Noutchie

"I don't know." and "Up to you." you will hear.

that the lesson I learned over years, one has always choice and must live with consequences.
 
Earlier I was cautious to economize and keen to stick to so called 'fair rates'. Than after few experiences like yours - boy I liked disappeared from the scene depriving me forever a chance to embrace him now I rather employ " boy first, money second" approach. Doesn't always work as I wish but by grace of God worked perfectly this trip. 
 
If I chickened out and passed offing Tam,  #60 from Boy66  I know I'd be spitting at myself in the mirror every morning when I shave. 
 
When I travel I use the same approach in respect of tours and souvenirs, If I want go somewhere I pay , if I see something I like I may bargain but I will buy it. Some genius invented line of credit, why not to use it, LOL

Boy69, it wasn't that the boy wasn't my type (just not quite as attractive as his pics). The hygiene issues weren't immediately apparent so we were already in the room. I guess I find confrontation difficult!
 
Reader, perhaps for the same reason above, I like the ability to do selection online. I have sat in bars, sitting with a boy I have bought a drink for (as don't like sitting alone), only to find another boy far more attractive (maybe at the same bar or one opposite). I find it difficult to dump one for the other! Now I realise it's a business, but these guys are human and have feelings. That's my issue. Thoughts and tips welcome.

Pratunam Market, Platinum Via Khlong Saen Saep Express Boat 1st Aug 2017
 
I woke up around 8 or so, and did search for ways to go to pratunam market and Platinum shopping complex. The location isnt eaxctly near any BTS, not without some 15-20mins walk. But I noticed that it is close to the small canal that has a Khlong Saen Saep Express Boat. This boat Service have 2 lines, and Pratunam is the main interchange pier. Went down to lobby close to 10am for breakfast and start my journey to MRT silom and alight at petchaburi station. This station also an interchange for ART to Swampy airport. All i have to do was to follow the sign that says ferry pier and took a small stairs down near the bridge to the pier. Waited for a few minutes for the boat to arrive, making sure i took the boat on the right direction towards pratunam. I had to hold on the rope to aboard to boat, and first time i stepped straight on the boat floor instead of the seats, and almost slipped, silly me thinking that it is not nice to step on the seats with your dirty slipper. It cost only 10 bath per trip to Pratunam and the conductor comes to you from the sides of the boat. 
 
Alight at Pratunam and as soon as i climbed the stairs up the bridge, i saw platinum shopping complex across the road. I checked the map for pratunam market and make my way to the location in the map, and end up inside Paladium Mall. I took a tour of this mall, inside and around before i realize the map was indeed wrong. Pratunam market is actually across the road, and it is consist of multiple alley between the old buildings. At around 11am, many of the stalls are close but a few other stalls outside are open, I make my rounds and didnt find anything interesting, and make my way to platinum mall to cool off. Went inside the mall, and it is packed with locals and foreigners alike, and i start seeing middle easterns foreigners here with their hand fulls of shopping bags. I was there probably 30mins, and the escalator isnt working and one blackout happened, which resolves after few mins. After that I make my way to MBK, using the boat, and alight at the next station, Sapan Hua Chang. I was ready to pay the conductor but couldnt reach him before i alight the boat, he was quite far and there were a lot of people aboard at pratunam at that time. 
 
Before reaching MBK, i enter one interesting building just before crossing the road to MBK, called Bangkok Art and Culture Center. Even outside the building, there are some interesting sculptures around the building. Inside, there are some mostly mordern art display, gift shops and cafe. I go up to skywalk level and went to MBK for lunch. On my way there, one of the member of a different forum Line me asking if i wanted to join him to go to Arena, which is tempting, but i already have DB #44 tonight and dont want to spoil the mood, so I asked if he wanted to go tomorrow instead. He is deadset on going today so I just give him some advise on what to expect, in terms of picking boys, and tips etc. After lunch, I also packed some dishes for dinner, and went back to hotel, and took a nap. I really like to do this with any places that warrant a night visits to some of the tourist area and gay area. went out early morning until lunch then went back to hotel, shower and take a nap, and woke up fresh for my night exploring. Did exactly that with my visit to Hong Kong last year as well. Something u usually cant do when travelling with friends and they wanted to be out all the time and back to hotel after dinner and go to sleep. 
 
So i woke up from napping at about 6 or so, had my dinner. I actually texted DB#44 this morning at breakfast to reconfirm our meeting tonight. I filled my time watching tv and shower around 8 or so, and texted my location and room number to him at about 8.30pm. Tonight, i asked him to come at 9pm, 1 hour earlier than last meeting and he is ok with that too. At exactly 9pm. I hear knocking on my door and its him right on time! And he looked delighted and fresh too. I asked him how was his day, and told him about my day a bit. More conversation about his family, his hometown, about food, he cook his own food most of the time. Made some comment on his metal bracelet, lots of thai are wearing those and he said its cheap (150 baht). After a while he asked if i already shower and i said i had and he proceeded to take shower by himself. I show him the shower cap, and get a huge smile from him! And needless to say, the session after that went on and it was even better than before. Its a mixed of familiarity as by now he knows what i like and no more awkwardness anymore. And as always, I will be the one to make the call and he always says lets cum together and this time, i came 1-2 minutes before he did, That's the first lol. 
 
After that, we went to the shower together, some indecent touching as well inside, mostly helping each other to clean up. Its only 11pm though, so he quickly browse through his phone (he has always been very brief with checking his phone the three times i off him, maximum 2-3mins only) and we cuddle a bit. Since its still early, I asked if he wanted to wacth tv, he says ok, and we watch this anime, which is dubbed in thai, but its one piece, and ive watched it before so i can understand the story a bit lol. and we went to sleep close to midnight. And again, he slept naked for my benefit, and I sure take advantage of that from time to time. At close to 4.30am, his alarm clock rang and that woke me up, he stays in bed with me for a while before got up to shower. Another chat on my day plan with him (i said i wanted to just have a massage somewhere tomorrow, which i did) and we bid farewell, gave him the tips ((slightly higher than before knowing this will be my last time seeing him for a while). He hug me and kiss on the lips. and i show him the door and get another hug and kisses and off he went.