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There would be little point in keeping your mouth shut, considering that you speak through your backside most of the time. One of the "benefits" of having an overstretched arsehole, I suppose.

The two situations are not cognate and that is, at best, a superficial equation. But since this thread is about Jimmie's Cambodian Dream, rather than of comparative politics, I will leave it at that. The "Khmer Rouge" was, essentially, a Chinese-led regime.

People who are that old and suffering from mobility impairment should just stay home and have a wank, rather than fly around the world looking to get fucked and wanked at a discount That kind of behavior is quite distasteful.

Actually, much of the Khmer Rouge leadership was ethnically Chinese, rather than Khmer/Cambodian. Pol Pot himself, Khieu Samphan, Nuon Cha, Son Sen etc. ...all Chinese. It is hardly surprising that this lot took their cue from Mao and China and received such strong backing from their ethnic cohort in China. It is hardly surprising that they had such hatred and contempt for 2,000 years of Khmer culture. After all, it wasn't their culture and the Khmer weren't really their people. What was that saying that emanated from the Chinese Khmer Rouge leadership? "To keep you is no benefit, to destroy you is no loss.." Such was their contempt for the keepers of Khmer culture. Also to be added to that list of Khmer Rouge Chinamen with Cambodian blood on their hands is the current dictator, the Khmer Rouge defector, Hun Sen. No surprise that he has turned Cambodia into a Chinese colony, a haven for Chinese scammers and, once again, the native Khmer/Cambodians are being suppressed.

No, he doesn't need to find another job. He just needs to find less revolting customers.

There is no shortage of ancient ruins in Silom either, many of them clustered on Soi 4. To say nothing about the number of them in Pattaya... You'll find more ancient ruins in the Jomtien Complex than in Angkor on the weekend.

I generally find your Cambodian posts more interesting than your posts on Thailand, which often revolve around chicken cashew nuts and sodomy. Your Cambodian posts often include information that might actually be of good use to travellers. Therefore, it's a bit of a shame that this time you have included the Cambodian leg of your trip in the Gay Thailand board, rather than breaking it out on the Cambodia board, as you have in the past. Travellers to Cambodia may end-up missing some good information in this series of posts.

Were you actually expecting him to be enthusiastic about sucking your ghastly old dick? Thank you for that small mercy. Delighted to hear.

If Siem Reap is now an option for where the two of you are going to live, you should consider asking the property agent to show you properties in the Slor Kram/Slorkram area. Slor Kram is very central but is also very green and much more peaceful that the Night Market area; and it has a good mix of modern apartments and older houses, as well as good dining etc. Given your medical condition, which may require unplanned access to good medical care, and the fact that you may need to travel unexpectedly,I should think that Siem Reap would make more sense than Battambang. It would probably put a lot of pressure on Cam if you had a medical emergency and the local facilities were not what were needed. Perhaps that is a consideration for him that has been made real by your upcoming surgery. Cam's question about what you think about Battambang may also have something to do with his sense that there isn't going to be much for the two of you to do there as a couple, or even as individuals. Enforced idleness can become a source of tension. There is also the question of where is he more likely to be able to make a success of what he wants to do? Accordingly, a more important question might be what does he think of Battambang? Apart from all that, Siem Reap offers more of the comforts of the West; and I wouldn't underestimate the importance of being able to access our comforts when we need them - be it the variety of Western food or whatever. Again, the two of you know best, but the fact that he even raised that questions suggests that he might be keener on Siem Reap but does not want to come across as dictating. Given that it is the lad who really needs to build a future, though, I would just ask him which one he prefers.

Right at the very bottom - the answer that no one wants to hear - is"Israeli". The Thais can't stand them - and the Isaan people are Thai, after all. See:

This topic comes-up from time to time. Two of Bangkok's best know tailors, both of which I have used are the Rajawongse Clothier and the Raja's Fashions, both on Sukhumvit Road. I am just posting below a description that I posted in another thread back in 2022. You will also find others' recommendations by clicking on this link to that thread. Just note that the real Raja's Fashions is on the same side of Sukhumvit Road as the Q Bangkok and is hidden behind the steps of the pedestrian bridge. The other"Raja Tailor" with the giant signboard on the other side of Sukhumvit Road is a completely different shop. I also note that a different poster has recommended the Rajawongse Clothier in a separate thread in 2008. See link.

