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Strictly adhere to Alexx advice above, chalk off your loss as there's no way of recovering anything, sounds harsh but this is what it is. Cut off all contacts, do not count his sms , phone calls, e-mails etc, just erase everything without even looking into it, hang off the phone, change number if you need to. Sooner you forget about him and your loss better for you, your soul and your pocket. Avoid any contact as you may be tricked again- in this relationship you know who was smart and who was not, sorry for being blunt but you asked questions so answers are flowing. As consolation think that you helped poor Thai family to lift them out of poverty so you earned merits and hope your karma will improve. Sounds cynical and sarcastic but I actually believe in what i said. As for places to go since you don't want o go to Pattaya or CM, Phuket is too expensive and in neighboring countries gay life is not developed as in LOS, stay in BKK, rent an apartment for a month for 15000 and you will never be bored, guaranteed.

congratulations firecat, he is adorable, I'd fall for this smile even if he is not exactly my body type, reminds me those cute boy types populating massage places along Silom Bkkmfj, can't wait for your Pattaya report, I was not that impressed in November but now from distance of time I have second thoughts and suspect I was too harsh on the place, firmly decided to return next time and likely for longer than just 2 days I spent there last time

don't worry and just go, have you eyes open for developments though

judging by your picture above rest assured you don't although make sure you wear something anyways , no nudity allowed

I like your statement very much, thank you. It should be added that moral age of consent can't be lower than legal age. Somebody on this board once wisely said that is not engaging with boy he would have second thoughts about being seen on busy street with in broad daylight, another wise man claimed that is not going with boy he feels he needs to check his birthday on ID. And this is not only for fear of breaking law but should come out of common decency as SpermAholic suggested.

few years ago when booking in BBB Inn youngish farang in front of me was negotiating extending his stay for that day since his flight was leaving late at night or early in the morning next day. Later on he sat beside me at one of those upstairs bars / Hotmale or X-size, not Dreamboys /, we even exchanged few words ,during show he invited boy to sit with him and was getting pretty intimate with him at times, after show he did not tip boy promising to off him next evening instead fully knowing he will be leaving in few hours. But there's happy ending to that story, going downstairs he misstep, felled down, did not hurt himself but broke his glasses , obviously boy's Guardian Angel was pissed off with that mischievous farang. To this day I feel uneasy about this as I think I should somehow intervene either by shaming him in front of boy or at least slip boy 100 baht

for stay I'd recommend Silom area over Sukhumvit, both connected well to BTS, more gay venues in Silom with Soi Twilight being crown jewel with 8 go-go bars on 100 m stretch. Sukhumvit area is better for shopping and dining. Four places you mentioned are three shopping malls and one market - Bangkok malls are fabulous and Chatuchak is huge but are you sure you want spend your days shopping ? Don't worry about finding BTS - this is overhead rail impossible to miss, actually pretty ugly sight but immensely useful.

This is our side of story but I guess younger boys would have plenty stories about older men who got bored and dumped them for newer modes too.

Hero is a must for all massage lovers who are into well built guys, not too many twinks if any though. This type of guys are usually willing and talented tops. You should not be disappointed , when selecting boy go with your eyes and guts rather than our recommendations as everybody's preferences are slightly different, some also are more demanding and others less so. Have limited trust in what mamasans are saying as well as they may be steering you to boy of their choice not yours. Good attitude you have will help you to enjoy boyscapade - if something doesn't work, just keep trying and always look at full half of glass, if boy is dud at least enjoy his body, bulge or face or whatever prompted you to choose him at first place. And as xiluzer on his last day at Senso keep in mind at times it may be us as reason things did not work , not our boys

I know but I was typing that post while looking in the mirror LOL

Funny thing, my straight friend who returned from Thailand last Sunday and by sheer coincidence was following your route had exactly the same comment on Koh Samui. Great report, my curiosity about the place satisfied thanks to you , Michael may be right great place just for a weekend with a boy special although my suspicion will be that they preferred weekend at Terminal 21 with generous allowance instead Samui air fare

