Gapguy

Depend on the app since some restrict what you say. Jack'd I put Money Ok. Hornet I put generous visitor.
The good thing with Jack'd , and Hornet you can search where you are going in advance and just say Hi. Make a comment they are cute or sexy.
If they contact me I am relatively sure they expect money and just let the chat go that way. If they don't respond at all I erase them so as not to be confused.
I almost always have 1 or 2 possibilities weeks in advance and then wait until I get there for additional options. I have rarely not found a cute companion.
Also Gayromeo has an Escort Section which can be quite interesting but I always look in the regular section also. I don't waste my time sending messages to anyone who has not been on line in the last 7 days.
I think many do not have thoughts of a commercial encounter but when faced with some easy money , they become somewhat interested .
Not all but some. It is a numbers game.