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I was offered spanking as i walked past one afternoon. I replied that I'd rather spank him. He smiled. It's straight fetish so of no interest. Another evening stroll we encountered a very angry lady with the whip offering s+m. I'll stick to my filthy gay Japanese s+m porn wanks for the time being.

We're over the worst of it, we've stayed close to home while we're feeling rubbish. We can be found loitering around Dusit food basement, Tops supermarket for supplies, and Lumphini to enjoy the cats and never ending legs in tiny shorts jogging past us. We had one night 'off our faces' in silom 4, drinking, in the first few days here. We've got two weeks left here, we were going to stay two months but decided to rent an apartment in Pattaya for the second month. Bangkok is wonderful but two months here could prove a bit much for us and I wouldn't mind a paddle....

We've been here two weeks. Both full of cold and cough so off to a slow start. We did visit Lumphini last Sunday afternoon. Very enjoyable. QS is a bit tired but the location is perfect.

I used booking dot com and was searching for apartments. I couldn't bear a month in a hotel (what with housekeeping coming in everyday and I like to sleep during the day) so I wanted an apartment.

Had I not broken my collar bone four months ago, I would be in Hat Yai on a Non O visa by now with a yearly rental on a condo. Everything was in place, the visa, the condo, tickets and transport and then bang, I went down like a bowling pin and broke my collar bone three weeks before I was due to travel. I've watched the event unfold from Penang where I am currently enjoying a visa medical extension. I'm not sure how I would have coped had I found myself there as planned, this has been a truly devastating time for the south. I'm currently wondering if HY is the best place to retire to, I'm heading for 70, I know this type of event doesn't happen every year but it has and probably will happen again. The heartbreaking videos of the flood and now the clean up makes me wonder where people get thier strength from I also note that typically, it didn't take long for the blame game to begin on the socials about who should have done what and when... The reason for wanting to be in Hat Yai is that my hubby is from Penang and we have an apartment in bukit mertajam where we live when we're this side of the border. The MM2H visa is way over my head....

Sorry. My bad. You're quite right that I should have posted this in the Malaysia forum. Sorry about that

I've been in malaysia for a year, it's very boring for gay men. I did visit one tiny little sauna in KL in Bukit Bingtang for an hour, I got one asian dick in my mouth for a quick wank in the steam room, the only dick there... Seeing as gay sex and gay activities are illegal here it's obvious there are no homosexuals in Malaysia. LOL Can't wait to get to BKK in January and throw myself in the deep end of a darkroom, I'm fed up wanking at Xhamster.... link to article or read on, copy and pasted... KUALA LUMPUR: A 59-year-old specialist doctor was among those detained during a raid on a gym and sauna in Chow Kit that was allegedly operating as a front for homosexual activities. He told officers he went there to "heal and avoid the after-work traffic jam", adding that he often stopped by before returning home to his wife and children. "I usually come here to avoid the traffic after work. I can relax in the sauna and jacuzzi for a while. "I don't want to comment on what I did, but yes, such activities do take place here," he said when met at the scene yesterday. Earlier, Harian Metro reported that 201 visitors and seven employees were detained in the raid on the premises, which was allegedly used as a meeting place for men to engage in immoral acts. A 19-year-old youth was also among those arrested. He admitted learning about the place from a friend and was intrigued to visit after reading online reviews. At the time of his arrest, the youth was with a 46-year-old man and said it was his second visit. "This place is quite popular. I first came here two weeks ago and spent about three hours. At first, I just wanted to try it out but ended up getting hooked," he said. A foreign tourist in his 40s also admitted visiting the premises after reading positive comments on social media but claimed he was unaware the activities there were illegal.

Phuket is not on our radar for sure, We have seen Patong and won't return. We can't wait to go to Bangkok in January, I am very much hoping to be very busy/exhausted/expired in a dark room or steam room, fighting off the attention. (insert exhausted old man emoji) I am ignorant of the bars that you mention. I don't pay enough attention to details, unless he is cute...

you got me there. 2024

Bangkok mid jan '26 for one month. staying next to Limphini park

Here's a clip of video I took in nparadise commplex (youtube) paradise complex. xmas 2025

I wasn't blown away by it, that said we did find one quiet bar to have a beer in adjacent the main gay bar street, the main gay bar street is a bit desperate imo. We were there two weeks and most nights would take a stroll, the boys are not shy at trying to drag you in to thier bar for a drink, especially if they've seen you there the previous night. We were not there for happy endings so I can't comment on that aspect but there were plenty of cute lads offering massages without too much pressure to oblige them. Patong was over run with tourists to the point that walking the main street was an assault course, we were there over the christmas weeks. I disliked having to barter for goods, I prefer shopping where the price is displayed I doubt we would return, but that said, the boys in the street were welcoming and amusing and very pleasant. I am my own worst enemy so buying drinks for cute lads is something I don't mind doing but it's not sustainable every time you go out for a drink.

You might be aware that me and him are BKK bound in January for a month. We do like a beer and we do like a boy but, Christmas in Patong the boy bars (with permission) rinsed us of every penny. We had a fabulous time but that lifestyle is not sustainable when you only want a beer in a gay bar. I'm looking for a gay bar where we can just have a drink and not be bothered by 'and a drink for me' At the end of a long day, when we're tired and just want a very very cold beer where would you suggest? I love a boy bar and getting rinsed, but not nightly, some nights a time out is nice. Cold Beer, Gay Bar, Bangkok. Suggestions welcome, we're staying at the Quarter on Sala Daeng, by Lumphini park. Cheers.

It's not an easy thing to do but you simply have to, or sink in the swamp of 'I fucking love you' It will get easier ( I fucking hate it when people say that) Time heals everything, that's another phrase I hate, but it is true. Your heart will always fondly remember him but your dick will fondly enjoy penetrating a new butthole and a new smile looking up at you.

Not as shocked as I am when I look in the mirror and miss the fit military lad I used to be... thank you thank you thank you