January 10, 201313 yr Active Members "I wouldnt Wanna Post there "..... That appears to be the mantra of many of the visitors to THIS site, and I just dont get it ???? I counted over 65 people visiting this site TODAY, and they have been up to 81 visitors recently, but only a small handful actually contribute anything. For me personally, the most pleasure is derived from actually CONTRIBUTING to a site, either a new idea, or a comment to an exisiting post. Its like having a conversation. Are people intimididated, uninterested, detached, afraid ??? I wouldnt think they are too Busy, since they do have the time to visit, and a post only takes a few seconds.... Many of these people are REPEAT visitors. Perhaps this is just one of lifes Great mysteries ? In my opinion, a site can only be as good as its contributors, and as interesting as THEY make it.... Come on guys, if you are reading THIS, try posting. Really, I dont bite, (unless you ASK me too), and if you prefer, ill remove my teeth
January 11, 201313 yr Well, the site is one where we discuss hiring other men to fuck us, which can be a bit off-putting to some, since it is both illegal in many places, and second the people that do it often don't want others to know about it. As a consequence, I'd guess many who wander by are terrified that their secrets might come out if they registered to post here. As for me, my wife knew I was gay when I married her, so I've got nothing to hide
January 11, 201313 yr Active Members Obviously folks post here and elsewhere whether they have anything to say or not, so you have a point. Best regards, RA1
January 11, 201313 yr "I wouldnt Wanna Post there "..... That appears to be the mantra of many of the visitors to THIS site, and I just dont get it ????I counted over 65 people visiting this site TODAY, and they have been up to 81 visitors recently, but only a small handful actually contribute anything. For me personally, the most pleasure is derived from actually CONTRIBUTING to a site, either a new idea, or a comment to an exisiting post. Its like having a conversation. Are people intimididated, uninterested, detached, afraid ??? I wouldnt think they are too Busy, since they do have the time to visit, and a post only takes a few seconds.... Many of these people are REPEAT visitors. Perhaps this is just one of lifes Great mysteries ? In my opinion, a site can only be as good as its contributors, and as interesting as THEY make it.... Come on guys, if you are reading THIS, try posting. Really, I dont bite, (unless you ASK me too), and if you prefer, ill remove my teeth First, let me say that I applaud your attempt to encourage more participation. But I'm not sure it's 'I wouldn't wanna' (which implies an underlying dissatisfaction/negative opinion) - perhaps just different personalities or different reasons for visiting. Some people are by nature more prone to be an observer than a participant. Some come just find information or be entertained. Some are more gregarious than others. I see the same thing at another site - lots more obervers/visitors/lurkers than posters. And obviously some people come to talk but lots more come just to 'listen'.
January 11, 201313 yr Author Active Members I see the same thing at another site - lots more obervers/visitors/lurkers than posters. And obviously some people come to talk but lots more come just to 'listen'. Well Then, LISTEN UP !!!!!!! You better start Posting..... I cant disagree with YOU if you dont say something !
January 11, 201313 yr Active Members Well Then, LISTEN UP !!!!!!! You better start Posting..... I cant disagree with YOU if you dont say something ! So people that don't post will become Post Toasties? Best regards, RA1
January 11, 201313 yr I often visit this site (and that other one) and don't post anything because 1) I don't see any topics that really interest me, or more often 2) I don't have anything to say. I have been posting on these sites so long that I have also run out of things to say on some subjects, and I don't like to become one of those garrulous old men who enjoy endlessly repeating themselves. ("There he goes again with that story about having sex on top of a sarcophagus in the museum!")
January 11, 201313 yr Active Members Not to worry. Many of us have not heard various stories too many times, yet. And, some, have not heard them even once. If we all quit writing or speaking becuase of possible repitition we all would become mutes. Keep going, repeating or not. Best regards, RA1
January 12, 201313 yr To be fair the average site has a ration of 99 vistors per one person posting. This site seems to have a much higher ratio than than, so it's doing well.
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