Today’s review of Daniel (12/10/09) mentions that the escort followed-up the session with a note saying what a good time he had.

From my limited experience, that doesn’t happen often. When it does, I agree it’s a great touch and makes the memory all the better. When I hear nothing, it sort of takes away the glow. This assumes, of course, that it was a first-rate session.

Anyone else experience this?

Today’s review of Daniel (12/10/09) mentions that the escort followed-up the session with a note saying what a good time he had.

From my limited experience, that doesn’t happen often. When it does, I agree it’s a great touch and makes the memory all the better. When I hear nothing, it sort of takes away the glow. This assumes, of course, that it was a first-rate session.

Anyone else experience this?

Not the loss of the afterglow, but I always think it's a professional touch, though I'm cynical enough to think that it's the escort trying to build a repeat clientele.

The one that gets me is the ones fishing for business that turn up like 6 months later. I had one guy in orange county when I visited who after setting a time called me to beg off at appointment time (my sense was he didn't want to bother driving to me.). I got two separate emails from him over the following months fishing for appointments!

I'm cynical enough to think that it's the escort trying to build a repeat clientele.

Of course that’s the reason for the note. That’s not cynicism, it’s realism.

Maybe it’s the lack of the note that makes me pause. Hmmm. Is it carelessness, disinterest, forgetfulness? It’s pretty obvious that I’m not at the point where it’s just a fuck and I should just move onto the next. I’m still one of those creatures that resists change. Once I find something I like, I want to stick with it. And that nice follow-up note will help me at least pretend that it’s mutual.