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Paying4sex

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  1.    Paying4sex reacted to a post in a topic: Your First Gay Experience?
  2. Rod, This is good. If I visit the West Coast, perhaps I'll give you a call. Do you need advance notice, or do you always stink?
  3. We need to insist that this is just as unacceptable as a racism or aniti-sematism!
  4. Paying4sex replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    Romney is a noted homophobe, trotting out an old - seldom used - law to block same-sex marriages for out-of-state residents. Rudolph Giuliani apprently is not a homophobe, but his party is very homophobic! As far as McCain goes, I assume that he's not a homophobe becasue his mentor - Barry Goldwater- was an ouispoken supporter of gay rights. However, the same applies to him; he represents a homophobic party!
  5. Interesting story perhaps, but what has it to do with the Escorting?
  6. >Now it is my understanding and please techie gods correct me >but even though you delete emails or anything on your computer >it isn't fully deleted. There are ways to retreive information >that has been deleted. It isn't easy to do from my >understanding but it is possible. > >Hugs, >Greg E-mail is indeed dangerous. If you must email an escort, it s best not to use your regular email ID. In any case, don't discuss the details of your arrangements. Have him call you as telephones conversations are not quite as easy to recover as emails. Telephone records are keot for a long time, but they only record the fact of the call, not the content.
  7. Unless they kept good records with lots of details (or kept the email), it would not be possible to charge clients. Also, for that price one could fly to Amsterdam or some other place where it’s perfectly legal! Here’s some general advice. Don’t communicate by email except to make initial contact. Don’t give your real name, and pay cash. I generally use my cell phone, but using a public pay phone would be better (which is what I used to do before we had cell phones). Since the escort generally has to call you back, and since pay phones frequently can’t receive calls, it may be necessary to use your cell phone. I would hope that my escort does not keep detailed records, as that’s a danger to himself and to clients. Certainly, he should not keep track of phone numbers.
  8. Paying4sex replied to a post in a topic in The Beer Bar
    Rupert Evertt is really hot. The fact that he doesn't wear deodorant makes him even hotter!! Link ===> http://www.contactmusic.com/new/xmlfeed.ns...natural%20scent
  9. Surely, somebody must share this fetish with me!
  10. I’m generally against the death penalty, but not in this case. It isn’t even about his crimes being so horrendous (which they were). The problem is that in the back of many people’s mind – Iraqi and otherwise – was that he would some day return to power. This is the only way we can all be assured that this would never happen! I think that he had a very small handful of loyalists, and that everybody else secretly despised him. They were afraid to speak up even now for fear of his return to power. With his death, I am now assured that he will not return to power.
  11. Some guys will use the services of escorts, but then look down upon them. While this is more prevalent with straight guys using female escorts, it is certainly not unknown among us. If it is “seedy” to provide these services, it is equally “seedy” to use them! If you use these services (as I do), the user of these services has no right to look down on the provider of them! Should you run across somebody who provided these services to you in your “ordinary” life, please treat him with respect. Should you hire a new escort who turns out not to be a stranger, remember that he deserves to be respected. Depending on how well and under what circumstances you know him, you may not want to go through with the session; this is understandable. However, explain this to him nicely. Perhaps it would be nice to leave him a tip anyhow, as he did make time for you. If you are comfortable going though with the session, that’s fine too. In this situation, you must also remember that he might be uncomfortable going through with the session. In that case you should respect him, but perhaps a tip is not in order. I was inspired to write this by an incident that happened some time ago. An escort that I had hired turned out to be somebody that I knew fairly well. It was an in-call (his place) before most ads featured any type of picture. His name was on the doorbell, but it was a fairly common name, so I assumed that it was a coincidence and rang the bell. I won’t reveal what happened next, as this was extremely private and embarrassing for both of us.
  12. I dion't use my real name and I only pay cash. They do have my celll phione number, but that's unavoidable. I do worry more about law enforcement snooping around than about an escort mouthing off voluntarily (I'm just not a public enough person to make it worth their while).
  13. Of course, there's a difference. I think most people know that I'm gay, but I wouldn't want them to know that I'm paying for sex.
  14. Looking for sweaty armpits (no deodorant) escort in N.Y. City.

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