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Since it had been years since I last visited Kuala Lumpur, I decided to stop over there for two nights. I stayed at the Ibis Styles Bukit Bintang. The location is great, right on the food street, which gets very lively in the evenings. The hotel has the advantage that you don't need a key card in the elevator (there is a card reader, but it doesn't work). So you can let young people up to your room without having to pick them up downstairs. Otherwise, I was a bit disappointed with the hotel. I've stayed at Ibis Styles hotels in several cities, including Bangkok's Silom, but this one in Kuala Lumpur really doesn't meet the standards you expect from this brand. Not that there was anything particularly wrong, but with an Ibis Styles, expectations are somewhat higher than what this hotel delivers. Not only about how the hotel and rooms look, but also with regards to choices.at breakfast buffet that were limited in my opinion. 
As soon as you turn on Grindr in Kuala Lumpur, the messages start pouring in. Plenty of choice. Both free offers and moneyboys. And both from good-looking guys. In my case, bottoms eagerly looking for tops. According to one of the guys, Kuala Lumpur has a surplus of bottoms and not enough tops. Maybe that's why I was so popular. The moneyboys' asking prices varied enormously. I had two asking 500 Malaysian Ringgit, but also offers of 180 MR for massage and sex and 200 RM for sex from two also very good-looking moneyboys. I didn't figure out what the big difference was. Because again, both the expensive and the cheaper moneyboys all looked good.
I met a guy on Grindr and met him about a year and a half ago in Bangkok. We'd had a great time that time, so I invited him back to my hotel room. He was the money guy who charged 200MR for his services. A very good offer. And the service he provided was indeed as good as I could remember from our meeting in Bangkok. As you've come to expect from me, here's a picture of him:

After checking out of Le Méridien, I relaxed by the pool. It's vacation, after all. Late afternoon, I took a short stroll with my suitcase to Quarter Silom, where I'll be staying for the next two nights. I'd specifically requested a room in Tower 3, as it's easy to pick up a guy there without having to go through the main building and reception. After settling in and freshening up with a shower, my regular was at the door as agreed. Promptly at 5 p.m. 
He's half Thai and half Dutch. And being punctual isn't the only thing Dutch about him. It's also the price he charges. The same price you pay for an escort in Europe. Anyway, as mentioned in previous trip reports, I know he's worth it. And this time was no exception. I had an extensive massage that became increasingly erotic, and the extra service after the massage was five-star. A wonderful blowjob and a willing bottom. With a good body. And he moans in a very exciting way. For your entertainment, here's another picture of him:

Tonight, I met up with a forum member for drinks. He arrived at the boy bars a bit earlier because I was still having dinner. We discussed our options via chat. I wanted to go to a different bar than Freshboy or Goodboy, as I'd been there a few days earlier. We decided to try Hotmale. By the time I got there, around 9:30, he was already inside and the only customer. Even though he hadn't been inside long, he already had a guy sitting next to him. He doesn't waste any time.
The show started at 10 p.m. It was a short one. Still not many customers. During our time there, a few customers came in, usually ordering a drink but generally not staying very long. We saw quite a few customers come and go, but it was never crowded. The number of guys on rotation was also a bit disappointing. I recognized two guys from previous visits. When the fellow forum member left with his guy, I had one of the two guys I knew join me for a drink.
The boy told me that other bars have more customers, but they also employ more attractive guys. This makes it harder for him to get a customer in a busy bar, due to the "competition" from his colleagues, than in a quieter bar. Because he's worked at the same bar for a long time (10 years), he performs in various acts on the show. On a night when he works and performs, he earns 1,000 baht from the bar for performing in the show numbers. That's a nice basic income. And if he occasionally accompanies a customer home/to a hotel, it's a nice supplement. Somehow, a threesome with a customer and a second guy from the bar also came up. He's done that before. But he and the other guy from the bar don't have sex if it's a friend of his from the bar. In that case, both guys in the threesome would focus solely on the customer and not on each other. There are also guys working at the bar with whom he's less close, and he'd have sex with them.  It's happened a few times that he and another guy from a bar have sex, and the customer just watches and masturbates. I asked some more questions, and that led me to discover that he's also open to going to another bar with a customer and finding a guy to go with for a trip, and then having sex with him. Something to keep in mind... Haha.

