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Yes, I know that’s the main problem. People, including gay men, need to understand the culture there. Homosexuality is illegal, yes, but you also have to understand the nuances of what “homosexuality” actually means in these countries.
What many people in the West understand as homosexuality is this: sex with a guy at parties on the dancefloor, going to the sauna in Berlin, naked in a darkroom with almost no space to move, standing in the middle of hundreds of naked, horny (or rather, sex-addicted, empty bodies that often struggle with erections) people. Yes, that kind of thing is illegal here. And for that reason, I don’t even see myself as a gay man.
Middle Eastern countries are actually some of the best for sex if you know what I’m talking about. You can have sex with guys who would never look at you in Europe: maybe even guys who are considered straight there. But the sex is different from typical gay sex. In Arab countries it feels more like your first gay experience: the touching, the uncertainty, the adrenaline that makes your heart race. If you’re looking for kissing and romance, you’ll be very lonely there. If you remember your first sex or fantasies and they were about kissing a guy, don’t go to these countries.
In Egypt I had sex with almost every guy I was interested in. The point is: I’m not feminine. I’m fit and masculine, and Egyptian men want to touch me the moment I talk to them on the street. They constantly say “Show me your biceps” and try to grab. I think if you look openly gay, they won’t talk to you so freely on the street because someone might see it. You have to understand this as a gay man.
Intimacy depends on mood and situation, and I guess that’s the more natural form between two men. I’m also not really accepting of this Western gay culture either, it destroys the real intimacy between two men. If you asked me, I wouldn’t say I’m gay. I have sex with men, but that doesn’t mean I live a gay cultural life.
If you’re like me, you’ll have sex with some of the best men in the Middle East. Just be a warm, friendly person. When they sense that, they give you all the affection they have. But again,  this is not “gay sex.” It’s real intimacy between two men.

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U have to spend hours across cafe, bus , train stations to get in contact fit and sexy guys. Some of these sexy guys might not be hot in bed or have a small dick or consider u as a moving wallet or simply promise u something and never come back. I am pretty sure that u realize that is better to pay rather thab waist your time and money.
U should not be looking for that type of adventures if u aren't willing to pay

I’ve been to Argentina. The racism is very real there. People should study more about that country before going. Loved Buenos Aires and the skiing in Bariloche was top but not on my list to go back. 
 
So about the gay activity being “Illegal” in Jamaica. For back ground I’m half arab and return to the Middle East minimum once a year. It’s illegal engaging gay sex there too but it’s something rarely enforced. That being said I felt 100% safer being gay in Jamaica than back in the ME. And after speaking to locals and asking about the law they basically laughed and say it’s never enforced there. Unless you are a bumbling idiot, dressing like you are about to go on a pride float or tell the cops you engaging in getting your back blown out there maybe some repercussions. To say risking your life is a bit over dramatic, no offense. Tbh I think you risk your life more if you are staying outside Zona Colonial in SD. Last time I was there a New Yorker was murdered in his rented apt in Piatini from a Grindr hookup. If you are a seasoned traveler you just need to use basic common sense. 
 
I’ll reiterate again. If you are tourist visiting Kingston and are white? You are basically untouchable compared to what locals experience (sad reality but true), your wallet left out if a hookup is over is a diffrent story but that’s everywhere. Black visitors are targeted a bit more for petty crime but that’s due to the colorism problem in their society. 
That being said, I had a fabulous time in Kingston. Dare I say even better than my last trip to the DR. It was a really eye opening experience, and literally being (in your words) treated like royalty was great difference compared to the DR. The guys went above and beyond to make sure we were having fun and the sex was phenomenal. Out of like the 30ish guys we went through (not including the orgy) we only had 2 or 3 duds. Made some great friends there already just from one trip that Im already planning to go back in a couple of months. 

