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    • As has been pointed out...Cam and I have really only spent maybe a total of 12 days together between my trip last October and the most recent trip.  I do have a sense that he is somewhat honest.  I really had not considered the sponsorship seriously, and didn't realize part of the negotiations for this type of arrangement could include limits on what they can do with other customers.  I guess in the back of my mind I didn't think the bars would be ok with guys making such arrangements as it might impact their business.  Perhaps I just overthink these things too much.  If Cam were to agree to just drinks with customers...no off's...if I were to provide a monthly stipend...I might be open to such an arrangement.  Trust would be the key factor, as you have pointed out...and we haven't really spent enough time together for me to know.  While I want to say 'yes, I trust him completely' and go full speed ahead, I don't think we have spent enough time together to develop that level of trust.  Hopefully, after spending three months together I will have a better feel for that.   The guy in Pattaya with four sponsors sounds like my ex.  Why we are no longer together.  Seems during his travels for work he had something going on the side in 4 different cities...juggled five of us with nobody knowing about the others until it finally caught up with him.  Once the proverbial cat was out of the bag, that was the end of the relationship for me as we were supposedly monogamous.   What I do know is this...while I have met a number of nice guys and had some great fun...the only one that I think is honest and that I could trust is Cam.  As far as the others go, I only believe 1/10th of what they have told me and know the minute I walk out the door they are on to bigger and better things.  The next trick is just around the corner...so to speak.  
    • In the cities list, the only one in colombia is bogota...
    • The young man I met back in October who works for K-bank and was asking for a minimum of $500 USD monthly salary was easy to walk away from and laugh at such a request.  Interesting that you mention providing him with a tip for long distance work.  I hadn't really considered that as work, but I suppose from his perspective he may just consider it part of the job.  No idea about that.  He does text regularly, we have had a couple of video calls, and a couple of serious discussions.  These do make me happy...interesting point you make.   I don't plan to offer any assistance, and some of the financial stuff is just me doing stuff independently without his involvement or knowledge so that if and when a request does come up, I can decide then if I am willing to help and I will have a general idea of how much and how I can get it to him.  You can probably tell I am an A-type person.  I am also a curious person by nature, so some things I am aware of because I asked general questions when we were together.  That is how I know he doesn't have a Thai bank account.  Why he didn't get one when he was in Thailand legally...not a clue.  Didn't ask him, and he didn't offer an explanation.  I would venture to say he probably regrets that now.    
    • I know...I'm all over the place on this at the moment.  Hopefully things will settle down and I will develop a clearer picture of things.  Appreciate your comments very much.  
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