On my second day, the afternoon was spent relaxing by the pool at Le Méridien Hotel. It was a wonderful place. The water was just the right temperature for me. It cools you down a bit when you step in, but it doesn't feel cold.
I had dinner at Pepper Lunch. They have several locations in Bangkok, including the Silom Complex. I don't think I've ever read about it on the forum. It's simple but delicious food, in my opinion. Some might consider it a fast-food restaurant, but I really like the beef pepper rice. Especially in terms of value for money. For less than 10 euros, I had the jumbo (large) beef pepper rice with an iced tea.

Meanwhile, a British guy had contacted me on Grindr. He was very tired, stayed in his hotel room, and was looking for someone to suck off. It would be rude not to come over, right? And he kept his word. He sucked really well. And was very good kisser. He also looked quiet good. See pic below. He was staying at the Amara Hotel, which immediately gave me the opportunity to check out their rooms. I'd considered booking a room there, and after seeing their room, I definitely would. My date had a room with a bath. The bath is in front of a large window, giving you a beautiful view of the city while soaking in it.

Satisfied, I then strolled around Silom. Soi 2 was just as quiet as yesterday. I was worried there would be hardly anyone in the bars. But when I went into Freshboy, it was about 75% full, and more people came in after me. By the time the second round of shows started, it was almost completely full. The show consisted of five parts (including two ladyboy lip-syncs, a shower show, an erotic dance, and, of course, a big dick show—banging their poles against an iron pole). Because of the show was not too long, it didn't much time for the guys with their number tags to reappear on stage. Nice. A good selection of guys were there that night. What I did find strange was that when I ordered a drink, I didn't get the bill in a jar; I had to pay immediately. That was new to me. I noticed that for some customers, bills were put together in a jar, but for others, like me, they weren't. I have no idea why they made that distinction. And I found it rather unpleasant. I only ordered one drink this time, but if you order multiple drinks or boy drinks, are you expected to tip every time? Is this a new way to extort extra tips?
When the customer next to me decided to take a boy back to his hotel, I noticed that the boy discreetly slipped a small piece of paper to the ladyboy/mamasan. The ladyboy who's always there and hosts the bar. I thought, maybe that's the receipt the boys get when a customer orders a drink for them, and with that receipt, the boy can get his tip for that drink from the bar? And because mamasan arranged the customer for this boy, does mamasan get this drink tip from the boy?
I also popped into Goodboy where a show was happening. Not many customers. Mamasan also said it was a quiet evening and kept begging for a drink a bit too long, which I didn't give. I did give her a tip at the end, though, as I almost always do. One of the show numbers was a kinky performance by two guys hitting each other with a whip. They came through the audience at the end and lingered near me. One was good-looking and gave me a good vibe and attention. I decided to buy him a drink. There was a lot of touching and kissing. His English was also good, so we could chat a bit. He's from Laos. During the show, I thought there weren't many customers, but there weren't many guys either. But when the show was over, the guys suddenly appeared from somewhere (I have no idea where, because they weren't outside when I went in), and the stage was full. Just like the upstairs neighbors of Freshboy, there was a good selection of guys. What I did find a bit disappointing was that two customers were smoking in the bar. Ugh.
What struck me during my previous visits to Goodboy, and again now, is how engaging the guys are. They genuinely flirt with you and don't shy away from eye contact and "other kinds of interaction" in the bar.
It was a fun evening!

