Ramzes
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I am surprised by the angry tone of your post.
Why would you find "saddening" that some people (and not only gays) don't open up all their private stuff with others (allegedly to be "at ease"?) when asked questions? You have a problem with privacy?
I am perfectly at ease preserving my privacy even when there is no gain in that. You have not presented any argument, any reason why one should reveal everything to anybody who cares to ask, except "to be at ease", and I don't buy that argument.
Similarly, I don't buy this guilt trip that if one is RESERVED one is LYING. There are many ways to not give some information that are not outright lies. And this thread has prompted some good responses from posters.
If you like to be completely open, unencumbered, out of the closet, good for you.
But I can see some lack of consideration to others in this, and I also find it kind of dumb and unnecessary.