I am travelling to Bangkok on my own for two nights 16/7 February. I’m staying at the Banyan Tree hotel

i am new to this scene, and partnered to a woman but would like to receive a very good massage <im definitely not looking for a fuck but a HE would be nice>. A deluxe and clean massage spa recommendation please.

I also want to watch the best go go type show in Silom - I’m not wanting to off just watch a good show

Any other recommendations welcome also

Finally, if anyone is in BKK during my visit and would like to meet up please get in touch 
 

 

Since you’re staying at Banyan tree, Ssense in Suan Plu is within walking distance of the hotel, you will get good massage there and some afters too. Please do not confuse that establishment with Senso men club in Silom. The Prince in the Suan Plu area would not be your type of place if you’re looking for a good massage with possibility of a HE, as their services go way beyond that.

As for go go shows, I think a lot of people here find Banana room club in Silom to be good now. I went there myself recently and can recommend it.

S'sense would be a good choice for the type of massage you want. The Prestige Massage is another option if you don't want to go to S'sense. Both are easily accessible from your hotel. The guys at S'sense have a manlier vibe.

As far as the best go go show goes, that really depends on what your taste in guys is and what type of a show you want. The days when practically every bar had dancing and fuck shows is over - or at least in temporary suspension. If you want a show that includes fucking and wanking and tonnes of nudity, then go to Atlas. Atlas is the only bar with a fuck show right now. If you want lots of dancing and attempts at being arty, you can go to Dream Boy. If what you want is to see lots of guys with great bodies in briefs in a really well-choreographed show, go to Jupiter. If you want a show that comes fairly close to the sleazier vibes of old Bangkok, go to Good Boys (previously known as Screw Boy). There is no longer any screwing in teh shows there though. 

As you have two nights there, I would suggest that you to Jupiter on one night and Atlas (and/or Good Boy) on the other. If it's a fuck show you want to see, make sure you ask the manager at Atlas if they are having one on that night, as they may not have one on a particularly slow night.

Thank you Department_Of_Agriculture  and also Raposa for the very helpful responses - it is appreciated. 
 

If you would like to meet up on 16/7 Feb for a drink then do let me know