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Your tenacity with the life in rural cambodia is commendable. I for one would have been miserable. Glad you are taking a rest now in siem reap but also glad you survive and seems to be able to live in the farm house without internet. Wanted to comment on the request to contribute for the parent, but honestly I have no idea how it is in cambodia and their culture for the holiday pchum ben. I can share my own experience in malaysia but it might not be the same. Anyway, i used google ai to ask about it and the answer seems to fit what Cam is giving and what is expected from foreign boyfriend. Usd200. The same amount expected from child who work overseas. As a comparison, asked the same about a holiday in malaysia and AI answer is lower than what i usually gave my parents. So its really not helping lol

When i was with a regular guy that came close to this, I would imagine a life with him in the future. Yes, relocation was an option, mostly seeing if i can bring him here instead of me living in his country as Im still working full time. Alas it didnt go further than that. It would be a different story if im retired or close to retiring though. I consider myself very picky even when it comes to hiring from bar. Those who pass the test to be a regular are a few, and those who i want to spend time more than the night are even less. But I still enjoy the chase just not as often and would always prefer tried and tested guys over new ones unless they are "ideal" type. It work well in Thailand, especially Bangkok, where my Ideal type are sufficiently available. Back home, there are fewer and much more expensive...

Thanks for the heads up! Alas its been a while since ive been to pattaya so i havent meet him for a while, and he is now attached lol

Not to pry but would the local guy who you are down to date with will factor in your decision between the two? No need to answer if you dont want to.

Ah, then there might be a "hoping" that this short term fling might turn long term once you are here, fully settled in retirement?

No need to say sorry at all. You are enjoying a hot guy in your room, twice. How is that boring? Lol. And it seems that your first round lasted until near sunset? Wow.

I wonder if any of your 3 guys know of your interest to retire in thailand?

I did doi inthanon visit, and coupled it with par chor canyon in mae wang national park. There are several waterfalls too. Advisable to hire a car and guide (i used woody) For doi suthep, i used the seongthaw. U can take the red seongthaw from across the north of old city gate to the zoo to get to another one that will take you to the temple. It can be a while to get going as they will wait until the seongthaw is full before depart especially during low season. Another option is to negotiate with the driver to take you up as private hire.

I agree with you that waiter whose job only to serve drinks shouldnt get the same tip as the big cock show guys parading their goods. But in ocassion where waiter is more of my type, and the big cock show guy isnt, i might tend to be biased and tips the waiter more, and no tip to the unsolicited big cock guy who come to me. Sad reality but sadly it is a reality.

Overtipping when a repeat is forthcumming is wise indeed. They will remember you and perhaps be more willing the next time. The standard tipping in non tourist area for legit massage is around 100 baht per hour. Even prime massage in soi 6, the min tip is 100 baht. Of course you can always tip higher. One measure i use apart for the guy is my type, is their skill and their willingness to get sensual. This include covering all part of my body, and his body touching mine etc. if there is a clear teasing or flirty touch, then it goes to the level of extra service min of 500, higher if it goes to the actual extra service. If the guy isnt my type, standard tipping applies. No amount of sensual/touching/flirty will increase my tips. But a great massage can and will make me horny, so skills will get some bonus tip from me as well.

Its a turn on for me when the guy is shy lol

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Much easier to do that in chiang mai. I concur nimman area is great. Also tried gentle massage before. Legit all male masseur center. But my fav place for massage was chevalier massage nearer to airport. Had legit massage and since the masseur is my type, i asked if he do more and he shyly said yes but just hj. Who am i to say no

Wow. Thats something

I wouldve done this had i known about this before hand. I dont care much about movies and going there is really my treat for him. I can always go again anytime lol