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You are such a Debby downer and so cynical. I really don't care if you believe it not. I'm just reporting my experience but I think I will stop if it's causing too much jealousy on here. 😀 

I will start with my last day in Agadir I had 8 tops and three bottoms one after the other in a well known Sauna (Hammam) there.  
All the sex takes place in the 20 private shower rooms. I used half the rooms myself. There is separate sauna and steam room where the guys eye each other up and grabbed their dicks. I think they are scared to play with each other because once they established I was a foreigner I was the most popular whore there that night. 
They were suspicious of me at first but once the first big thick dicked guy got brave then word in the sauna spread like wild fire. He was late 30s, real masculine bull who knew how to fuck, 8.5 inches and very thick. It was one after the other after that until it was closing time. Hours of pure hedonism.
So many hot young guys all free except the last two. Hot muscly bodies, some normal and skinny, mixed bunch from tanned to pale. Dicks ranging in size from 7 to 9.5 inches. Almost all very thick. A few bottoms were smaller but I don't care too much about size just giving details. Lots of bubble butts. 
The hottest guy there who was very masculine and I was certain was a top... turned out to be a bottom. I was very surprised but he gave an amazing bj and had the best and most perfect bubble butt, muscular, tall, pale, six pack, gorgeous face and body. Amazing clean and tight hole. His 9 inch dick was rock hard the whole time but he wouldn't let me touch it. I realised at the end why because I grabbed it as I was about the cum in his ass and he just bursted enough cum for a week. Just perfect.
I got fucked by two more guys both were fine but didn't last long. Then I fuck another guy with a great ass. He was late 30s and very handsome with beautiful grey eyes. He was rock hard 7 inches and then he flipped abd fucked me. Very good fucker with good motion and thrust. It was just a bit awkward 
The last two guys worked there and said they would fuck me together for 50 dirhams each, which I obliged. They were cleaning after me for hours already and they scrubbed my body and butt cheeks squeaky clean when first got there. I was groped by several scrubbers in other Hammam. I'm talking touching my dick, balls, butt checks and hole but that was it. Nothing else happened in those other Hammam even though there was a lot of eye contact, bulges being touched, very horny but no action.
Anyway, the last 2 guys were both tanned one a shade darker than the order. One medium height, one tallish, both toned bodies. Both cute. Late 20s. One 8 inches and the other 9 inches. Both very thick and great fucks with stamina. Actually, I couldn't take anymore at the end and it was approaching closing time. It was a day for the record books. Never been with so many guys in one day. The owner was a bit stand offish at the beginning but after a nice tip he became very accommodating and hospitable. 
And that was my last day in Agadir. 
I wonder if the last two guys had a lot of practice there because the Hammam is well known in the city and was recommended to me by another hot vers guy who is a private masseur. I met him 3 times, decent massage, great fuck, handsome, great body, good English, good conversation,  welcoming and friendly . A great guy. 
Good mix of bottoms, vers and top guys there but almost all want money. Not a lot. The sauna was the only place I wasn't asked for money except the last 2 guys. It wasn't a lot at all so I was fine tipping them. The biggest guy I met on the first night, 11 inches and so thick. He was the thickest I might have ever taken. He was hitting my g spot instantly but didn't last long, and his personal hygiene put me off unfortunately, even after I made him take a shower and he was high as fuck. I was only mildly high and drunk. More about him later. I had a few confrontations but I'm more crazy when met with crazy. 
This young 19 year old handsome, muscled boy has the best 8 inch cock. It was so curved that it was playing my g spot like a piano. I was literally screaming from pleasure. Then I flipped him and fucked his too tight perfect bubble butt. 
 

200eur and the list of guys is in your pocket

200eur and the list of guys is in your pocket

I think without realising it you are comparing chickens and eggs. 
 Thailand especially is very easy going regarding both homosexuality and the adult sex trade. Hotels and airbnbs etc are open to local sex partners visiting their guests. They have nothing to hide.
 On the other hand in most of the North African countries discussed in this forum, homosexuality is illegal, sex tourists are unwelcome, and it is illegal to entertain a local in a tourists’ hotel room. 
 By necessity contributors here will be more cautious than they would be in the thai forums in order to protect the underground nature of contacts in these countries.

Is this really true? On the thai/southeast asian section, everyone's so nice, including with newbies. There's this one thread of a newbie traveling to thailand for the first time asking for guidance, and all the senior members were so positive and supportive, not once being negative at all. They shared all kind of info and even went to meet and guide the newbie! Kinda shocking to see your response, and hope that it's not true.