I think certain degree of disappointments is included in joy of boy hunting in LOS. What we imagine based on other's impressions not necessarily bears fruit in reality. I started feel sorry for you guys above when I realized I was victim of my own eyes hunting three days in row for Dreamboy boy, landing two great guys in meantime and when finally my dream come true, dreams were shattered faster than one can say ' fuck you'. See my "off to Thailand post " if interested in other's misfortunes. Bottom line is : be prepared that things will not work as our imagination wishes and don't allow shattered illusions to spoil your Thai vacations, there are many of handsome boys smiling at us and no need to dwell on those who did not. After all they have their own feelings and fact that we are salivating over them doesn't mean they need to feel the same. My receipt for disaster in to have trusted consolators / Namu from Bangkok massage and Dit from Arena /, good looking but not stunners and I feel secure I can always book one of them for warm encounter without any fireworks turning into burns in my hour of being pissed off.

buckbee, I don't think theres' buckbee I don't think this is what contributors thought, rather you case was used by posters a base for wider reflections about relationship between two guys with substantial difference in age. We wish you well and may be some are even a little jealous but certainly are keeping that feeling for themselves

Lucky you, best compliment I got from my HERO boy on this trip is that "you have lots of hair like monkey", sure I rewarded his honesty with extra tip even if I'm not THAT hairy. Great report from last day, in line with all previous day's reports, you deserved our compliments. I'm glad your friend had good time with Man at FanClub , your are true friend that you left him with his dreams, no harm done. Man is great guy and deserves all publicity he has , always full money worth from him. Your adventure at Senso proves advantage of butterflying to avoid awkward situations like having to face boy we had another day without intention of offing him today, it's why usually I try to visit each place only once on every trip and if I go more than once I usually clear air before by telling boy I butterfly and next time it won't be him or even better , having massage with one and taking out another one, approach I took in Arena on last trip. Why you torment yourself with desire to finish your trip with big bang ?.It would be nice for sure but if trip was good last night won't spoil it, at least not for me. On my last three trips my last night encounters were not that good / good boy and performance but wanted more money after receiving over the odds tip already,gave him extra for taxi , next handsome boy and no performance , still wanting more money, did not get anything other than his tip, last time good boy and performance but awkward situation in the morning as clearly he was expecting much more than I offered him and 3000 for long time is not a stingy tip, right? / but I did not allow to judge trip by last night only. For your fixation with P at Senso cost you stress , wasted money and likely stressed Mr. V who was wondering what's wrong with this non-responsive farang. Did not you have situation before than missing boy of you dreams resulted with unexpected discovery of another gem? Now because of you I need to hunt three Senso boys as added P to my list along with M and Win but as you said end is new beginning , never hurts to dream about next steps. Congratulations on having such a great vacations I know the feeling and exactly from the same place as wanted to see M or Win when last time here but none was present so settled for Chai and had lots of fun, left Senso disappointed yet happy at the same time.

and air is a little hazy

I hope this is actual , not 1961 photo

From what I saw when strolling through Dongtan one November afternoon I'd say thanks God for that prohibition. Whole Pataya can supply enough irons to straighten all those wrinkly skins, hanging bellies and tits are enough to forget about lunch start dieting. But I would vote for creating nude zone in Boyztown even if surrounded by Berlin like wall

nothing wrong with you, that's right,

Would you reconsider your plans ? Oops , probably too late as is almost midnight in Thailand already

Why you worry, from your last sentence it looks you already speaking Spanish fluently. Luck has it that all Spanish speaking countries bar Equatorial Guinea are very interesting places so wherever you go you wont be bored. Being in Europe you can always jump on the plane and in half time Americans need you can be walking Silom for a short break. Felicitaciones de Nuevo Ano

That's shame, I wonder it this was politically motivated / red shirts / ? or just disgruntled troublemaker feed up with all havoc blockades are wrecking on businesses and daily lives. Imagine say, anti-Obama protesters are blocking 42nd street on Manhattan between Grand Central and times Square for 2 months and how New York would react. It must be say that Bangkokians are taking it extremely well so far.

Amen, amen, amen

nothing wrong if he will fall silent for day or two giving you a chance to miss him even more, all the best in your new passion

I don't think Thais are somehow more inclined toward prostitution than other nationalities, rather whole industry is better organized and for cultural reason lacks the stigma is attached to it in other places so is better visible. I believe as many Thais as others would be offended by offer of money for sex , we just have more to do with those who are looking for baht as they provide services we are looking for when traveling to LOS.

take anonone's advice above , even if you don't book start planning. When I'm depressed I like to imagine myself decamping at BBB Inn and going to Arena through Suriwong and soi 6,passing by Tawan and Nature Boy, my usual first steps on most trips and I smile even if , like right now I have no slightest idea when it will happen. Look at bright side - you had a great vacation instead tormenting yourself with fact they are over