I think that is a very good observation of the Other Place.
Here, not so much. Look how often we sincerely regularly cut each other into meatballs, yet at the end of each day do pretty generally get along. And really like one another.
Honesty. I like it, and find the mutual rough handling very beneficial, and even instructive, as I think on it.
And I have no taste at all for BDSM!