I had a very interesting conversation with a young man whom I have been with on many occasions. I met him at Throb/Splash about 2 years ago. I have been with him maybe 20 times in 2 years and always had a great time. He is totally versatile and very fun to be with on every occasion.

 

Last night I was having sex with him and asked him to get on top of me. He said no. I asked why and he said,

I think I have a different idea of what "totally versatile" means, but in any case...

 

I've known escorts (socially) in NY and London who, as I recall, would generally prefer to be on the bottom with clients. Assuming they are good at their jobs, it's just easier - less effort not only physically, but if they aren't actually aroused by the customer then there's no real requirement to get it up, keep it up and perform through the whole business. Also, I'd guess, they know their bodies and business well enough to make sure things are clean, whereas to go sticking theirs elsewhere might just turn out unpleasant, shall we say.

 

These are all just practical considerations, of course, and nothing to do with what Thais consider the typical roles of ladyboys, gay boys, etc. But I'm guessing there's a practical side to many of the barboys' preferences too.