My brother recently visited and did some chores for me in anticipation of my return home from hospital.

One of the things I asked him to do was to stash any porn i had left lying around the house,wellllllll he missed one- Micheal Lucas's PISS PIGS The cleaners left it on my desk in full view.

MORTIFIED!

One time when I was moving houses, the movers (big straight guys) had a belly laugh when a box burst open and out spilled a fairly sizable collection of TVTS skin mags.

Glad you're back home to have such problems!

I agree with AS completely. Better to be home and have such problems. I had a house fire many years ago and the cleaners found a picture of a naked boy. Imagine that! They left it in my fireplace. It was also mortifying at first but I got over it in about 1 NYsecond (upon thought).

Best regards,

RA1

Those sorts of scenarios used to bother me alot. I dreaded having to call my maintenance people because it meant having to jump thru hoops to PREPARE my apt for the visit, hiding ALL the things I thought would make them "judge" me. But then I realized those feelings of fear and dread were akin to being in the closet, and Grandma is proud to have exploded out of the closet years ago.

All this acoutriment makes us who we are and WHY should we be embarrassed or hide from people we hardly know or mean nothing to us. Of course with family, its another story if you have not come out to them and desire to remain as such...

I certainly am no longer MORTIFIED over such things..... Its not my problem, its really theirs if it bothers them.

My TS mags spilling all over didn't bother me! And for my Big Straight Movers who already knew I was queer, it was the highlight of their day.

Years ago, the TSA lady asked if she could look in my carry-on, where a black dildo, harness, riding crop and metal cock ring were visible. She was far more embarrassed than was I. Lol.