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Stick to this plan since you have the ticket....Colombia and Brasil can be a different trip, like you said a bit closer.

 
 
Not in my experience... Westerners are held on a higher plateau in developing and third world countries......Take those same nationalities, that have made it to or born in the US,  they might not think much about skin color or where you're from, unless you're rich.....then in that case everyone is looking for a sugar daddy, lol

 
 
Brasil: AMAZING sex, fun guys, especially Cariocas (people from Rio)....Food in SP is good, Rio is meh, Rio good touristy stuff, SP big ugly city.

Medellin: I've just recently rediscovered here after many years avoiding it....going back for my 3rd time in the last 4 months, finding more love for Venezuelans but Colombians are good too. Great food options, Airbnb & Hotels a little more than others, not by much, guys are a bargain and well worth it.

Thailand: Fun AMAZING massage, food, Business class flights, hotels, nightlife, too transactional money sex, not cheap after considering off/drinks/tips,  occasionally find good sex, but usually mediocre, guys are nice but too many  seem to have a drama story waiting for the sympathetic Farang to throw money at them like an angel, then they buy an iPhone or splurge drink with their friends....not all, but a majority.

Philippines: Free scene guys are looking for a husband/bf money guys aren't as cheap as you think.....mixed bag. More expensive than other places in Asia in general.

Indonesia: Still the least expensive in my eyes for what you get and most are cut, which is a good change after all these years visiting uncut countries.


These are from my personal experiences and some generalizations as I've been traveling for a long time. Scenes change (Cuba) that used to be amazing and now dismal. I'm going back to Cambodia this year, I haven't been for a long time so can't comment much there, although my last time in PP, I was ready to leave and my only time in Vietnam, I was ready to leave after 2 days there. I live in Mexico and have a lot on my doorstep literally or a short flight away....You're in US, but some Mexico flights can be more than a flight to Colombia , but Mexico city, Monterrey are very gay and not so "touristic" Mexico.

There is no PERFECT place....and if there was, a lot of us would still go looking for the pot of gold somewhere else, lol

It was a cool party, though not risque.  Lots of porn starts socializing, snapping pics, dancing.  The anticipation that something might happen gave the room a charged atmosphere, but it was just a networking party. Of course, they booked lots of private massages afterwards. I was nervous to go on my own, so I stopped at Lagoa first and invited a hot guy to go with me. I am glad I did; he took good care of me at the party and afterwards.  

 
 

It was a cool party, though not risque.  Lots of porn starts socializing, snapping pics, dancing.  The anticipation that something might happen gave the room a charged atmosphere, but it was just a networking party. Of course, they booked lots of private massages afterwards. I was nervous to go on my own, so I stopped at Lagoa first and invited a hot guy to go with me. I am glad I did; he took good care of me at the party and afterwards.  

 
 

It was a cool party, though not risque.  Lots of porn starts socializing, snapping pics, dancing.  The anticipation that something might happen gave the room a charged atmosphere, but it was just a networking party. Of course, they booked lots of private massages afterwards. I was nervous to go on my own, so I stopped at Lagoa first and invited a hot guy to go with me. I am glad I did; he took good care of me at the party and afterwards.  

 
 

I'm heading to Sao Paulo next week and just discovered on IG that Erick Diaz, star of gay porn in Brazil, is hosting his 23rd birthday party at a mansion on Saturday, August 5, in the suburbs of SP.
A dozen or more other gay porn stars will be there.  Tickets are 50BRL.    I don't know what to expect but I am excited by the prospect of this unexpected adventure.

https://www.instagram.com/paraisodadiversidade/
 
 

Thank vinapu, for your highly informative reporting.  I just booked my first trip to BK in mid-August, staying at the Quarter Silom, and looking forward to a fun-filled week exploring.  

Thank vinapu, for your highly informative reporting.  I just booked my first trip to BK in mid-August, staying at the Quarter Silom, and looking forward to a fun-filled week exploring.  

