SonofWind

You are right about finding the right men. It's a matter of preference, realism and (cultural) expectations.
All the men in Egypt I have met and slept with were friendly, curious, warm-hearted, confused, and wishing to share a part of their culture with me. That most often turned me on in combination with the chaos, heat and chilled vibe the county and its men definitely have.
One more thing I would like to add: I am aware of the fact that I am not the most attractive guy in terms of beauty standards. Therefore, in the West, like many of may friends I share this topic with, I am not seen. I hardly exist. The sole human right of existence - utterly present in beautiful Egypt - makes me alive. 
Good luck!
 
 

I’ve been twice and never had any issues, but I kept things low-key in public. Locals were generally friendly, and tourist areas felt safe as long as you’re respectful.

A friend told me that I would be impressed in Pattaya, but then I was sick