For those bottoms who don't know what to do. . .

You know what? I think there should be some instructions on this. A little label (similar to the one on cigarettes) saying for people to be prepared for it to HURT LIKE H**L...because it does and I know from first-hand experience! 've done it a few times with experts and non-experts and I tell you that it's as much pleasure for me as filling out my taxes WHILE having a root canal done! Then I started to find out on my own that the "pain" is part of the allure I think for others. The pain gives people the "pride" in taking such a big ....you know.

However I have learned that it's not my cup of tea. I think I can still be gay even if I don't like this or maybe they'll revoke my card now. If they do revoke my card then I want to say good bye to all my friends here because you're still the nicest people I know even if they revoke my gay card which would revoke my rights to all things gay as well. I had this threatened to be done once before when somebody saw my apartment and it was a MESS...apparently I'm supposed to be very clean and tidy as well.

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Somehow I think Bottoms KNOW what to do and dont need any Guidance.....

suckrates, I disagree. Common sense is not so common afterall. Some "beginners" do not know think of making sure things are clean "down there".

Somehow I think Bottoms KNOW what to do and dont need any Guidance.....

Thank you!

I thought I was a top. Until I met Andre, a total top.

First, I fell in love. Then, I tried to bottom a couple of times, but couldn't. Then, I bought a bottle of poppers (butyl nitrite, which these latter days is all we mortals can get). THEN I discovered how to take him.

Being in escort-love with him was an important part of it, trusting him and so forth, to be able to open up, even with the poppers.

Then, after two experiences with him this way, I discovered how to transfer the emotional and physical opening-up experience over to any occasion. In a few instances some guys would just be so big physically that I would bleed a little bit, but I could still take them and get a lot of pleasure out of it. And one needs to say NOT pleasure bred of pain; just pleasure of prostate massage.

P.S. Then I noticed the poppers were diminishing my penile sensation, so I threw them away. Exelsior!

I find most bottoms don't know what to do unless of course they are escorts. They usually do.

thank you Expat!

. . . I discovered how to transfer the emotional and physical opening-up experience over to any occasion.