Never had such a stressful start to a holiday... While I was on the train to the airport (the travel time from my home to the airport is over two hours), I saw that the plane that was supposed to fly me from Amsterdam to Doha was still in Doha. According to Qatar Airways, the delay would be about five hours. With a three-hour layover in Doha for my flight to Bangkok, I was already getting a bit grumpy. I wouldn't make that connection. But the closer I got to the airport, the more negative the news became. Missile attacks in Doha and the surrounding region. Check-in wasn't open yet at the scheduled time. I had to come back in an hour because there was still no news about whether the flight would even go ahead. And the delay had now increased to eight hours. Just before the hour was up, I received an email from Qatar Airways. My flight had indeed been canceled. My gut feeling told me I had to act quickly and find an alternative flight. Because many people will do that. I managed to book the last seat on a direct KLM flight at a reasonable price. Departure in about three hours. Perfect.  Go straight to check in.
In the past, I always avoided direct flights from Europe to Bangkok. Sitting on a plane for twelve hours straight seemed like a real nightmare. And indeed, it was twelve long hours. Economy class. There was plenty of legroom, and the food tasted good. But still. Eventually, I couldn't quite figure out how to sit anymore. I started to get a bit of back pain. One advantage: despite the departure time being later than my original flight with Qatar, I arrived in Bangkok hours earlier because it was a direct flight.
Arrival in Bangkok went very smoothly. There were no lines at all at immigration. I was able to walk straight through. And by the time I'd gotten money from the ATM and purchased a SIM card, my suitcase was already on the conveyor belt. I reached Silom by taxi (fixed 600baht including toll) without any traffic jams. And when I tried to check in at Le Méridien around noon, they already had a room available for me. Wonderful. A bit of positivity after a stressful start to the day.
A short nap turned into a few hours' sleep. And even after that, I felt tired. Of course, I'd turned on Grindr in the meantime. Among others, a muscular freelance masseur showed up. After work as a personal trainer, he'd be able to come by at 10:30 p.m. But whether I'd still be up for it, as tired as I felt...

To Sarica restaurant on Surawong Road for the cashew chicken famous on this forum. Always a good start to a stay in Thailand. Tasted delicious again. As always. By now it was around 9 p.m., and I decided to stroll around the Patpong night market and Soi 2. I was struck by how quiet the streets were there. The touts, of course, tried to get me into the various boy bars. But I wasn't in the mood tonight. Still tired. After a stop at 7-Eleven, I went back to my hotel room. Where I did feel a certain lust. So I decided to call in that freelance masseur after all. Of course, I couldn't risk some forum members making comments like "How can you waste your first night like that?" if I didn't invite a boy. Haha.
Well... my first evening ended up being anything but a waste. The guy spoke good English, so we had a nice conversation. The massage was good. And then the extras... Wow. He was a great blowjob guy and a willing bottom. It's always wonderful when you see someone going all out and (seems to?) enjoying it too. An active bottom whose movements stimulate your arousal, rather than one who just lies still. A nice welcome back to Bangkok for me! And for your reference, below is a picture of his body.

Hello everyone, 

I'm very new to this forum, but I have read through a lot of existing posts and the community is amazing and offers a lot of brilliant advice. 

I visited Tokyo for 8 days in Febuary and thought it would make a good first post. I apologise for my writing style in advance as I am not 100% fluent. I read through a lot of the posts in the Japan sub-forum and reviewed a lot of the options in preparation my visit. 
 
An Independence 

On my second night in Tokyo, I pre-booked Haruki from An Independence for a 2 hours out-call. Although a small part of his face was covered, he looked very attractive and it looked like he had an amazing body. The site also stated that he spoke some English which was definitely an advantage. If anyone considers booking from An Independence, I would definitely recommend also visiting the Japanese version of the site and using Google Translate as it has a lot more information in comparison to the English site such as reviews. Haruki had very many great reviews on the Japanese version of the site which made me feel a lot more comfortable booking him. 

I was staying at an airbnb near Minato City instead of a hotel as I thought it would be a bit more discreet. The airbnb was great overall and was much larger compared with most of the hotel rooms I have stayed at in Tokyo. It was on the 7th floor of an apartment building, there was a 7-eleven right outside, it had an elevator and there were also no other rooms on the floor.  The room had a large bathroom with a shower and bath, dining area with kitchen, a sofa bed and a regular queen size bed as well as a washer and dryer. 