@a-447 has covered Space. Regarding G*D Bar, you can see my brief report here from last month:

That is possibly the most idiotic advice I have ever seen on this forum, which is saying a lot. That way lies perdition, both for you own peace of mind and for your relationship with Cam. Fortunately, @jimmie50, I am guessing that you are wise enough to ignore it, though. To state the obvious, you are not there to change his family’s behaviour or to play the white saviour. You are there to build a life with Cam. Giving him the sense that you disapprove of his family’s behaviour, especially this early in the relationship, is not going to go down well with him - because he knows perfectly well that his family are his true support network and these people drinking 12 beers at a sitting are the ones who will still be there for him if things don’t work-out with you. The kind of bonding that you are seeing now is what holds people together in these families. Those hammocks might as well be the family safety nets. I would also note that the World Happiness Report 2026 has Cambodia well ahead of Australia, from which this silly suggestion comes, in-terms of Positive Emotions among the people: Cambodia ranks 29th out of 147 countries; Australia only 45th. You may safely ignore the silly suggestion that they are going to be keen to trade happiness for a little more “productivity”. It is the family bonds and social networks that give them that much greater happiness, despite their much lower incomes. These get-togethers underpin that. If you are going to change anyone in the family’s behaviour, it is going to be through inspiration when they see the kind of life Cam builds with you – not through prescription or “imagining yourself to be that foreign advisor: how would you even begin to change the culture that you are witnessing” That does bring-up the question of what sort of a life you and Cam are actually going to build together there that puts him on a secure footing. He has given-up the life of a bar boy to be with you – with all the decent earnings that it can provide. What is he going to do now that could provide something better? There is, at a minimum, a hope that building his life with someone older, more stable, more experienced and better-off is going to lead to something better for him. Maybe that means investing in vocational training or something for him that will give him a more secure foundation – whether technical or agricultural - than the mix of odd jobs and a dash of farming on the side that you previously mentioned. That is where you might make a real impact – by bringing a perspective with a wider horizon and providing the means to get somewhere through effort. Ultimately, of course, it’s the two of you who will know best, rather than myself or anyone else making suggestions on here. That also brings-up the question of where you can make an impact without trying to direct things, while, simultaneously, giving yourself something worthwhile and enjoyable to do. You have talked about looking at options. Maybe one to consider is running free English classes in the evenings for both kids and adults – separate classes of an hour each, five days a week. I have a Cambodian friend who speaks good English and runs such English classes in his village and the impact has been quite inspirational. If you were going to be based in Cam's village, that would be transformative. There is nothing to stop you from doing the same in Battambang, though. Although, you will probably want to have a Cambodian adult present in the class to avoid unpleasant speculation about what you might really be up to. One way in may be with the organisation behind the Phare Circus, which is actually based in Battambang. That would at least keep you busy and productive in your first year, while you put down roots, and spare you the frustration that would result from “imagining yourself to be that foreign advisor: how would you even begin to change the culture that you are witnessing”, which you would probably end-up engaging in if you had too much free time and weren’t doing anything more meaningful. Again, you know best – or will know best, based on experience - but worrying about his family behaving like a typical rural Cambodian family is pointless. Your "Cambodian Dream" is about the life the two of you want to build together. Do what you went there to do, and you may end-up doing far more for many more, without trying to direct anything. p.s. having mentioned Phare Circus above, what did Cam actually think of it? You mentioned that he wasn't that excited when you first suggested it. Has his opinion changed after seeing the show and meeting the performers?

Oh, don't be such a bore, Ambrose. We all opine on appearance. That taste differs is a given; we hardly need someone to cite Vinapu on that as if it were a revelation. Part of the allure of Bangkok is that it caters to people of all tastes; and even to those with none at all, apparently.