Yeah, for me, I wouldn't say I'm sick of the gogo bars, especially since I haven't been to one in years, but it's more about finding a guy that makes my heart skip a beat. It's not even about a "type", but a special quality. 
I've already seen photos of two guys at Chill that give me the heart beat skip...and thus will end up with too much of my money.
HiSo seems to have a ton of hunky guys, but there's one who wears glasses who could be balancing my books during the day and then doing some bedroom credits and debits at night. Must. Meet. Him.
Fun Fact: It also seems that Nutt from Moonlight makes appearances at Chill, especially when they do boxing theme nights.

Mid May, I planned a short visit to Bangkok after a business trip.
Thailand Pass was easy to get, even if converting all pdf’s into jpeg made me waste some time.
I’m a big fan of the Raya hotel on Surawong road, so I booked the Executive Suite on the top floor. It was a bargain for such a nice room : 2400 baht per night.
I took a night flight from Europe, so I arrived in the afternoon local time. Passing immigration was very fast, so after buying a local sim card, I took a taxi to the hotel.
Day 1 : start with a massage and visit the bars
I prefer to start all my trips with a nice massage, so I went to Silom Soi 6 where you now have several shops next to each other. I think all shops offer the same services, so it is best to take the masseur you like most.
I selected a Thai masseur from Natural Massage. Very good massage skills and very willing to earn an extra tip. I left very happy, to have dinner in La Dotta, a nice Italian restaurant on Convent Road.
In the evening I wanted to visit all the bars.
I started with The New Twilight. I see 2 problems with the bar: location and clothing. The first one is the location: easy to find for regular visitors of the bar scene, but totally impossible to find for newcomers. The boys were wearing some kind of uniform: jeans, blue shirt and white sneakers. Well, not really a uniform as all had different ones. In other bars, boys are shirtless now. About 10 boys on stage, average looking. Not so many customers, but they had one beside me who ordered bottle of alcohol and was pampered by the staff. When you've visited Patpong bars, it is worth a visit, but not top priority.
I liked Golden Cock, but this bar does no longer exist and the small bar at the other side of the street doesn’t appeal to me.
I would have loved to go to Lucky Boys, which was my favorite during my 2020 trip, but that bar remains also closed. So I visit the other bars in the neighborhood : Dream Boy, Fresh Boys and Hotmale. The show at Dream Boy is boring, as the level is far below it used to be before covid. Decent selection of boys in all 3 bars. Drink price 350 baht, except Hotmale where I paid 400.
Returning to my room after midnight, I noticed front door of Raya is locked, so you have to take the elevator in the inside parking lot. 

I was in Medellin two weeks ago and had so much sex, I can't wait to go back. Most of the guys I hooked up with were from CB. One, however, was from Grindr. It's important to meet guys at a cafe first before committing to a hookup. But I had no problems. And the prices are incredible. Most ask for 100-150,000 COP ($35-50) but will accept less. Of course, the more generous you are the more you get in return...

I was in Medellin two weeks ago and had so much sex, I can't wait to go back. Most of the guys I hooked up with were from CB. One, however, was from Grindr. It's important to meet guys at a cafe first before committing to a hookup. But I had no problems. And the prices are incredible. Most ask for 100-150,000 COP ($35-50) but will accept less. Of course, the more generous you are the more you get in return...

I was in Medellin two weeks ago and had so much sex, I can't wait to go back. Most of the guys I hooked up with were from CB. One, however, was from Grindr. It's important to meet guys at a cafe first before committing to a hookup. But I had no problems. And the prices are incredible. Most ask for 100-150,000 COP ($35-50) but will accept less. Of course, the more generous you are the more you get in return...

OK. I returned to Black and White last night prepared to play. I ended up going to a nearby hostel (30 euros) with two boys -- yes TWO -- both Romanian (50 euro each). Beautiful boys, but the sex was very lackluster. No problem. My mistake is that I then returned to the bar to keep drinking with them. When I finally said good night and went to leave, one of the two followed me down the block imploring me to go with him again to the hostel. When I said no, he pushed me against a wall and reached into my pocket taking my cash and cards. I pushed back and wrestled him to the ground. Luckily, within seconds a taxi pulled up filled with under-cover cops and they restrained him and got my stuff back. I had to go to the police station to file a report -- very drunk and tired -- but I am happy it was not worse. Needless to say, I will not go back to B&W. Den of thieves and lousy sex. Stick to Sauna Adan. Safer and much better sex.

