daddy4top

As someone who has been to Morocco multiple times, I think the OP's observations are spot on.  The fact that tourism has exploded in the last decade or so, especially in Marrakech makes the matter worse.  You are viewed as simply a conduit for money.  Not all Moroccans are like this, but unfortunately, so many are. 
I would say 80 percent of the guys I hooked up with in Morocco in one way or another engaged in some sort of deceit.  As soon as the experience was finished, that is when the shoe drops and they come at you from left field either wanting money, even if no money exchange was discussed at all, or they are wanting more than agreed to.  I had two experiences where the guy refused to leave the place until I gave him more than what was bargained for.  It then became an almost endless haggle to agree upon an amount just to get them out of the place.  Let alone pretty scary actually.  You have someone in your apartment, that shouldn't even be there whom you don't know and who you can't report unless you are willing to be scrutinized yourself for doing someone in a country that Is strictly forbidden.  
This leads me to why Morocco is so tricky in these instances.  Homosexuality is illegal.  There are no rights and you can go to jail for practicing it.  Hotels will not allow unregistered guests in.  They are not legally allowed to do this.  Any stories of a hotel 'allowing' or turning a blind eye to this I would look to with suspicion.  There are a lot of legal risks for a hotel to allow a foreigner to host some hot Moroccan man.  So that leads to really the only viable solution for a foreigner to host a Moroccan and that is in an apartment  Most buildings have security/guardsman so depending on that person will mean the difference between being able to host in your apartment or not.  Sure you could bribe security but its a risk.  There are a few places you can get with no security or guardsman.  This is the easiest way to ensure you'll have no problem even getting a guy into your place (hopefully no prying eyes are watching), but it is also the most risky because you are most vulnerable and the guy knows this.  Some unfortunately will take advantage.  If you don't give them what they want they will use this against you.  They'll tell you homosexuality is illegal, they'll refuse to leave without an outrageous amount of money and yes, some are willing to be violent about it.
So who has more to lose.  Well the OP got into that well.  You need to have a steely nerve to deal with some of them and they are used to a hard life and using hard tactics.  I've been to a few dozen countries and have met men in pretty much all of them and nowhere else have I had as many negative experiences with local men, be it escorts or just men in general than in Morocco.  For me, i'm done with it.  Simply isn't worth all the effort and there is a real risk of having a really bad experience with a guy and you are completely vulnerable.
So - it is too bad because Moroccan men are among the most beautiful in the world and they are usually very well equipped, but all the difficulties and anxiety associated with it for me is no longer worth it.