I’ve been a lurker on this site after discovering it at the start of the year, and have just today become a new member.  This forum has been such a treasure trove of information amid really positive vibes amongst the posting members.     A trip to BkK is planned shortly after over 5 years.    I am recalling how in one of the 8-ish trips I’ve made to BkK ( invariably for work, with friends or family), I had mustered up the courage to go - for the first time ever - for a massage at a gay ou