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Day 2 (Part 1) A new hotel can be both a blessing and a curse. The Holiday Inn Express Sathorn only opened last December, so the chrome finishings are still shiny, key cards fresh and working, and facilities in excellent working order. Bad things about it: staff is new so not as efficient, other parts of hotel still have workers installing stuff, and my pet peeve this week: the bed is hard as hell. I like a nice pillow top mattress, so a new standard bed (not broken in) in Thailand means it is rock hard. Tossed and turned the past two nights on this new mattress, and decided at this point that I might have to move hotels. So yesterday I cash in 75,000 points on IHG to get three nights at the Crowne Plaza Lumpini Park. It’s my go-to hotel for BKK. Pricey if you have to pay (average 3500-4500 baht a night), but great if you can get it for free, obviously. Has excellent gym facilities so Clark Hatch gym won’t be needed at this point. There really is nothing wrong with the Holiday Inn Express Sathorn. The breakfast is again excellent this morning, its fairly quiet, facilities are up to par or exceeds western standards, and is relatively cheap. Plus its close to Chong Nonsi, walking distance (for me) to Soi Twilight, and no joiner fee for one boy/girl. So 10 AM I eat breakfast, pack my shit up. Flush the used condom from last night (hey that was fun, I smile). Notice that I need more lube (how much did we use last night???), and take off my clothes to shower. And I see it, that giant hickey on my chest. What was a great, passionate, symbol of lust I proudly took from Thai boy the night before, was now a big, dark red, unattractive splotch on my chest. I try to rub on it to see if it goes away (like I do with past hickeys, and it never works). I take a picture of it and send it to Thai boy. No reply, probably still asleep. I shower, check out of the hotel, and hotel gets a taxi for me. Tip concierge 20 baht, and off I go to Crowne Plaza. 60 baht cab ride. I get to Crowne Plaza at 12 noon. Concierge there knows me by now, and greets me with small talk. Check-in is at 23rd floor, and check-in was efficient, as expected. I get upgraded to a Premiere room, as always. I accept the upsell for access to the Crowne Plaza Executive lounge for 600 baht a night. I gladly accept, knowing that I will be able to get (a) another upgrade, this time to an Executive room and (b) I get free breakfast and happy hour dinner and drinks. Good deal I think, considering that I am not paying to stay there anyway. It’s over in under 5 minutes, and I’m now unpacking and changing to gym clothes. At the gym I peruse Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo. Have an interesting conversation with a Thai guy office-type in Grindr while I lift. He’s close to 6 feet, (centimeters throwns me off) nice tan skin, with glasses. He’s very cute, and looks younger than 30 in his pics. He’s a financial analyst for a Big Four firm (PwC?). He asks what I like, I answer “everything but…”. I am not a bottom. I was a bottom in my 20s, when I was a a super twink. Now in my 30s I have graduated to being a muscular Asian, and bottoming does not give me pleasure anymore. I’m naturally dominant, so topping is a natural way to go. The conversation quickly turns into exchanging photos. Photos of penises, holes, body. I like what I see. We make an appointment for 6 PM, after his work. Works for me, so I can nap, shower, fuck, dinner, drinks, show, and fuck to end the day. I finish at 2 PM, leave hotel and walk 5 minutes to Gay Muscle Protein shake shack. Give them a tip this time, they’re good guys. Change some of my dollars. The exchange rate is amazing. Go to Boots to get toiletries, lube and condoms, 7-11 to get new headphones (220 baht) and gatorades, and head back to hotel. Was about to take a nap when I get a Line message from PwC guy saying if we can meet now. He is horny and can’t wait. I say sure, give him room number, but ask him to meet him at first floor lobby, since the Crowne Plaza building configuration is kind of confusing to first timers. I shower, stage my new lube and condoms (I always put them always in the drawer with the bible, maybe to bless them?), and then wait for PwC guy. He arrives 20 minutes later, and I meet him at the lobby. He is handsome, geeky, and in office clothes (adds to the hotness). Big butt can be seen in those slacks. I can tell he’s shy, so I try to talk to him. He tells me about his work, I tell him about my trip so far (heavily edited, to not scare him). We get to the room. He wants to shower, I tell him he may, and I already did. He immediately kisses me and we do this for 15 minutes. I managed to take off his dress shirt revealing a tight, smooth torso. This will be fun. I had to tell him to shower now, since I wanted to go further. He asks to shower together, and we did. Kissing, sucking, rimming. All good stuff. He backs up to me, and allows me to have my the tip of my dick touch his hole. I could probably just slip it in and he wouldn’t mind. I don’t, but was very tempted. Towel off, get to the bed. He’s very tender, fairly slow but deliberate. He does not say anything about the hickey (embarrassing) thank goodness. I fuck him, he cums while fucking. I cum in the condom. I take off the condom, he checks it, and takes it to the bathroom, and comes out with towels. Such a gentleman. We cuddle, fall asleep for an hour, and then he has to leave. He tells me he is usually free during the day, and I should Line him anytime. He offers to come back later for dinner and spend the night. I say I have plans (sex touri). But keep him in mind if I get a slow day. I could easily just have spent the whole vacation with him, but that’s not why I am here. He seems interested in seeing me again and knowing me better, but I can’t go down that road. Before he leaves he kneels and puts my dick in his mouth. I get hard right away, but he needs to get back to work. He leaves. I jack off and cum. I fall asleep and dream of boys.

