Thanks guys, there's a ton of good information just in what you all wrote...
It sounds like hitting other countries is a bit much for a weekend away, so I'll concentrate on Thailand... If I had a choice of guys, I'd end up with more muscular guys, although give me a twink with a large one, or a nice butt and I'm willing to bend my rules...
Given that, Pattaya may not be my thing, but maybe I should at least check it out one weekend just to experience it... who knows, there may be some twinks there that i'm into... Just looking at the pics on here, I'm learning to appreciate twinks more and more...
I definitely love the idea of massages with extras, and could easily do that daily, but I'm not a hire them overnight kind of guy - I tend to like sex clubs and baths. But after the fun is done, I'm looking for places to visit or experiences I can't get in North America/Europe.
I probably should experience train travel in Thailand. I've read a bit about it, and it definitely sounds interesting... the only other thing I really wanted to do was check out an elephant sanctuary, but the more I read, the more wary I am of the way they treat them, so probably won't end up doing that.