There's a whole exhaustive /-ing thread on how to navigate trips and/or the "boyfriend experience."  https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/11328-travelling-with-gogo-boy. [Note - the link to this discussion in the so-called "timeless" section is not correct.] Personally, I have great luck traveling and spending time with my guy-of-the-moment.  I encourage people to try it if they think they might enjoy it.  It may not be for everyone - and not everyone is right for it - but it can be a won