The booking process was relatively simple with An Independence, but it did take some back and forth. I selected an out-call for 120 minutes and provided my time and date preferences as well as the location of the airbnb.  If you make a booking via the web form, you receive a reply with a link to a web portal which allows for messaging between you and the company. They were initially unsure of the address I provided, so there were a few back and forth messages before they would confirm the booking. I provided the photographs from my airbnb location guide which resolved the concerns. The cost was 22,000 yen for 120 minutes including the travel cost, which was particularly reasonable due to the Yen exchange rate at the time.

I waited by the entrance of my building for Haruki to arrive. He was only a few minutes late, but apologised profusely. As soon as we entered the room, it was evident that he was wowed by the room and eagerly attempted to peek through the curtains to see the view which I found endearing. It was obvious right away that he was very confident and not shy or meek at all. He embraced me and started kissing me as we were looking out the window and we soon both started removing our clothes. I won't go in to too many details about our time together but it was amazing. He looks better than the images on the site, particularly his face which is very handsome. He told me that he works out every day and that is really evident in person. We tried quite a few positions and as we are both vers, so we switched roles throughout. Haruki has a lot of stamina and is willing to be as gentle or rough as you would like or can take. He really is well endowed and thick as stated in his profile. We laughed a lot toghether throughout and it definitely felt like he also had a good time but, if not, his acting was superb which was good enough for me.  Haruki was also able to finish quite easily when requested which was nice. 

I was really impressed with how well-prepared Haruki was. In his backpack he carried change, condoms and lube which I imagine is quite standard, but he also had towels and wet wipes to ensure cleanliness and to prevent any soiling of the customer's bedding. After the fun, we cuddled for a bit and had a really nice conversation. His English is really good so we didn't need to use a translator and his cuddles were very nice too. He told me that he had been doing this as his sole job for almost four years which explained his professionalism and confidence. Prior to his departure, we showered together which was very intimate and enjoyable and he then provided me with a business card and a voucher code for a future appointment. He initiated quite a few hugs before he finally left, which was also really nice and felt like a proper BFE. 

I would definitely recommend An Independence and would use them again in the future. 
An Indepdence Rating: 9/10 due to minor booking back and forth
Haruki Rating: 10/10 on all fronts. 
 
Heros Tokyo
I had seen a few good reviews in the forum about this establishment so I decided on booking someone from here to compare with my experience at An Independence. It was a few days after my first booking but I was at the same airbnb. 
There were a decent number of options and it was therefore a little hard to pick somone, but I eventually settled on Kazunari due to his profile and reviews. The booking was a lot simpler in comparison with An Independence and was done solely over Line. There were similar questions to the An Indepence form but there was no back and forth. I selected an out-call for 120 minutes again and the cost was 21,000 yen.

As with Haruki, I waited outside for Kazunari and he arrived exactly on time. After entering the room, Kazunari was eager to get down to business so we started embracing and kissing, However, it was very clear that he was a lot more shy in comparison with Haruki, possibly due to his age or lack of experience in the job so I had to take the lead. He did look like the images on the site but wasn't as attractive in-person. He was also quite sweaty which was particularly noticeable when removing his clothing which were saturated. His mouth had an unusal taste when we were kissing (some sort of unusual flavoured candy and not bad teeth or anything) so I had to suggest we move to the bathroom before continuing any further. I have read quite a few reports here stating that meetings usual start with showering and mouthwash, but both of my experiences did not follow that convention. I am not sure if I was meant to initiate this practice or not or I may have missed some cues due to language/cultural barriers.
After the shower, we moved to the bed. Kazunari is also vers, but I did not want to top on this day so he topped me in many different positions. The dimensions in his profile are accurate and he is quite big and thick.  He doesn't speak any English at all so communication was quite difficult but we managed via translation apps. He was actually an even better top than Haruki, but he didn't seem as into it (or at least didn't act as well as Haruki). I'm not saying it didn't look like he was enjoying it at all, but it was a very different experience in comparison with Haruki which may just be due to the language barrier and experience level. Whilst he was topping, he would stare into my eyes with a somewhat mixed happy/concentrated facial expression but never said anything and didn't even make any noise at all throughout. It's quite hard to describe and I'm normally a big fan of eye contact, but this did feel a little strange in ways I am unable to really express. 

