Hansen25

I actually think topping is harder for a straight guy than bottoming. You have to stay hard with someone you’re not attracted to, and keep it going. Bottoming doesn’t require that.
That’s why I don’t really get the ones who insist on top only. Are they worried it would make them gay? Ha, I don’t think it works that way.
Anyway, thanks again for the reply.

I actually think topping is harder for a straight guy than bottoming. You have to stay hard with someone you’re not attracted to, and keep it going. Bottoming doesn’t require that.
That’s why I don’t really get the ones who insist on top only. Are they worried it would make them gay? Ha, I don’t think it works that way.
Anyway, thanks again for the reply.

I actually think topping is harder for a straight guy than bottoming. You have to stay hard with someone you’re not attracted to, and keep it going. Bottoming doesn’t require that.
That’s why I don’t really get the ones who insist on top only. Are they worried it would make them gay? Ha, I don’t think it works that way.
Anyway, thanks again for the reply.

Most of the "top only" guys are straight. I doubt any of them are willing to bottom. The only time I had a straight guy bottom for me in Bangkok was a guy who worked at one of the gogo bars - the mamasan promised he could do "anything". He did bottom for me but reluctantly, and it was distracting and a turn off. There are plenty of bottoms out there though. If they are listed as straight at the massage spots, I would not bother trying to get them to bottom. Even topping can be a struggle for them and usually involves them watching straight porn just to stay hard.
I'm vers but only recently, like in the last 5 years or so. I was exclusively a top before that and I could find bottoms in Bangkok very easily.