Don't hold your breath. @Keithambrose has been on multiple times since you threw down the gauntlet but there is not a squeak from him in reply. Keith was right about one thing though: it was selective news. I was very selective in only citing reports from highly credible Thai media, rather than going with quotes from Thai social media posts. So, with Vinapu's call to "let Thais and Israelis sort it out", let us look at some examples of Thais sorting-out "Israelis" We'll let the Thais do the talking. Listen carefully to the boy's final words: Or for an even better example of how fed-up the Thais are, see this one where the Thais choose to get involved in a altercation between a farang and some Zionists, because they just can't stand the behaviour of this lot. I suppose @Keithambrose will be going down there to call these Thai lads anti-Semites too... No doubt @Keithambrose will also be ready to lead a counter-demonstration against "those anti-Semitic Thais" who protested outside the "Israeli" embassy last month. Please post us the videos of the pro-'Israeli" Thai demonstrations, Ambrose, The ones where the Thais come-out in support of "Israelis" grabbing Thai land and ignoring Thai laws... Perhaps he ought to write a stern letter to the Associated Press as well for having the temerity to inform the world about it. https://apnews.com/article/israel-thailand-foreign-visitors-culture-laws-demonstration-094bae6e391b93de20ca29e323028a1a The bad behaviour of this lot has the potential to affect how Thais view and interact with many groups of foreigners in general, particularly Western travellers (I feel a certain irony in saying that, as I definitely do not count the pariah state of "Israel" as part of the West) and we have every reason to take an interest. Beyond that, some of us have actually had to put-up with this lot being a bloody nuisance in places we are fond of. This is a completely legitimate topic of discussion and the sooner the Zionists are brought to heel, the better. Even better yet, just kick them all out.

I can't see much pleasure in his company. He looks like a pig. He is one of those employees who are squarely aimed at a Chinese clientele. I rate him one of the two least attractive faces that pops-up on the Jey Spa LINE feed (alongside Ace). It's the kind of face you just want to slap...or maybe just put a bag over.

Soi 4 is not owned by the Patpongpanich family - they only own Patpong, both 1 and 2. Soi 4 is owned by a completely different Thai Chinese family, just as the Thaniya area is owned by yet another completely different Thai Chinese family. It was the Patpongpanich family that first opened-up that area in the 1940s with Patpong Road, but the other roads and surroundings were developed by other families that came after. The family that owns Soi 4 still resides in that house at the end of the lane. There was a period in the 1980s, when Patpong was at the peak of its international popularity, that some people referred to Soi 4 as Patpong 3, which it never was. Of course, at that point, the term Patpong was often used for the nightlife area as a whole. Soi 4, however, was generally known as Soi Charuwan; or to those played there at night, as Soi Katoey. Regarding Circus and Pride, the claim by that bloated, bottle blonde, Australian that he had no management control over Circus and Pride is at odds with his posts on Sawatdee after he took-over the Telephone site, where he shows himself as almost a micro-manager at Pride and speaks as if he was the prophet of Soi 4's revival. Nobody wants to be associated with failure, I suppose - or perhaps with something that has yet to emerge.

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"Taking care" is something that the Thais will do and will say, whether it is the bar girls or Thai bar boys - and they often still mean it. You take care of me (financially) and I will take care of you. There is nothing improper about a relationship like that, whether long-term or for just one night. That sort of arrangement. of mutual taking care, has been the actual basis of marriage in most cultures for most of human history. Thais who engaged in that sort of behaviour - often casually, as financial need arises - had no reason to think of themselves as "prostitutes". You still find Thai bar boys who will say, with a smile, "I take care you", and mean it. That very Thai attitude is still there with many Thai freelancers, whose efforts at "taking care" still usually result in very enjoyable encounters. None of those freelancers would consider himself a prostitute. Where you will not find that attitude of "taking care" is with most of the foreign sex workers who have crossed international borders with one simple purpose - to make money. "Taking care" of you is not their focus. The worst of the lot are the pushy, mercenary, Vietnamese money boys. These are not guys who casually whore when they need money, but actual hardcore prostitutes. Yes, the Thais in the bars are also there to make money, but there is a difference in attitude and approach and that makes all the difference in what the scene feels like and actually is. Silom today has a harder commercial feel, with the fun vibes having moved-on to the karaokes and host bars where the Thais go. Added to that, is the change in the type of customer themselves. Cheap flights have brought a lot of cheapskates to Thailand and the boys and girls have had to start negotiating, or actually set, prices rather than just saying "up to you" and ending-up with 500 baht. Then there is the ghastly Chinese impact. Quite a few of the Chinese argue over tipping the boy in the room, arguing that they have already paid in the bar. That, of course, is only the off fee of 400 or 500 baht, which tells you how much value they actually put on these encounters with the boys. Admittedly, you hear that less often these days. More than the price though, is the attitude of the Chinese. They often refer to those who work in the pleasure world as "chickens" and to those places as "chicken farms". That should tell you all you need to know about their attitude. Guys and girls who are willing to take care of a customer soon realise that these are not the right customers for them. Hence, the declining number of Thai boys willing to work in Silom as the number of Chinese visitors increases. They have moved-on to the karaokes, host bars and freelancing. In their place have come hardcore prostitutes from other, neighbouring countries. The pushy, money-minded, Viets are the ones most willing and able to deal with the Chinese - and that suits the Chinese just fine because the Chinese are arch-racists who want people who look like them. While farang would fly halfway around the world to enjoy the charms of the Thais, admiring the beauty of those who look nothing like them, most of the Chinese abhor the local Thais, with their darker skins. They want people who look like them. So to cater for this market, the bars are importing guys from Vietnam, Laos and Burma who have a more Chinese look. These are not countries where guys casually playing with each other barely raises an eyebrow, or where the attitude of "I take care you" is part of the expectation. It is all commercial and it has led to a hardening of the Silom scene, with a decline in the number of Thai boys working there and the resulting change of the vibe in the bars. "Taking care" wasn't a euphemism. It is what the Thais did. It was what gave the scene in Thailand its unique flavour that made "prostitution" in Thailand feel so much less crass and exploitative than it does in other places. Spending time with and being taken care off by those charming Thai boys or girls was what made it worth travelling halfway around the world - not the price.

