 visa exempt will be extended after March? Thanks

  25. Started by fedssocr,

    I couldn't quite figure out where to put this... But I've been out in Kanchanaburi for the last few days. Yesterday we visited Huay Mae Kamin waterfall. It's about 45km past Erawan Falls which are currently closed due to storm damage a couple of weeks ago. It is spectacular and magical. It's quite reminiscent of Kuang Si in Luang Prabang with several levels and beautiful green waters. Also quite easy to get to with parking right near the most beautiful parts of the falls. But take the walk to tier 6 and you're rewarded by an enormous abundance of butterflies. I've never seen anything like it. Well worth the 300 baht entry for foreigners Lots of long drives and windin…

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