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Have You Had Sex in Public?

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I am a bit old school ... I loved to have so much fun in movie theaters, the car, pubic men's rooms and once in a cabin while 16 boys slept oh and of course the dorm rooms at the private high schools I attended.

However out of all these places and probably a few I am forgetting I think the biggest turn on was at the Pussycat Theater (it was gay movies only) on Santa Monica Blvd. Between the theater seats, backstage exit area and bathroom upstairs it was near impossible not to have fun :D

Do you guys have any favorite public places?

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Great question and one that I wish I could answer but I have never had sex in a public place, although it has long been a fantasy of mine to do so (in a covert way and not in front of a bunch of people, lol). I haven't had the nerve to ask an escort if they would be ok trying that as I suspect most would not be very receptive (risk of being caught).

btw, I am sometimes very slow and I couldn't figure out why you had that video in your post but then after a few minutes it dawned on me..lol, very good ^_^

And talking of that video, I am proud to say that for once my gaydar was right about Joe and when I saw him on that show I was getting strong vibes he was gay...which he confirmed later after the show was over and he had won.

Yeah, after a fashion. Sitting on one of the metal folding chairs scattered around the edge of the downstairs dance floor at the late, lamented Web/NYC. A favorite dancer would sit on my lap, with his back to me, in what to appearances was a normal lap dance. Ah, the joys of what a little discreet positioning can hide, right out in plain view.

I have never gotten a lap dance but based on some movies I have seen I'm not sure how you can do that... ^_^ I want to have sex on the beach... Not during the day since it's hot on the beach and people will be around but at night listening to the sound of waves...^_^

Ah, the sins of my youth! I had sex in clubs, baths, and parks more often than I could count--even in the legendary trucks and piers in the West Village. I did it not because I was an exhibitionist, but because (to steal a line from Willie Sutton when asked why he robbed banks), "That's where the money [gay sex] was."

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Yeah, after a fashion. Sitting on one of the metal folding chairs scattered around the edge of the downstairs dance floor at the late, lamented Web/NYC. A favorite dancer would sit on my lap, with his back to me, in what to appearances was a normal lap dance. Ah, the joys of what a little discreet positioning can hide, right out in plain view.

Who was having sex? You or him or both? ^_^

Best regards,

RA1

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I suppose it might depend upon one's definition of "public place". Is it simply outdoors or the balcony of an apartment or hotel room or cabin on a cruise ship? Is it that casual passersby could suddenly appear and observe whatever is going on? Is it in front of an audience or potential audience as AS suggests? I suppose we all individually have a definition that applies to us but not necessarily universally. The "common" thread may be the "thrill". ^_^

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RA1

I have never gotten a lap dance but based on some movies I have seen I'm not sure how you can do that...

Who was having sex? You or him or both? :smile:

Tediously to illustrate (not entirely gender-appropriate, but in any event), note how readily the dancer's panty-back and the patron's fly can be maneuvered out of the way, with onlookers none the wiser. Or at least waiting their proper turn! :lol:

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But others can't smell it..? At least I can when someone is having sex around me ^_^

But others can't smell it..? At least I can when someone is having sex around me :smile:

The Web held too many odors for any one in particular to stand out.

Or at least be traced to its source! :lol:

btw, I am sometimes very slow and I couldn't figure out why you had that video in your post but then after a few minutes it dawned on me..lol, very good :smile:

HaHa I am a huge music fan and also love a little satire and subtle clues if you will. Happy you enjoyed the video :D

I have in four (well three) public places.

The first time was with my boyfriend on a flight from Miami to Costa Rica. We were in coach in the two seats next to the window and he gave me the best blow job I'd ever had up to that point.

The second time was when I was flying on business to Australia (this one doesn't really count as public) but I had sex with a hot male flight attendant in the bathroom while most everyone else was sleeping. That was hot and that was a huge bathroom for first class too.

The third time was on the beach in Maui with an escort that I took with me there for a week in the 1999 time frame.

The fourth time was at Boardwalk the first time I ever went there. One of the dancers kept asking me to go in the backroom but I was too shy to do it. Since I was wearing a longer coat. he backed into me and pulled out my penis and and got it hard subtly and wrapped it up and basically backed into it while I was sitting at the bar. To this day I can't believe I did that at that bar. But that was also very hot.

closest I've every come to public sex was a trip to Florida with a now ex bf. going down the interstate I jerked off in the car and we would drive up close to the truckers so they could see

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Yeah, after a fashion. Sitting on one of the metal folding chairs scattered around the edge of the downstairs dance floor at the late, lamented Web/NYC. A favorite dancer would sit on my lap, with his back to me, in what to appearances was a normal lap dance. Ah, the joys of what a little discreet positioning can hide, right out in plain view.

The Web is no more? Say it ain't so Joe. :logik::(:sweat:

Oh my Joe, I had no idea that you had this wild side.. ^_^ And whoever was driving must be a good driver..^_^

closest I've every come to public sex was a trip to Florida with a now ex bf. going down the interstate I jerked off in the car and we would drive up close to the truckers so they could see

The Web is no more? Say it ain't so Joe. :logik::(:sweat:

Tell me about it.

But alas, kaput. Closed some months ago. Was reported by passers-by as being under renovation, presumably into something more upscale, in keeping with its expensive neighbors there on 58th bet Madison & Park. Learned about this from a thread on the other forum, wherein we indulged in some suitable gnashing of teeth and rending of garments.

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I remember sex in the upper reaches of the Saint nightclub in New York many years ago..so many people up there. I had never seen so many beautiful men in one place.. one of first places I ever saw such things.. ah memories.. ^_^

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On 5/12/2013 at 1:21 AM, hitoallusa said:

I have never gotten a lap dance but based on some movies I have seen I'm not sure how you can do that... ^_^ I want to have sex on the beach... Not during the day since it's hot on the beach and people will be around but at night listening to the sound of waves...^_^

I've had sex on Bondi Beach several times.

Once we were spotted and chased by gay bashers so we had to run for our lives :(. 

 

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