As I've aged, getting into the Holiday spirit is less of a priority. In fact, all the prep and money is a burden, and you always get out of it LESS than you give.
Some of us just enjoy Peace & Quiet in our golden years. And I certainly DONT need another pair of slippers or a fruitcake !
And ESPECIALLY here is the US during the TRUMP administration, all the joy of life is being sucked out of it, and there are so many more important things to focus on, other than gifts, decorations, and a VERY expensive meal. We are immersed in Fear & Worry.