Thai authorities are finally cracking-down on the ghastly so-called "Israelis" who have been terrorising Thailand for years now, with everything from death threats to trashing hospitals, to creating "No Thais" zones in Thailand. See the following from today's Bangkok Post: Authorities search Jewish buildings in Bangkok (LINK) This particular raid appears aimed at the dark Chabad movement, which I regard as a hate group. Among their teaching are that “only Jews have divine souls” and is very popular with "Israelis" in Thailand. They try to censor any exposés of their dark teachings in the mainstream press and have gained a following with many of the "Israelis" who come to Thailand after serving their tour of duty terrorising Palestinian women and children. The crackdown is finally happening despite all the pressure from “Israel” and the threats of alleging antisemitism, which the Zionist media is already engaging in. It is finally happening because the Thai people themselves are sick of the abuse that they are receiving from these nasty people. There are many, and a rising number, of examples of this lot's ghastly behavior from across Thailand, wherever "Israelis" congregate in large numbers. You will note that Chabad seems to be everywhere... FREE, FREE PAI-LES-TINE!! Remember this one from last year, where the people of Pai, in northern Thailand, rose-up to drive the “Israelis” out of their town because of their awful behaviour? The ghastly pseudo-Hebrews had trashed the local hospital’s emergency room in protest over the fact that they were not being treated like gods. The then PM, Paetongtarn had to go up there to calm things down. The people of Pai often refer to their town as “Pai-lestine” in protest over the Jewish occupation, and anti-"Israeli" signage is common in the town now. Pai used to be a wonderful, laidback place for alternative travellers before the Zionist occupation.. Link HERE from the Pattaya Mail Or from the Bangkok Post: Surge in unruly Israeli tourists causes alarm in northern Thailand's Pai (LINK) Once again, we see the dark hand of Chabad here (LINK) Other examples of ghastly “Israeli” behaviour that have really pissed the Thais off include: In Koh Phangan: Tensions rise with some Israeli tourists on Koh Phangan (LINK) One of the more infamous incidents was in May when an Israeli woman refused to take off her shoes before entering a Thai restaurant on Koh Phangan, saying "My money built your country". I remember a member on this board saying something similar once. I wonder which country he was from? As the Bangkok Post reported: Tensions have been rising steadily as Thais grow sick of these ghastly people. Last year, a top Thai security official gave a direct warning that “Thailand expects Israeli tourists to be better behaved in future” See: https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/general/3127748/badly-behaved-israelis-to-feel-the-wrath-of-thai-law PHUKET HAS HAD ENOUGH And then there is the ongoing situation in Phuket, where the Zionists have turned an entire area in town into a “No Thais” zone… For live action see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVi2CH4Jx5A For the bland version see: https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/special-reports/3319138/tensions-rise-over-israeli-expats Even the so-called "Times of Israel" has had to report some of the truth. See: Protest in Thailand’s Phuket targets misbehaving Israelis Protesters at the event on Friday reportedly pointed to patterns of inappropriate conduct by Israelis, including not paying for meals, arguing with drivers of tuk-tuks, or three-wheeled taxis, and other disruptive actions. The Straits Times cited a reported case of an Israeli man putting a bounty of some $15,000 on the head of a zoo owner in Koh Samui after the man allegedly denied entry to Israelis on the basis of their nationality. And, of course, there was the case of a member of Chabad telling a Thai Deputy Minister that he had no authority to conduct an inspection because "“Don’t you know this is Israeli territory?" Is it any wonder that the people of Phuket want these scum out? TOON VEGAN STRIKES BACK One of the vilest recent examples of “Israeli” behaviour that really pissed-off the Thais was when a ghastly group of these pseudo-Hebrews harassed social media personality Toon Vegan and his wife in their hotel room at 2 a.m.. Toon struck back and posted about it to his followers. That really brought the issue into the forefront again and, finally, we are seeing action. https://www.khaosod.co.th/special-stories/news_10354052?utm_source=thailandedition&utm_medium=referral Normally bubbly Toon Vegan was not a happy man. Now, of course the Zionist Moshes on here are going to say that there are badly behaved visitors from every country. Indeed, but which other group have been such utter scum that the Thai PM has had to directly go to ground to quell the anger of the locals? No, not even the Indians or Chinese. The Thais have had enough of the Zionists and the message is clear: behave like pieces of shit and we will flush you out! This lot are a bloody nuisance, spoiling whole areas in Thailand, and all I can say is Hurrah for the crackdown!

