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Reflections on Ageing and Changing Desires

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It would be impossible to criticize everything you write. ๐Ÿ™‚

keep in mind you donโ€™t have a monopoly on wisdom. Tweed Harris among them.

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Yet again, you criticise. And when your criticism is demolished, you backtrack. What about your own wisdom which you post virtually daily here, I wonder - or should I say the wisdom of the media which you post here?

4 minutes ago, reader said:

keep in mind you donโ€™t have a monopoly on wisdom. Tweed Harris among them.

You know Tweed Harris? You have met him? You have conversed with him? Had drinks with him? If not, then how - in your wisdom - do you know for certain which is accurate - what was reported in that news item or in @gayinpattaya's personal observation of him? Yet again, you make assumptions! Clearly it is your trademark!

I listened to his presentation and made my judgement that heโ€™s an old man trying his best to share his experience and what heโ€™s learned about life.

If you wish to believe accusations made my someone who claims to seen him in a bar in Pattaya, be my guest.

Perhaps you were actually in the bar by clairvoyance. That would be one more credential you can add to your medical degree which enables you to advise Phuket public health officials on how they should do their job.

Tell us, please: is their any topic under the sun on which you donโ€™t see yourself as an expert?

5 minutes ago, reader said:

Perhaps you were actually in the bar by clairvoyance. That would be one more credential you can add to your medical degree which enables you to advise Phuket public health officials on how they should do their job.

Tell us, please: is their any topic under the sun on which you donโ€™t see yourself as an expert?

There is no need to be so childish!

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23 hours ago, gayinpattaya said:

A number of years ago I had to sit through this guys drivel one night at Cocka2 Bar. He was also very offensive to other customers and staff. Jomtien Complex now only has to deal with his perpetually drunk boyfriend.ย ย 

That's not very nice ๐Ÿ˜ฏ

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Well, as I have gotten older I find my desires have changed as well as my sexual positions. Years back I was mostly a top but now, I am mostly a bottom.

I have also found that I use to love to order our daily and now I like to cook something with my BF and eat a nice dinner together.

I use to love bars and parties and now, I must prefer an in-call to any other method.

As we age, our desires change and so does our tolerance of things. However, I still find I am attracted to Asians and Latins above others.

As I age, I also find my desire to tell members not to be petty and try to feud with each other happens more often. Like the article says, Live and Love.

Love you, Peter.

47 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

That's not very nice ๐Ÿ˜ฏ

The old toad was lurching up Jomtien Complex yesterday afternoon with his alcoholic Thai boyfriend following up the rear. "PRIDE" brings them all out the woodwork. Luckily one look at our table, and he quickly lurched to the next bar to try find a table that would suffer him.ย 

At least this time he wasn't trying to flog copies of his book. Memoires not fit to be used as toilet paper.ย 

2 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

I find my desires have changed as well as my sexual positions.

An old ex-pat mate of mine, sadly now deceased, had a prodigious appetite for twinks. A kindly guy but assertively "top" and perhaps a little boastful of his prowess in that department. Suddenly, between two of my visits, his interests changed to bottoming, not for the hunky BKK boys that some like, but for the more twinkish. Even once to service a lady boy.

I was genuinely astounded but it wasn't long before I discovered (thanks in part toย  forums like this) that this is a common transition for men as they get older.

On 6/10/2023 at 2:00 AM, gayinpattaya said:

A number of years ago I had to sit through this guys drivel one night at Cocka2 Bar. He was also very offensive to other customers and staff. Jomtien Complex now only has to deal with his perpetually drunk boyfriend.ย ย 

thanks for a good laugh, I run out of likes for today

4 hours ago, gayinpattaya said:

The old toad was lurching up Jomtien Complex yesterday afternoon with his alcoholic Thai boyfriend following up the rear. "PRIDE" brings them all out the woodwork. Luckily one look at our table, and he quickly lurched to the next bar to try find a table that would suffer him.ย 

Let me see if I got this straight: youโ€™re calling someone else an old toad.

23 hours ago, gayinpattaya said:

I have a better idea.ย 
I seems every time I post here you want to try to pick a fight, as most toddlers do. It hurts when you can't admit you're wrong.

It may be better to just ignore my posts, instead of reacting. Yes, we may have met in the past and had drinks together, but I can assure it will never happen again. I have no interest in communicating with you, in any aspect ever again. Move on. If and when you return to Thailand, please stay away from me.

Your have your tribe. I have mine.ย I can assure you that will not change.

I was right...the later it gets, the more irate and obnoxious you become (I stay Obnoxious) Riobard isn't around and I need to keep churning them out, Thank goodness you are here.

I'm not picking fights, btw.....and what do I need to admit I'm wrong about???

We MAY HAVE HAD DRINKS????๐Ÿ˜

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I'm not the one that was banned here and reappeared with a new handle ....is that the "tribe" you belong too, smh

I don't know who's worseย  us or Peter and Readerย ๐Ÿ˜†

18 hours ago, Londoner said:

An old ex-pat mate of mine, sadly now deceased, had a prodigious appetite for twinks. A kindly guy but assertively "top" and perhaps a little boastful of his prowess in that department. Suddenly, between two of my visits, his interests changed to bottoming, not for the hunky BKK boys that some like, but for the more twinkish. Even once to service a lady boy.

I was genuinely astounded but it wasn't long before I discovered (thanks in part toย  forums like this) that this is a common transition for men as they get older.

Because when you get older getting hard on command isnโ€™t as easy. I do wonder however how they prepared their ass for bottoming. I tried it a few times and find it very painful.ย 

3 hours ago, abidismaili said:

Because when you get older getting hard on command isnโ€™t as easy. I do wonder however how they prepared their ass for bottoming. I tried it a few times and find it very painful.ย 

I do not know - and am not asking - how old you are. But as you tell us you are not retired, I am a little surprised you find getting hard (or at least suggest it might become difficult to become hard) as you get older. Certainly this is true for some guys, especially those who might have medical issues. Since the brain plays a part in erections, I very occasionally used to find it hard (sic) to get hard. I once tried viagra and decided never to use it again. I found the blood pulsating in my temples very prominently and did not enjoy it. On the other hand, after a friend recommended cialis, I never had a problem. I use it rarely but whenever I do it works a treat - and goes on working for at least the 36 hours the makers claim. I have never felt a need to be a bottom and the guys I am with, including my partner, do not wish me to change from being a top.

2 hours ago, PeterRS said:

Thank you @reader. I have written you a PM in the hope of resolving our differences.

Please don't !ย 

I was hoping to tune in for moreย 

On 6/10/2023 at 1:00 PM, gayinpattaya said:

A number of years ago I had to sit through this guys drivel one night at Cocka2 Bar. He was also very offensive to other customers and staff. Jomtien Complex now only has to deal with his perpetually drunk boyfriend.ย ย 

A number of years ago myself and a friend were also at Cocka2 Bar and observed the same thing as gayinpattaya and had the same reaction.ย  ย 

5 hours ago, PeterRS said:

Thank you @reader. I have written you a PM in the hope of resolving our differences.

good to hear that but if one of you needs a knife I left one in room 710 at Furama Sathorn on departure on Friday

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