I think you need to contribute more before asking for a favor. Most guys don't feel comfortable with sending such info to new members without many posts

I was in Hurghada for a month in October 2025 and a time was had! The first 9 days I didn't have any sex. I was just sight seeing and enjoying the buffet, beach and pool vibes in my 5 star resort. Sunbathing and relaxing before I went wild! 
I had many massages in different places but only one place I was lucky to find guys willing to fuck. It was a very popular and busy hammam. The first time I was fucked there very quickly by a dark skinned guy skinny good looking with a small dick, it was quick and not that great. He was around 33 years old, short and quite annoying tbh. I gave him 300 EGP pounds tip. The massage wasn't that great either. 
I asked for another stronger guy the next time I went and he was much better really work on my ass so good. The massage was excellent. The problem with the place is that it is so busy with so many customers and workers everywhere nearby. The guy massaging me was 18 handsome skinny light skin with a 7.5 inch cock. I could feel his rock hard cock as the massage progressed. I sucked him and told him to fuck me near the end of the  massage like with the first guy but he said it was too busy, which was very true and people kept opening the door. He told me to come at 7pm next time and he would fuck me then. I gave him 400 EGP tip, which is how much I gave all the guys I fucked in Hurghada. The regular guys I fucked who weren't massaging me didn't ask or expect money I just gave it and said it was for taxi, they were all very surprised and happy for it although. I had to force a few guys to accept it. The massage guy was very happy with the tip. 
The next time I came at 7pm the massage wasn't as amazing as the first but it was still good. He fucked me at the end and cummed inside me. I gave him 500 EGP this time. 
I should have just stuck with this Hammam. I tried many other massage places but no sex there although I had some surprisingly good massages with hot guys. 
I had 5 massages at the resort I stayed with really hot muscly guys but I was too scared to initiate anything and looking back they weren't going to jepordise their jobs at a 5 star resort by initiating. There were many hot muscly guys working in the resort but I was too scared to try anything. Many hit bar men, security, waitors but I didn't try. I had no sex in the resort itself but had sex at the Hammam. 
I also had great luck with the uber drivers. I would get drunk at night and drive into town. If the driver was hot and young I would try my luck. It worked 7 out 8 times. Only one guy refused me, which was a bit awkward but it was fine. I only hit on  slightly older uber guy in his early 40s because he was so good looking. I gave him some vodka in a water bottle and he took me to his apartment. He had 9 inch thick dick and he fucked me good but was really guilty as he took me back to my hotel. He told me it was against his religion and that he had a wife and kids and that we couldn't do it again. I was a little disappointed but I moved on quickly. 
The next day I met this guy off grindr in his apartment. He was diving instructor with a deep tan, great body and good looking. He was smoking Hashish when I got there and I offered him some of my vodka so we drank and smoked together. Hashish is like a milder form of weed/marjuana. His English was very good and we had a great conversation for an hour before having great sex. He fucked me really a good long for an hour. I was sucking him and noticed his as hole was very clean and started eating his ass and then I slowly tried to fuck him. I don't know if it was his first time but he was that experienced or comfortable. After a while he flipped me over and fucked me so good hard until he cummed inside me. I kinda fell in love, the sex was great. He gave me his number afterwards. I gave him 600 EGP for the Hashish as I took some with me. 
The next night I got his number mixed up with another diver guy I met on an uber trip and asked to come over to smoke with him. He said OK but gave me another address to go. I was surprised by the address switch up but went with it. When I got there I was like this looks different but similar to the guy from last night but his his hair was short Abd the guy last night had should length beautiful hair and a longer nose. I was pretty drunk already and it only dawned on me when we got in the lift that this was the wrong guy! Anyway I went to his apartment. The guy is handsome with divers body while we were smoking Hashish he shocked me his six pack. We had a great night of conversation and I was very attract led to him but he gave strictly straight vibes so I didny try it. His friend Abd roommate was also smoking with us. The friend was even better looking than him Abd I could see the full definition of his long and thick dick through his jogging bottoms while he sat. The friend was definitely flirting with me and was interested but I felt the diver guy was telling him to cut it out probably because a lot of people tell me a give a straight vibe myself unless I am explicitly cruising or flirting with a guy. So in the end nothing happened. I should have asked for the friend's number but I didn't. I gave this guy 1000 EGP because he gave me a fair bit of Hashish to take with me after we smoked for 2 hours together. 
Back to the uber encounters. One young guy I sucked in his car and he fucked me in a quiet dark street. He was 18 years old using his father's uber account and car. He was 7 inches and fucked me good. He was really cute and innocent. He told me it was his first time and said he loved it. I personally hated my first time as a top because I got a tiny bit of shit on my cock. I always douche thoroughly when I bottom and carry wet wipes. I was drunk in all these uber encounters. I gave him 400 EGP tip. 
The next night I met this soldier guy on uber he was 22 and the most beautiful guy I met there. He had a toned body too. I sucked him in his car and he cummed in my mouth. He said he wanted to fuck me so he drove to the edge of town. He fucked me good with his 7.8 inches and thick dick and cummed a second time. I thought we were going to drive home but we talked for a while in the car and then he grabbed my head to suck him and he fucked me for a second time and cummed for the third time before he drove me back to my hotel. I gave him 400 EGP tip. 
The next night I met a smoking hot gym fanatic. He was 23 and very handsome. He was educated and spoke good English. He was 8 inches but not as thick as the guy the night before but still very enjoyable. He had a perfect 6 pack and wonderful muscles. He drove to a quiet dark street. I sucked him in his nice car and then he fucked me good in the back of the car. 
The next uber encounter was weird and strange. After hitting on him I realised the guy was mentally unstable and his dick was small. I said the spot he took us to was too public and not safe, which was true. I gave him 100 EGP and got out of his car. 
After the first 10 days in my 5 star resort I realised I was going to be having any fun there so I booked a cheap apartment in the centre of yown so I could give bring guys over. 
To be continued... 

