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Personally, when I'm in London again I shall rejoice that safe sex practices are still in force. I am protected when the boys are protected.

That's interesting. However, as jaded as I am I can't imagine not finding someone I like in their stable. Some of the Brazilian boys were forced out of Brazil because their beauty was to much for the other boys! Yes, I exaggerate but they have always had a lovely group.

@NoGagSuckerSF I want to echo "when in Rome". I was fortunate in that my work took me around the world many times: Europe, the Middle East and Israel, South Africa and South America and countless times to Asia. Any gay man, at least those on this forum, would have a wonderful time in the secluded, well mannered bars of Tokyo - but not in your leather getup and pads. You have to adapt to the place and time. Bangkok? They would giggle, hide their faces ad try not to run. Cape Town? Someone will kick your ass.
I have not been to San Francisco in some 8 years and ca't really comment. South of Market and the fair may still be a place to array yourself in kneepads and accoutrements -I leave that to others.
Santo Domingo? You won't scare them but you will be an oddity to say the least. You will get farther and much better if you leave the fetish outfits at home, blend in, respect the machismo and learn that respecting other cultures means letting go of some of yours.
I'm sorry if this offends you as my advice is well intentioned. One can't travel the world with a fixed set of unadaptive requirements and expect to be embraced. The "dicks" you seek are, from Moscow to Tel Aviv, attached to living, acculturated human beings and you should accept them for what they are and not try to impose your own peculiarities on them.
 

I was, briefly, tempted to revisit the Dominican reality of how they view the many shades of brown to black that make up the melange of their society. But, it would be pointless and tiresome.

Well, I prefer my hustlers in Marlowe's. My long time rule is, "if they can't get in the bar they are too young or trouble "

I completely agree I have been to the DR more 120 times in more than 30 years and the information offered by the posters is accurate, the people mentioned are correct. Manny does not stock my twink types and as I have my own personal shopper, so to speak, I have not used Freddy or Francisco in a few years but they are there plying their trade and very open. Truly, this is not hard.

As I said, tiresome

Hi, I would never show a photo of their face that I took or in a compromising way. I highlighted Facebook posts of a group and suggested that they might be available. You may be correct, I can't tell but that's a reason to use a pseudonym when I post. My name, of course isn't Paborn. I got my current boyfriend this way.
I started by friending, his yes was a good sign but not conclusive. I commented on his posts working up from smiles to comments. it was months before I contacted him and now he is with me as my live in on my trips. He has a job which leaves me free time. I'm older so I have graduated to wanting a steady guy.
But his job allows for daytime play. I have another two talking to me and ready for my trip in October.
Thanks for confirming my compensation - 40/50 is good. My boyfriend works 10 hrs a day , six day a week for $249 a month!! $50 goes a long way .
In the end you're right, of course, but I claim nothing about anyone . I have never seen any of these guys in Marlowe's.
Have you been to ESEDEKU? I have not been in years?
 

Hi, I would never show a photo of their face that I took or in a compromising way. I highlighted Facebook posts of a group and suggested that they might be available. You may be correct, I can't tell but that's a reason to use a pseudonym when I post. My name, of course isn't Paborn. I got my current boyfriend this way.
I started by friending, his yes was a good sign but not conclusive. I commented on his posts working up from smiles to comments. it was months before I contacted him and now he is with me as my live in on my trips. He has a job which leaves me free time. I'm older so I have graduated to wanting a steady guy.
But his job allows for daytime play. I have another two talking to me and ready for my trip in October.
Thanks for confirming my compensation - 40/50 is good. My boyfriend works 10 hrs a day , six day a week for $249 a month!! $50 goes a long way .
In the end you're right, of course, but I claim nothing about anyone . I have never seen any of these guys in Marlowe's.
Have you been to ESEDEKU? I have not been in years?
 

Sorry, but I also find any face coveting a turn-off.
It's like having sex with a guy wearing a paper bag over his head. For me, the face is the second most important part of the guy's body.

congratulations. You will dispose of that income well!

congratulations. You will dispose of that income well!

Possibly. But not for certain. It’s normal practice in Latin America to check the ID of any unregistered person going to an hotel room. 
 
Just bear in mind that hotel staff have ALREADY seen EVERYTHING in their working lives. So live your life to the full and don’t worry about what others may, or may not, think. 