With that in mind, probably one of the most "authentic" experiences you can have as a foreigner in Siem Reap is visiting the central market - or Phsar Leu Thom Thmey in Khmer. It is less than ten minutes from central Siem Reap, but a world away in what you'll experience. It is the central market for fresh produce: meat, vegetables, fruit etc. Your boy will have a good time shopping for ingredient there. For foreign visitors, though, the main attraction may be the gold market inside. This is where the locals shop for jewellery and here you will find real pieces at good prices, as opposed to the overpriced nonsense being sold to tourists in the night market. If you ever want to get Cam's mum a present, this is a good place to go. Just make sure your boy is with you if you want good prices. The wholesale fresh produce part of the market opens at 4a.m., but there are food stalls that run just outside the market that are open all night. Dining there if you are up late is an option...as long as you are willing to eat the sort of stuff that Cam likes. It was my regular tuk tuk driver who introduced me to this place a long time ago, and it is always worth a visit on every trip. In addition to fresh produce and gold, there is no shortage of attractive, often shirtless, young men chopping stuff or hauling carts around, which I find rather more appealing than carrots and gold chains. The picture above is pinched from Klook, which I really shouldn't have to mention, except that there is at least one queen on here of the "Aha! I know where you took that from!" type.

That's alright. It is not as if the Thais are dying for his approval or the approval of the Viets in general. The Thais, generally, dislike the Vietnamese because they find them rude, pushy and confrontational. The issues with Viets working in the Bangkok bars have been discussed on the forums before - issues of attitude and behaviour. The Viets do appeal to the loud, rude, pushy Chinese, though. Birds of a feather and all that. The Thais, however, do not like that kind of behaviour. They do not like the confrontational behaviour of the Viets and Chinese. What I consider truly idiotic, though, is when people go to a foreign country to make money and then complain that the people of that country aren't changing to accommodate the immigrants/invaders. You see that happening with the dark hordes invading the U.K. too. You find Indians who complain that laws are actually being enforced, Pakistanis upset that they can't even beat their wives in the privacy of their own homes or about the menu in the school canteen not being halal; Africans complaining that they aren't able to mutilate their daughters' genitals (euphemistically called "female circumcision") etc. In Thailand, you have the Viets complaining that the Thais are unpleasant to them just because they are rude, pushy, dishonest and confrontational, or because they steal cats and cook them. The correct answer, whether to the hordes invading the U.K. or Viets who have crossed two international borders to work in Thailand (often illegally ) is the same: fuck off back to your own miserable country if you are not happy here. The issue between the Cambodians and Thais is a very different one than the Thais' distaste for the Vietnamese. Between the Thais and the Khmer, there is almost a millennium of shared history, with much of it being confrontation. The Khmer are acutely aware that the Thais destroyed their empire, reducing it to the rump state of Cambodia, while incorporating most of it into Siam. They are also acutely aware that the Siamese derived so much of their high culture, including the rituals of Kingship, from the Khmer and so they, rightfully, say that the Thais copied us - but that was centuries ago. The roles have since been reversed and the Thais look at the Khmer the way the Romans looked at the Greeks: yes, we took from you, but we became bigger and better than you. For the last four centuries, culture has tended to flow in the opposite direction - from the Siamese to their Cambodian vassal state. Cambodia paid tribute to Siam before the French made it a protectorate. Certainly today, pop culture flows from Thailand to Cambodia, not the other way around - and it is the Thais who say the Cambodians copy everything we do. So there is a certain