He was able to finish, but I wasn't able to so we just jumped in the shower before he left. He wasn't as prepared as Haruki and just had condoms and lube and nothing else. 

It was an okay experience overall, but the perfect experience with Haruki may have over-shadowed it somewhat. I would use Heros again due to the booking experience but I would likely choose someone else. 

Heros Tokyo Rating: 10/10
Kazunari Rating: 5/10

Danshi Gakuen
Similarly to Heros, I had read a lot of good things about Danshi Gakuen in forum posts and the selection was really good with locations across Japan. It was really difficult picking someone from this establishment due to the number and variety of options available. However, the choice was a lot easier to make when I spotted Ruiya in the options for Tokyo store. He is a popular Japanese AV star and I had seen quite a few of his videos in the past so I was keen to meet him person. He is normally at the Osaka store but was working in the Tokyo store for a few weeks on rotation, so I was very lucky to even get a chance for an appointment with him.

The process for booking was very similar to An Independence with the web form but it switched to emails after the initial contact instead of a web messaging portal. However, due to Ruiya's short time in Tokyo he was very popular and it was therefore quite difficult finding a slot when he was even free. It took multiple days and quite a few emails to finally find a slot when he was free. I booked him for 2 hours as an out-call for 22,000 yen for my last night in Tokyo before departing. 

I had moved to an even nicer airbnb by this point. It was a two floor entire Japanese house in Shinagawa. I initially had a quite small hotel room booked, however the two-story house was actually cheaper than the cost of the hotel per night so I cancelled that and re-booked the house instead. The property had just been listed on airbnb so it was actually brand new which was a nice surprise. I provided the updated address to Danshi Gakuen the day before the meeting and they had zero issues and it was quick to resolve with them. 

When Ruiya arrived exactly on time, he rang the intercom and I welcomed him in. I invited him upstairs as that was the location of the living room/dining/kitchen area and I handed him the money before we sat on the couch. Unlike my other two experiences, Ruiya contacted his office to confirm he was in the correct location for the meeting which I assumed was for safety and so that the office was aware that he was able to find the customer's location successfully. 

Ruiya looked exactly like the pictures on his profile and the videos he has made. If you are a fan of twinks, you would likely appreciate his appearance a lot. We started upstairs and then moved downstairs to the main bedroom. Ruiya is also vers and we switched role on occasion but he was primarily the top. He isn't as well-endowed as Haruki or Kazunari but is really able to work well with what he has. He has amazing stamina and was a great top overall, equivalent to my other two experiences. It appeared like he was having a great time which definitely made the experience a lot better. I finished while on top and it launched quite violently at Ruiya's chin and face which made us both laugh a lot. Ruiya tried to finish but was unable to do so, possibly due to the number of appointments per day he was having whilst in Tokyo, and this was a little disappointing but not the end of the world and very understandable. 
The post-fun cuddles were really nice and we then jumped in the shower together which was very intimate and enjoyable. Ruiya speaks very little English but we managed to have a really nice conversation afterwards with google translate whilst relaxing on the couch. I offered him some delicious strawberries that I had purchased earlier in the day which he ate enthusiastically. He initiated multiple hugs before eventually leaving. 

Danshi Gakuen Rating: 10/10 - although it was a little frustrating having to go back and forth, it was a lot more understandable due to Ruiya's short term in Tokyo and his general popularity. 
Ruiya Rating: 10/10

Overall, I had a great time whilst in Tokyo and I really liked how efficient such booking services were. I particularly like that you can see everyone who is available, reviews and what they look like before meeting and also how the pricing is very clear up front. As with a lot of things in Japan, it is such an efficient and safe process and is not seedy (or at least does not feel like it) in any way.
I also surprisingly had some luck on the apps as a foreigner for hookups, but a lot were solely bottoms unfortunately. 

I'm already eager to travel back to Japan and try out many more options (and obviously enjoy all of the other benefits in Japan too). However, the flight is very long and expensive so that makes it a bit more difficult. In some ways I am glad that this is a deterrent else I would likely be spending way too much money in establishments like these 😂

I hope this has helped someone and apologies for the length and writing correctness in advance.