Maintenance man

Peteus is a good one, but there are many. Christian from Petrus Is SUPER SEXY but he doesn't mess around with guys. He's very friendly and easy on the eyes though. I tried HAVING HIM but he has a girlfriend and he is lsnt BI or GAY.
HAVE FUN and BE SAFE, my friend.

Unless you're at the coast where they speak more like Cubans, Dominicans or Puerto Ricans, lol

For a language like Spanish, you'll want to be sure that you know the sex terms for the specific variety of the language where you're located: Mexican Spanish, Columbian Spanish, European Spanish (Castellano), etc.

It's ABSOLUTELY
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true that, "it pays to be nice!" So this morning. I had to cancel an upcoming trip to SDQ. I had missed the deadline to cancel by 4 days and was hit with a $165 loss. 
I didn't bother to reach out to the owner of the property because he's always VERY ACCOMMODATING with us when we book with him so I didn't want to bother him and ask for a refund because of my canceling. 
He and I have become very close over the years and a few years ago I would send him a whatsapp message and book directly through him to save money by not having to pay the additional fees when I book through the rental site.
This was before I realized I was doing myself a disservice and was losing money because the more I spend on my spirit credit card,  the more points I get and that keeps me at my spirit GOLD STATUS and also substantially lowers the cost of our flights. 
The spirit rewards program is AMAZING, MY FELLOW SLUTS. ww don't fly to sdq every 6 weeks because we're rich. We're able to go every 6 weeks because of the points we accumulate on that credit card. 
Long story short. When I looked at my email a short while ago, I see that he, the  apartment owner,  sent me back the $165 and left a sweet little note in The comment section.
The $165 was actually his to keep and u hadn't called or texted to ask if he would send it back. Which was totally unexpected. 
I'm the type of whore who always send the owners holiday greeting texts, send random texts to see how their families are and also send birthday texts if I know that information. That ISH goes a long way with ANYONE, especially property owners and restaurant employees and owners. 
We go to eat at our favorite restaurant in zona colonial and they treat us like royalty.  I even advertise their business and properties for free on my social media accounts. 
Moral of the story: BE NICE TO PEOPLE FOR NO REASON!

As they say in Burkina Faso, everything needs to change for all to stay the same.
Scene moved to Patpoing as Dick's soi is now building site, some bars closed  ,some opened in new premises but essentially all is the same, you go to bar, invite boy to sit with you over drink, fend off mamasan- in most cases the same people. In bars like Tawan or Dreamboys  you may even see familiar, even if 4 years older faces.
I'd start with very current thread running ,,Patpong comings and goings,, to give you an idea

I just did too. I have never heard it.

Ferchos Masajes, it's a place you can send a Whatsapp message asking for photos of guys who are available that day. The two days I asked it was the same about 30 or 40 guys. You can message back with your choice and time and they confirm with the guy and message you back. You can meet the guy at a place that rents rooms for sex. I can't remember if having the guy meet you somewhere else is an option, I think it is. I can't remember the price. It wasn't much. Both times I think they tried to get me to transfer the money to a bank account, but I don't speak Spanish, so I'm not certain. I said that was impossible with my foreign bank account and went at the appointed time and the guy was there so I guess it's not a deal breaker. (Do you remember the, "that's a deal breaker" sketches on SNL. My favourite was, "if he says his brother's name during sex, that's a deal breaker."} Anyway, the guys in the photos are not male models. But blue collar guys are my favourite and the two guys I booked with great. I asked for tops so I don't know if you would get different photos if you asked for something else.

Well, I didn't make up the quote. It came from a comment you were responding to. I didn't realize doing that would attribute the comment to you. So you didn't make the statement,  and I didn't make it up.

You can do whatever you with your money but in my opinion You paid him for 2 hours almost doubled of the min. wage for a month in Colombia. It's a huge sum for ST in Medellin.

I did hook up with a guy in Medellin from Chaturbate in January. It took a lot of arranging and was more expensive and he pushed for every dollar he could get. But he lived up to his end of the arrangement...  and more. It was certainly a good time for me. And there were no messages afterwards trying to get more money for which I was grateful. A party with a group of guys like him would indeed be a lot of fun.

I think this is an overly broad statement.