Day 1 Wake up at 10 AM, just in time for the free breakfast, a hallmark for all Holiday Inn Expresses anywhere in the world. Breakfast is excellent, eggs, hot meats, fried rice, rice porridge, and the usual pastries and cereal for Westerners. Why can’t they do this in USA Holiday Inn Expresses? Maybe everything is just better in Thailand. I notice a few gay Asian guests, but the majority are families. I see two obviously looking working girls with farang, but do not see any obvious money boys. Maybe I’m too jet-lagged to be discerning this morning. I’ve decided that this trip will be worth it if I also focus on fitness and losing weight and maintaining/increasing muscle mass, so I’ve researched my fitness options in Bangkok and Pattaya for this trip. The Holiday Inn Express does not have a complete gym, only some treadmills, ellipticals, and some puny weights. So I decided to go to the Clark Hatch Gym Thaniya on the 9th Floor Thaniya Plaza. Took me about 9 minutes to walk from the hotel to Thaniya Plaza, so I figure the hotel is more or less walking distance to the Soi Twilight bars. At Thaniya Plaza, it took me forever to find the correct set of elevators to get to the 9th floor, because I couldn’t figure out which ones to take. I first entered Thaniya Plaza from the Sala Daeng BTS station, not knowing this was the BTS wing of the building. Went up to 9th floor, nothing. Found the main Thaniya Plaza, but only found a hundred golf shops. I finally find the elevators to the 9th floor, and checked in to the gym. It’s very pricey for a day pass at 500 baht a day, but you get a change of clothes (tank top – or singlet here, and shorts), a small and large towel, and a locker. You also have access to the pool and the shower facilities. I get a good 2 hour workout in, and checked out some hot young Asians, presumably Thai, body builders. Do they work in Tawan? Probably not, but they certainly were the type. I went on to hunt for a post-workout protein shake. Do they exist in the Thailand? I was lucky, I stumbled upon this Jamba Juice type corner shop across the street from Flann O’Brien Irish Pub in Silom. Got the protein shake for 75 baht (super cheap, yummy and filling), and noticed the gay posters decorating this store. It’s a gay establishment! And the two guys making the shakes where very cute, Tawan type guys (muscley, late 20s). Maybe BKK is telling me to go to Tawan tonight as a first bar. I check my messages, and make plans with a forum member to have dinner tonight. I’m not comfortable revealing his username so let’s just say he comes from a neighboring country of Thailand and is close to my age. We also make plans to go see a gogo boy show. Should be fun. I get back to hotel and thankfully the maid has made up the room. It’s 1:30 PM and I check Grindr. More pings, and get some messages from some farang too. Had a serious conversation with a 24 year old Thai money boy (twinkish, fair skin - probably photoshopped, prefer darker skin anyway so its cool) who is offering massage and “I do everything” sex for 2000 baht. Seems something I would be interested in, but in between the jet lag and workout, I fall asleep. Luckily I set the alarm for 6 PM. Enough time to shower and do some research on some forum messages about Soi Twilight bars. I meet forum member 1 (FM1) for dinner, he suggests some street food, which I gladly accept, because at this point I’ve been in Thailand for 18 hours and all I’ve eaten are a couple of Kit Kat bars, an omelet, and a protein shake. We sit down for the street food, menu was in Thai, but had giant pictures of the dishes (for stupid tourists) as well. Since this is a fitness vacation, I opt to get a chicken curry (chicken, coconut milk – healthy) and no rice (don’t want bloating tonight). FM 1 decides on fish. Food was excellent, and FM 1 paid (thanks!). We then walk to Soi Twilight. I realized that we were close to Chong Nonsi BTS station, so it was a bit of a walk. But it was great talking to FM1, and we talk about life back home, and why we go to Thailand. Newsflash: we go for the boys. We decide to get a drink first at Dick’s Café. Nice bar for people watching, and I start getting excited about the possibilities the night might bring. 