Final part
For the last week of my trip I hooked up with a lot of guys in my apartment. There was a housekeeper at the building but he was rarely there when I was there at night. I think he was looking after several buildings in the area. He was a very nice and jolly guy anyway and I gave him a good tip the first day I met him and he was so happy. 
After more success on grindr after getting the apartment all my other hook ups were from there. The next guy I met was very handsome, 26 years old, very pale with beautiful eyes. He was really pretty yet still manly. He was very short with a toned body and great ass. Medium sized dick body completely hairless. He said he was only top on the app but said he wanted to 69 the moment we jumped in bed. He wouldn't take his cap off in bed but I forced him to. He was balding at the top but I didn't care at all, it's natural and he was still very handsome. We sucked each other and then flip fucked for almost an hour. It was very enjoyable. 
The next day I met another guy on grindr. He was also pale, good looking in a slightly odd way that I like. 30 years old medium height and build. Normal body with a bit of hair all over. 7. 5 inch cock. He was a good fuck only top. He ate my ass very well and fucked me for 45 minutes aggressively just how I like it. 
The next day I met another guy on grindr. He didn't send his face pic. When he arrived he looked like a fucking model with long brown hair, striking blues eyes. He looked almost angelic. Great body zero hair. He didn't look Egyptian at all. He told me he was Syrian but looked Scandinavian to me. He was a little bit feminine and was doubtful he could fuck. I asked him if he was a bottom and I grabbed his ass but he said no he was only top. Even as I sucked him I checked his ass hole and it was completely shut. His hole was clean but I don't think he had been fucked before. Don't judge a book by it's cover because he fucked me more mercilessly and rougher than any of the other guys I met with his 7 inch cock for almost an hour. He was a great fuck probably top 3 I had in Egypt. I just thought he was too beautiful and why would he be interested in me? I got paranoid a bit and didn't contact him again because on the same day 2 guys came separately to my apartment looked around inside and left within a minute. They both asked if I was alone and said they had to go back to work and would come later. Neither showed any kind of sexual interest towards me. I'm sure they were working together. I thought they were both scammers and thieves and told them not to return or I would call the police. 
The next day I met a dark skin 28 year old from South Egypt. He was handsome, great muscly body. He was a great fuck too. Top only he fucked me good and rough for 30 minutes. I was really impressed with the stamina of several guys I met. The grindr guys were fucking like bunny rabbits compared to the quick release uber drivers who were probably scared as it was outdoors. 
My last night in Egypt I had the best sex of the whole trip. I hooked up with another grindr guy he was 24 years old. He was pale, handsome, very tall, athletic body with a thick 10 inch dick. He was well educated and spoke excellent English. He seemed unsure and after talking for well over an hour (we had a great conversation about any and everything) I thought he wasn't into me sexually. Luckily., it turned out he was just shy. After I touched his dick he got up and literally wrestled me to the bedroom where he pummeled my ass for well over an hour mercilessly. He was hitting my g spot the whole night I literally could not take it and was moaning the whole time. I was in ecstacy. Maybe the best sex I ever had. I instantly fell in love and was gutted I was leaving the next day. He wanted to see me the next evening but I told him I was leaving the next day. I was literally heartbroken at the thought of leaving him and that is how my trip in Hurghada ended.