Birmingham boy

HI all, Thanks for all the suggestions on the forum,I've booked awhole month trip in Colombia - Medellin 1 w, Cali 2w, Bogota 2w. Most of it is a holiday and a weekof remote work. I'm33yo and hope for unpaid activities... I've got a few concerns if anyone can address them. Any advice is much appreciated! 1. Appreciate everyone's trying to stay in touristy areas for the safety reasons, but i'd need to be around local horny guys rather than professionals so probs should aim for safe but quiet residential areas? Any suggestions for areas in each of these? Belen comes to mind for Medellin, north of Chapinero in Bogota, Cali- no idea. 2. Considering I won't be fucking 24/7 I'm a bit concerned what to actually do there, safety concerns made me think I can't just go and expore the cities, hiking places etc. Am I exxagerating? Would it be ok to use metro/public transport during the day to go to touristy spots? Really can't get my head around it considering i'm not even supposed to use my phone/map in public. 3. Would you recommend getting guys in my airbnb staright away or meeting them in public first? My spanish is very basic so wouldn't be good for proper conversations. 4. Have seen a few mentions about avoiding Tinder - what's wrong with it? I was going to meet local guys for a walk/entartainment purposes(just so I won't be alone going touristy stuff, always do that with tourists/locals in other places i've been), would you say it's a definite no or should I be aware of anything in particular? Many thanks everyone!

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I'm thinking about going to Cairo and working from home from there.. I'm 33 and I don't like to pay for sex:) Would u recommend any specific areas that are good for meeting locals apart from fancy Zamalek? Am I naive thinking I can get a cheap Airbnb and bring guys there? Anything you can advise on Airbnb/hotels to ensure they will allow guys to come in? How is the hygiene and water (ie am I ok to douche there before sex using usual shower water?). I've been to Egypt a few times but never had sex there( I'm too shy). Now I'm shy but desperate for a thick dong lol. Thanks!