110 baht for a beer, I buy FM1’s drinks. I let FM1 decide what bar he wants to go to, since it is his last night in BKK. We go to X-Size at around 9:45 PM. Good looking boys (12 of them), about 4 customers, 1 farang and the rest older Asians. Drinks were 350 baht. FM1 makes googly eyes with one boy, and I guess this was enough for the boy to just get down the stage and sit with us. He was tall, cute, probably 21, and I immediately think of the things I want to do to him (something about burying my face in that great ass and eating it for days, among other things). But I settle for just a respectful grope and some required conversation (“You from America? I thought you chinese”). FM1 gets antsy, says he wants to see a show. It’s 10:30 PM, so Dreamboys probably is a good next bar. 500 baht drinks because it’s Chinese New Year, and supposedly there is special Chinese New Year show. Super expensive but oh well, I’m on vacation, and I want to see a Chinese New Year themed fuck show. I’ve been to Dreamboys probably 7 times, and the show is always the same. Not really the same, because they change the dance numbers fairly frequently (I enjoy them, and the Chinese crowd eats it up), but they usually have the same sexy dance number featuring their star (gorgeous guy, crazy abs, not off-able I believe), something with candles, something with neon paint, something with drag queens with dicks hanging out (for comic relief, newcomers love it). Between sets, the boys parade. Dreamboys always has quantity and diversity on its side. You like tall and masculine, he’s here. You like a twink with a boyish smile, he’s here. Muscular and a big dick, he’s here. I’m not in the mood to pick yet, I’m just enjoying the spectacle of it all. FM1 can’t decide. I decide to wait for FM1 to get one, and then I decide if I do as well. The show ends (11:30 PM, and a 12 AM show coming up), and we decide to leave because we were not feeling it with this bar. So we head over to Screwboys. I’ve only been to this bar once before, and was able to get a great bottom last time. So this is the third bar of the night, and with it, the third ridiculously expensive drink. But I was having fun, FM1 was good company, and this was the first night. We get to Screwboys, there was probably 12 customers there, and 15 boys. We sit down, and I immediately ask the mamasan to write down in a piece of paper the number of the boys who were bottoms. She gives me 6 numbers. I zero in on two guys. One looking super innocent, probably 19 and super twinky. The other, gorgeous face, probably late 20s, and has a ridiculous 8-pack. I ask mamasan if “they do everything”, and mamasan promises an amazing night of ecstasy whoever I choose. I choose older boy, and mamasan talks to boy for 30 seconds, presumably about my wishes (do everything). FM1 gets a hunky guy of his own, and both boys sit with us. We buy them drinks. My guy asks the required questions, and then has great follow up questions (“You from America? I thought you Vietnamese”). His English was pretty good actually, and that’s all I needed to decide to off him (ok, his 8-pack and big bulge helped). FM1 offs his guy as well. We get our bill, I am charged 1200 baht (My drink, boy drink and off fee), and FM1 is charged 1100 baht (for same things). I ask why I pay 100 baht more, and mamasan tells me I am offing the star of the bar. Bullshit or not, I am OK with it. We leave and FM1 and I part ways at the door, with respective boys in tow. I ask my guy if he wants to eat something. He gladly accepts, so we head to Foodland on Patpong to get something to eat. He picks a chicken dish that cost 120 baht. I get a water (fitness). We have a great conversation about his life, why he is a money boy, him being gay, and admitting that he was 34 years old. He thought I’d be mad because he lied before (he said 28), and I said I’m used to the age being fudged, because I guess they think youth sells, but I tell him that if I picked you it’s because you’re my type and you can hold a conversation with me. Time and again I get boys who are older than me, and this happens more often than not, because one of my musts is that the guy needs to be able to talk to me, and if you’re older, you have had more time practicing your English. Very pleasant conversation walking to the hotel. I open up about my work, and how I can afford my trips here. He opens up about family life, and his on-and-off gogo boy life, and failed businesses. We get to hotel, guard is there, but does not check ID. We talk for 30 minutes in the room, cuddling, kissing as well. He showers, gets out of bathroom in a towel. A body to die for, and a killer smile. Hard as a rock, I hurriedly shower, and then commence with the festivities. He sucked like a champ. I fuck him, and then he sits on my dick, he almost breaks said dick coz he is crazy excited. I pull out, he chuck wows me, a gusher. He then chuck wows himself, cum flies everywhere, and manages to get cum in his hair. We laugh, leave the cum there, and talk some more about silly stuff. He then puts his lips on my chest, and then leaves a giant hickey near my left nipple. A badge of honor. I don't care. I decided for just short time (jet lag is cruel), but paid him 2500 baht (we agreed on 2000 baht ST and 3000 baht LT beforehand), because I was feeling happy. We exchange Line, and I had every intention to see him again. 3 AM now, we probably fucked for 20 minutes , walked for 15 minutes, ate for 15 minutes, so that makes it a solid two hours of talking.