degree of looking down on Cambodians. Add to that the unresolved border issues and you can see why there is a degree of resentment on both sides. With that said, the Thais generally treat the Cambodians who come to work in Thailand well. They don't dislike their attitude the way they dislike the rude, pushy Vietnamese. Thai men are also fond of Khmer women because they have bigger breasts. Some might recall that during the Covid border closures, Thailand did extremely well in managing the pandemic initially - and then there was suddenly a second wave. That second wave began when an entertainment venue in Bangkok imported a bunch of Cambodian girls for a bunga bunga party at which a Thai cabinet minister was present. The girls were infected with Covid and the infection spread rapidly. Even knowing the risks, the Thai men were determined to get their hands on those lovely Khmer breasts that are so wonderfully depicted on Angkor Wat. You also see the Thai acceptance of the Khmer in the only sporadic anti-Khmer incidents during the recent round of border confrontations. The millions of Cambodians working in Thailand did not leave because of anti-Cambodian sentiment among the Thais, they left because Hun Sen demanded they return to Cambodia in an effort to harm the Thai economy during the confrontation. The Thai tolerance for the Khmer also has to do with the fact that there are many Thai citizens of ethnic Khmer descent, particularly in the border areas, such as in Surin, where Khmer is widely spoken. The Khmer are very much a part of Thai society. So, in short, the rivalry between the Thais and Cambodians is a historical one and still ongoing; and that is quite different from the Thais' distaste for the rude, pushy, ungrateful Vietnamese.

I actually like the fact that there are so few foreign chain restaurants in Siem Reap. I shudder to think of the trash that would throng those places. If you get bored of pizza and Khmer Curry, one of the more interesting dining options near Pub Street is thatrather decent Greek restaurant on 2 Thnou Street, just around the corner from Pub Street. If you turn right and walk down a little, it is on the left. I forget the name, but it is a big blue and white building and you can't miss it. Even without the foreign chains, the dining around Pub Street is very geared towards foreigners and they feel a bit raffish. Trendy locals with a bit of money generally prefer the restaurants on the River Road area, near the Khmer Ceramics Fine Arts Centre. Visiting that area, you see a completely different side of Siem Reap than you would in the Pub Street / Night Market area. That area, Slorkram, is much more relaxed and much more elegant. If your boy is unfamiliar with the area, since he is not a regular Siem Reap resident, you can always take a Grab or Tuk Tuk to the Khmer Ceramics Fine Arts Centre and wander around.

Ya! Ja! Da! Oui! Si!! The same; and, in my eyes, still the most attractive guy to ever work in Moonlight. With that said, that was eight years ago and if that is what you are still expecting, you may need to adjust your expectations. Still works for me, though. Fluke does a dance show at Joy Zone. Joy Zone hasn't just pinched Fluke from Big Boy, it also pinched some of the show ideas from Big Boy as well, to which it has added an irritating line-up of guys doing "the gay dance". P.s. "the details" are that @Alizizou was, and undoubtedly still is, a piece of shit...albeit an "esteemed" piece of shit.

That is Fluke. It is simply the picture being reversed by the camera. Some may recall that Fluke was unfairly disparaged and repeatedly maligned on this forum by that lying bastard "esteemed member" @Alizizou. The simple fact is that he lied about that boy repeatedly because Fluke would not fuck his disgusting old arse. Of course that "esteemed member", @Alizizou, fucked-off from this forum after evidence that he was lying emerged. That is the problem with members talking about specific boys by name or number. They can lie without the boy being able to defend himself. One poster on this site (tainted by association with genocide) is a big advocate of everyone sharing information publicly about boys - yet I have seen him post nonsense about boys that I know. Coming back to Mr Fluke, he is no longer at Big Boy. He now works at Joy Zone.