OK. I returned to Black and White last night prepared to play. I ended up going to a nearby hostel (30 euros) with two boys -- yes TWO -- both Romanian (50 euro each). Beautiful boys, but the sex was very lackluster. No problem. My mistake is that I then returned to the bar to keep drinking with them. When I finally said good night and went to leave, one of the two followed me down the block imploring me to go with him again to the hostel. When I said no, he pushed me against a wall and reached into my pocket taking my cash and cards. I pushed back and wrestled him to the ground. Luckily, within seconds a taxi pulled up filled with under-cover cops and they restrained him and got my stuff back. I had to go to the police station to file a report -- very drunk and tired -- but I am happy it was not worse. Needless to say, I will not go back to B&W. Den of thieves and lousy sex. Stick to Sauna Adan. Safer and much better sex.

OK. I returned to Black and White last night prepared to play. I ended up going to a nearby hostel (30 euros) with two boys -- yes TWO -- both Romanian (50 euro each). Beautiful boys, but the sex was very lackluster. No problem. My mistake is that I then returned to the bar to keep drinking with them. When I finally said good night and went to leave, one of the two followed me down the block imploring me to go with him again to the hostel. When I said no, he pushed me against a wall and reached into my pocket taking my cash and cards. I pushed back and wrestled him to the ground. Luckily, within seconds a taxi pulled up filled with under-cover cops and they restrained him and got my stuff back. I had to go to the police station to file a report -- very drunk and tired -- but I am happy it was not worse. Needless to say, I will not go back to B&W. Den of thieves and lousy sex. Stick to Sauna Adan. Safer and much better sex.

OK. I returned to Black and White last night prepared to play. I ended up going to a nearby hostel (30 euros) with two boys -- yes TWO -- both Romanian (50 euro each). Beautiful boys, but the sex was very lackluster. No problem. My mistake is that I then returned to the bar to keep drinking with them. When I finally said good night and went to leave, one of the two followed me down the block imploring me to go with him again to the hostel. When I said no, he pushed me against a wall and reached into my pocket taking my cash and cards. I pushed back and wrestled him to the ground. Luckily, within seconds a taxi pulled up filled with under-cover cops and they restrained him and got my stuff back. I had to go to the police station to file a report -- very drunk and tired -- but I am happy it was not worse. Needless to say, I will not go back to B&W. Den of thieves and lousy sex. Stick to Sauna Adan. Safer and much better sex.

I was there briefly tonight around 12:30 am. Few boys and fewer customers. One boy told me there is a stage show at 2 am and the place closes at 5am. I didn't hang out for the show, nor did I take up the boy I was chatting with on his offer to go to nearby hostel; I only arrived today and was too tired. But the boys were cute so I might return.

I was there briefly tonight around 12:30 am. Few boys and fewer customers. One boy told me there is a stage show at 2 am and the place closes at 5am. I didn't hang out for the show, nor did I take up the boy I was chatting with on his offer to go to nearby hostel; I only arrived today and was too tired. But the boys were cute so I might return.

I was there briefly tonight around 12:30 am. Few boys and fewer customers. One boy told me there is a stage show at 2 am and the place closes at 5am. I didn't hang out for the show, nor did I take up the boy I was chatting with on his offer to go to nearby hostel; I only arrived today and was too tired. But the boys were cute so I might return.

I was there briefly tonight around 12:30 am. Few boys and fewer customers. One boy told me there is a stage show at 2 am and the place closes at 5am. I didn't hang out for the show, nor did I take up the boy I was chatting with on his offer to go to nearby hostel; I only arrived today and was too tired. But the boys were cute so I might return.