This is my 8th trip to LOS and its probably one of the longest ones I’m taking at 17 days. Usually I only take 4-9 days at a time because I’m usually in Asia for work, and this is the first time I’m going just for the heck of it. Background, I’m 34, Asian American, and have an 8-year relationship with a great guy (white, 33). Why do I go to Thailand? Well, I’m a horny bastard, and believe or not between my bf (sex life still there but has declined), occasional Grindr and Scruff hookups, and the random trick in West Hollywood gay bars (I live in SoCal), I need more. I am intoxicated by the sex industry in Thailand, and fascinated by the lives and try to make friends with the money boys and locals. I booked this trip way back in September, 2015 one week after my last trip to Thailand (9 days, BKK and Pattaya). That trip was great, and it was a trip of some firsts for me (first time at Jomtien Complex and had a blast, first Massage place I visited – Hero and then Senso). What tipped the scales for me to buy a ticket was the unbelievable $550 fare that United had for February. So decided to book a two-week trip to Thailand, and fast-forward to February, a week before my flight, forgetting why I booked this trip, and not wanting to go. Do I really want to endure that 10 hour flight to Tokyo, and then that 7 hour flight to BKK? Am I really that horny? Why can’t this Asian guy I just hooked up with (found on Grindr, mid-20s, twinkish, insatiable bottom) be enough? Relunctantly, I get some crisp $100 bills from Bank of America, do a giant load of laundry and haphazardly stuff clothes in my bag, and then ask my bf to drive me to LAX. He is used to me running away, due to my work travel and generous vacation package from my work. He’s coming with me this April for Songkran and GCircuit, and is eager to see what the fuss is all about with Thailand. I get on my flight, load up on sleeping pills… zzzz Day 0 I get to Suvarnabhumi at 11:45 PM. I guess it really is peak season, because immigration is packed. It took me probably 15 minutes to get through it, and then another 20 minutes waiting for my luggage. At this point, its 12:30 AM, and I’m just about to get a SIM card at the dtac counter for the Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo access that has been an intrinsic part of my experience in Thailand. Figure in getting in line for the SIM card, the 40-minute cab ride to my hotel (500 baht, never changed since 2014), I was at my hotel close to 2:00 AM. It’s probably too late even for Screwboys at this point (don’t they close at 3 AM?). Sigh. I open Grindr/Hornet/PRomeo in the cab ride to the hotel. Looking at the guys on there suddenly got me hard in the cab. Cab driver is nice uncle type but not cute. I try to follow the ride on Google Maps. I chose the Holiday Inn Express Sathorn for a first hotel. Background: I get a ton of points from IHG and Marriott hotels, from my work travels, so I cash them in when I’m on vacation. The hotel is kind of off the main drag at Silom, but I wanted to check it out coz it only will cost my 15,000 points a night, and it just opened in December. And yes, everything looked new in the hotel when I got there. Checked the joiner fee status of the hotel before booking by emailing them beforehand. They say it's fine if it's one guest, 500 baht for any additional. No orgies in this hotel I guess. Nice big room, nicer than Holiday Inn Expresses back home. No idea if this was an upgraded room because of my point status. Surprised there is a mini bar. I take a shower, prepare for bed, and check my gay apps. I get some pings from cute boys, and I try to engage. The usual “How are you”, “whats your name”, “ where you from”, and “how long you Bangkok” come in rapid succession in the chats. Took 15 minutes of this and got probably 3 money boys and 2 locals that were interesting. Forced myself to jack off so I don’t meet anyone (I need to get over this jet lag), took some sleeping pills, and then went to bed. It is 3 AM. To be continued

