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I’ve been in Japan for a few weeks - two weeks in Nagoya now. I’m here doing a 33 Kannon temple pilgrimage, which has been an amazing experience, but I know that’s not what you guys want to know about (but PM me if you want to know more). Because I have been doing a lot of walking, I have been trying to hit onsens/sentos whenever I can. There are some really great ones here and they are much cheaper than in Tokyo. Not much English available, so it’s been a challenge, even though I can speak some Japanese and lived here for 6 years (and have been back often).  Sentos make me horny.  Ok, so Nagoya. Grindr has been a bust. As soon as my Shinkansen pulled in, I got some messages. One from a guy with a really big cock. I said I was interested once I checked in. Then he told me he was a money boy. I asked how much and he said 3,000-4,000 yen. Hmmm…suspiciously cheap. I asked for more photos. The other photos showed that he was more average Japanese size, which was not a problem for the price, but let’s just say my enthusiasm waned. He has continued contacting me, but I’m not really sure if I want to meet him. Another guy with another nice dick contacted me. He was nearby and wanted to meet for a blow job. The interaction was a little strange. Like he wanted to, but he didn’t. I was ready to give up and then he said he was outside my hotel. I went out to meet him. He approached me with his hand covering his face. Again, he was acting strange, like he wasn’t sure. Finally, he said, “ok” and walked towards my hotel and walked to the elevator like he knew where he was going. I guess he’d been here before. We came up to my room and he stood in the entryway. He didn’t want to go to the bed. He pulled down his pants and his cock was not as big as in the photos. I still don’t get how, or why they do that. I started sucking him and he was trying to turn my head sideways and fuck my mouth, but it just wasn’t working. He also wasn’t getting very hard. I was relieved when he pulled up his pants and left. He blocked me before he got on the elevator. It was so strange, I checked to see if I had been robbed. So since Grindr wasn’t going well, I booked a guy with Dojo Group. His name was Goku and he was only in town for a week and looked like he was getting fully booked. I went to the shop to meet him because I wasn’t sure about my hotel policy (now I see that they never look up from the front desk and are usually busy). When he opened the door, I was pleasantly surprised. Dojo Group will give you a login code if you ask so that you can see the guys’ faces clearly, but his face was still blurred. In person, he was adorable. A cute, young, straight boy. He was wearing a shirt with cutoff sleeves and had beautiful arms. Not huge, but nice hard muscles. He was also super friendly and affectionate. After we took care of the money, he immediately started snuggling. We chatted a bit, and I was wondering when we were going to do the shower and mouthwash. I was also conscious of time. I had booked 1.5 hour. https://www.dojo-group.com/ipn/osaka/prof/?prof=648 Long story short, I began to undress him (he wasn’t making the moves), began sucking his cock, and then when I suggested we move to the bed, he told me to shower. The sex was not the best. I mean, he really was a straight boy, but I had fun and I came (he didn’t). Yesterday I had a sento/massage day and the sento was packed with hot young boys. It’s apparently spring break and everyone went to the sento. I saw a few really nice cocks, one which I think the guy was playing with and got semi hard, and one guy with the most incredible ass. I was super horny when I left. The place I went to had a free shuttle bus from Nagoya station. I was on the bus and someone hit me up on Grindr. He was nearby. He wanted me to go suck his cock. He kept saying “quick suck”. I couldn’t get off the bus, because it only went to the station. But when I got to the station, I took a taxi back and met this guy. He wasn’t Japanese. I think he was Thai. When I asked him, he said he was Taiwanese (I know Taiwanese vs Thai accents and I don’t believe him). He was older than in his photos and his cock was not as big. Also, he didn’t just want a quick suck. He wanted to fuck me, he wanted me to fuck him (we did neither) and he had this weird wild-eyed look like he was on something. I did my best to make him cum quickly so I could leave. So, that’s been Nagoya so far. I’m not here for the sex, so it’s okay. Goku is based in Osaka and I think will be in Shinjuku in a few weeks. His photos don’t do him justice. I think he’s trying to flex in the photos and it makes his body look weird. In person, he was perfect. If you want to snuggle with a hot straight boy, try him. If you want good sex, maybe not.    

even those 3 days together may modify your thoughts

like removing Olddaddy from your will ?

The point is that you simply choose to believe the alleged victims (in fact, you label them "victims" rather than "alleged victims," totally discounting any possibility you might be wrong). The human tendency to believe victims should be tempered by a willingness to examine facts, and not just statements. Currently, there is zero supporting hard evidence. One would be hard-pressed to even estimate the chance that these accusations are true (or false). At least if they were to test the out-of-wedlock children's DNA, they could show that the odds aren't zero that Huerta is being truthful. Of course, this wouldn't show whether or not the sex was consensual--just that sex between the two did happen. The fact of the matter is that neither you nor I know whether these allegations are truthful. Is she just trying to cast herself as a victim? Trying to improve her reputation after giving up two out-of-wedlock children for adoption? One piece of fact that makes me a bit uneasy at taking the accuser at face value is the fact that she claims two episodes of unwanted sexual intercourse (though in one case she says she was "manipulated" into consenting), and became pregnant each time. Even if Chavez was extremely unlucky, and happened to time the sex (both times) during the 1-2 days before ovulation, there's still only a 10-30% chance of pregnancy resulting in a live birth each time: AI Overview The probability of pregnancy from a single act of unprotected intercourse with a fertile woman varies significantly based on timing, ranging from nearly 0% outside the fertile window to approximately 10-30% during the most fertile days (1–2 days before ovulation). On average, the likelihood is about 3-4% per act of intercourse over a full cycle.  The New England Journal of Medicine https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM199512073332301 So even if we give the most generous interpretation of the data, that he happened both times to have sex with her during her two fertile days per cycle, and that the odds are 30%, not 10%, that still gives the odds of becoming pregnant both times to be 30% X 30%, or 9%. Outside the peak two days, or if we take the middle range of estimates, the odds drop dramatically. 9% is simply the maximum odds, with the most generous interpretation of the data, of two episodes of sexual intercourse during the fertile window resulting in live births. (I should also note that Huerta was in her 30s both times, hardly a woman's most fertile years) Even if the out-of-wedlock children are shown to be Chavez's, these data would make one have to consider the likelihood that his two children are more likely to have resulted from multiple (presumably consensual) sexual acts, rather than from two unwanted ones. There is little disincentive to falsely accuse, as prosecutions against those who falsely accuse are rare. In Huerta's case, the odds are zero, since she didn't make these accusations under oath, so could not be prosecuted for perjury. This article describes a rare case in which the false accuser was prosecuted: https://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/99-of-false-accusations-go-unpunished-center-for-prosecutor-integrity-asks-why/ "99% of False Accusations Go Unpunished.... Nikki Yovino of New York falsely accused two football players at Sacred Heart University of rape. The woman later admitted that she had lied to gain the sympathy of a prospective boyfriend. As a result, Yovino was sentenced to one year in prison, plus two years of probation... One of the falsely accused men, Malik St. Hilaire, sadly recounted, “I went from being a college student, to sitting at home being expelled, with no way to clear my name. I just hope she knows what she has done to me. My life will never be the same. I did nothing wrong, but everything has been altered because of this.”...False allegations are widespread in the United States. A national survey sponsored by the Center for Prosecutor Integrity found that 8% of Americans — 11% of men and 6% of women — report being falsely accused of sexual assault, domestic violence, or child abuse. The 8% figure represents 20.4 million adults (2)...".

and it's far from over