Funny but as a younger man, I would only pick my companions for the evening if I saw EVERYTHING or nearly everything they had to offer first...but as I grow older, I seem to appreciate the eroticism of a little bit of mystery. I never thought I'd say that but maybe that's why I'm leaning towards beer bars nowadays. I actually like the "what's under all those clothes" speculation quite a bit now. It's a bit like unwrapping a Christmas present, I think. And the naughty attempts to catch a glimpse of the hidden treasures when he sits down or bends over, too...

I prefer gogo bars, there are no bad surprises in the bedroom (tattoos, body hair).

 

It's a bit like unwrapping a Christmas present, I think. And the naughty attempts to catch a glimpse of the hidden treasures when he sits down or bends over, too...

 

Totally agree. Getting a glimpse of skin, or even better underwear, is a huge turn on for me.

Sometimes that mystery ends a stunning surprise when the clothes eventually come off...

 

When I met one of my ex-boyfriends at DJ Station, all I knew was he had such a cute face, big eyes and a cute nose and all. A really sweet, intelligent, genuine guy... but he only ever wore jeans and a long sleeve shirt so I never got to see what his body was like underneath.

 

Then a couple of days later we got each others clothes off in my hotel room and this cute little guy wasn't just a cute face... He had a ripped, fit, lean body underneath! Six pack, hard pecs and tight little nipples and all... OMG.

 

We both fell in love with each other so he was pretty much a complete package... except that he lives 9,000 kms away!

 

Eventually, with his career and my commitments at home we had to give it up.

I prefer gogo bars, there are no bad surprises in the bedroom (tattoos, body hair).

I agree, in a gogo bar it's easy to avoid the ones who have had disastrous visits to the tattoo parlour.

Also, in a good gogo bar, they're all lined up so it's easy to compare them and also identify who makes eye contact.