Thanks guys, this is great information. SenYai, awesome link! All your suggestions have made me want to go. With the understanding that (1) the gay scene is not as big and as "out there" as pattaya, (2) the beach is great and there are pretty good excursions and shopping choices, and (3) the gogo bars are different, but they exist, and they have that unique street presentation thingie, and I am curious to see that. I guess the last question I would have is where to book the flights. I'll be in BKK April 9, I'm thinking of flying to Phuket on the 19th. Is it cheaper to book in BKK closer to the date of departure, than it is using Orbitz or Travelocity now? I'm seeing ~$60 via AirAsia or $160 with BangkokAirways (I like them, use them to go to CM), would it be more advantageous to just go to a travel agent in BKK and save a few baht?

Thanks firecat69 and vinapu, for the encouragement. I'll post my trip report soon and see if anyone even reads it. We all come to Thailand for slightly different reasons, but I guess one constant would be: we are here for the boys, so I guess there will be some use for my useless ramblings. I do appreciate your reports though and have used them to great success in my trips. I'm still on the fence with Phuket. Main reason to go for me at this point is that I've never been there before. If any guys have any more suggestions about it, I'd appreciate it.

Yes I understand the risk. I've actually done this with some of my "boyfriends" and they seemed to be generally ok with it. It's especially fascinating to see a Jomtien complex boy react to the show at Boyzboyzboyz, and then try to pick which 3rd he wants to have for the night. Or a Dreamboys guy go with me to the Jupiter show and comment on how he thinks his bar is much better (as well as have some bitchy asides all throughout the show). Most of the time, I just want to see the gogo boy show, with my boy beside me, and not have the pressure to off anyone by the end of the night, since I already have someone I'm going home with. Any off that might be picked up that night will just be the cherry on top of an already beautiful sundae.

Thanks gerefan. I am guessing Phuket has a less seedy vibe than Pattaya? I'm glad there are some gogo bars. Gogo bars are a big reason why I go to Thailand, so I think i'll check those out with my boy. Not necessarily to off anyone (though it may happen), but it's nice to have the option. Are the prices in Phuket generally the same as in Pattaya? Or is it more expensive there in general? An image search online of Phuket gets me very beautiful sceneries of beaches and water. Hopefully this is actually the case, versus the open sewage that greets you in Pattaya beach. Are there good excursions off the main drag that are worth visiting? I am thinking of staying at a chain hotel that is somewhat walkable to nightlife, since I have points I can use. Though I'll do some research on the Royal Paradise Hotel.

Thanks guys for contacting me in my previous post. Sorry I only had time to meet with some of you (thank you!!!, you know who you guys are), I guess it turned out to be a busy trip. Overall, had a great February in Bangkok and Pattaya. Thought about doing trip reports, and have notes on almost all of my escapades, but not sure if anyone would be interested in any of my ramblings. Anyways, this is my 8th (?) time in Thailand and every trip I always meet a money boy that I "fall in love" with and continue to communicate with through Line after my trips. I've "collected" probably 5 guys now, and thankfully only one has asked for money when I am back home in the USA. I try to off these guys whenever I come back, just because I've grown fond of them, and usually have great conversations with them about their lives whenever I see them again. Anyway, I am coming back in April for Songkran, and the dance party GCircuit, and will be with my friends, all of us from California, that week (4/8-4/17). I'll be staying in Thailand, alone, two weeks after that, and will be taking one of my gogo boy/moneyboy "boyfriends" (from Myanmar, 21, dark skin, lean muscular body, smile that'll melt anyone's heart, and can't speak english to save his life but has been improving), for a vacation for a week. I've been trying to think of good non-Bangkok/Pattaya locations, and already thinking about Chiang Mai as a possible location (I've been, and liked it), but I've been wondering about Phuket. Is it worth it to go? Or is it just too much like Pattaya? Are there good gogo bars and gay dance bars? Any other tips for Phuket? I can't seem to find any in any of my searches. Thanks!

Thanks I will. I thought about writing one for the last October trip but I guess fun just got me too busy . I've been liking your massage reports vinapu, I'll go to more massage place this trip.

Hey guys! Long-time lurker and first time poster. Been to Thailand 6 times now, and will be there again in a few days, but felt the urge to reach out and see if anyone would want to meet up over dinner or drinks or whatever. I've always been staying in Thailand by myself those past trips but thought it would be cool this time to compare battle scars about their experiences in Thailand. About me, I'm 34, Asian American, on the muscular side, have a bf, but do these excursions once in a while on my own. I'll be flying in from California and will mostly be staying at the Holiday inn express sathorn in BKK, and the Aya Hotel in Pattaya. Thanks guys for reading. This site has been a god-send for me, as your tips have made all my trips successful. Cheers!