Profile number or name:Lapasnoom   Bangkok  
Turned up?: Yes
Turned up on time?: Yes 
Looks like photos?: No  10 years older at least .
Photos current? Yes/No: NO
Tip was as discussed and agreed upon?: Yes
Approx dick size in inches or cm. 5-6 in
Position Matches Profile Yes/No: yes
What he will and will not do is correct?  Yes
Was he in a hurry to leave? Yes
Would you meet him againDefinitely NONONO

 

He blocked me when I posted in his Guestbook that he was 10 years older then photos.

 

I let him stay even though he was at least 10 years older then photos. He was willing in bed but not who I thought I was getting.  Don't let him fool you with if you are not happy just give him taxi fare.

 

You will not be happy!!

Anyone whose photo is 10 years out of date doesn't deserve even the taxi fare. For such deception, he can just take the bus home.

Does that also apply to those farangs who lop off a year or 10 off their ages? 

Does that also apply to those farangs who lop off a year or 10 off their ages? 

Well if I lopped 10 years off my age, posted 10 year old photos and showed up for a date,  I think the other party would be well within his rights to ask me to leave.   I also wouldn't expect him to pay my taxi fare.  After all, I'd be the one wasting his time.

 

Not updating a profile for a couple of years is reasonable, but a decade is just too much.  Anyone who lies to that extent deserves no taxi fare & no date. 

Honestly, most farang lie about

their ages.

The bigger lie is about their

weight. 20 kilos and 10 years

common and photos from younger

days too. Everybody lies on

the Internet, even if just a little:-)

In which case, why do farang complain so loudly and bitterly when others nationalities on gay romeo do precisely the same - lie?

The key here is that the vast majority of farang using GR in Thailand are looking for and expecting to find Money Boys.

 

That being the case , they have a right to expect to get what is advertised.They are paying for what they get!

 This is overwhelmingly  true in Pattaya.

 

I agree in BKK there are boys not looking for money and I agree they should be upset when the farang they meet does not match his photos.

 

Good for the Goose Good for the Gander.

 

So the next time I post in this forum about a freebie and complain that the photos did not look like him, feel free to take me and others to task for the complaint.

 

I would not be holding my breath!!!

As you'll have gathered, my question was somewhat facetious. But I still think there is not so much difference, even though money boys are there to sell their services. Do they not also have some sort of right to expect that the guy they are meeting is what he says he is?

 

Perhaps the difference is I rarely visit Pattaya. I live in Bangkok and do not expect to meet money boys from gayromeo. I would therefore quite understand if someone came from quite far away to meet me and found I looked quite a bit different from my photos!

This is fairly easy:

 

1 Farang does not meet description, boy can choose to leave.

2 Money boy does not meet description, farang can ask him to leave. 

 

If there are material inaccuracies in the boys profile, I see no reason why the farang should be under any obligation to pay a single baht to the boy for the taxi.

On the other hand, if the profile is accurate & the farang just decides he doesn't like the boy after all, perhaps he should pay the taxi fare & something additional.  

That's basic western logic, although if the farang does not meet the description and the Thai has paid out cash for buses and other public transport, reimbursement by the farang would seem to be more than fair. But would a pissed-off farang pay up? 

 

In Thai logic (which I admit I mostly fail to comprehend), I am sure it is far less simple. 

In Pattaya, I doubt if the boy

cares about age and weight distortions.

For most, its business and

while our egos lead us to drop

our weights and ages, the boys

see us as old already and are

used to massive old bellies and

hairy backs and sagging butts.

used to massive old bellies and

hairy backs and sagging butts.

Speak for yourself. I don't have a hairy back.

 

But, for some reason the guys all are drawn to my tits. They grab them and say, "big mew." That is usually proceeded them them pretending to be a vampire and ... well, enough said. Lets just say if they knew how Dolly Parton was, I'd likely have a new nickname.

 

 

As for the conversation about clients and guys, I had a friend once who ran a escort agency in NYC. There were never descriptions given of clients as the boys were professional and escorting is a profession. Over the years, I only heard of one client being banned from the service as the boys would not service him and it was not his size (he was big) but it was his smell that they could not get over.

 

I think many guys fib a bit on age and weight. If I hook up online, I try to give an accurate description but I also send them a recent photo to be sure we are compatible. I had much rather know in advance than after I have taken my little blue pill.

 

I do remember once in NYC, hiring a guy from the net and he showed up and it was not the same guy in the photos. He was much better looking than the photos and he valued his privacy. It was a fun treat for me.

 

But, for those of you that hook up on these sites, do you show the guys a recent photo? Are you accurate in your description of age or weight or do you just assume they will be OK with it?

for those of you that hook up on these sites, do you show the guys a recent photo? Are you accurate in your description of age or weight or do you just assume they will be OK with it?

My age & photo are within 1 year of the correct value. I would not use a 10 year old photo.

I would not use a 10 year old photo.

 

Nor would I. But I don't believe either that you can get a true idea of someone's looks merely from one photo, so I have about ten on my page. As I am someone who doesn't much like getting photos taken, they cover from six months ago to around 5 years ago. And I have had a few guys who tell me that I look younger than my photos    (my facial and manicure bills must have been quite high those days!)

I am friendly with a large

farang, who told me he gets

turned down in boy massage

parlours with some frequency.

He's about 135 kilos and

believes the reason is his weight.

I am friendly with a large

farang, who told me he gets

turned down in boy massage

parlours with some frequency.

He's about 135 kilos and

believes the reason is his weight.

I am his size or bigger most likely and in 10 years of visiting massage parlors, I have never once had a guy turn me down. I think a lot may also be the vibe that someone gets from another. If your friend is negative or even has a poor attitude the boys may pick up on that. But, also, if he is not a good tipper, they all know that and that may just be the likely culprit. Does he try to get away with paying 500 baht? Or, is he tipping 1,000 baht. The boys in Thailand talk as much as we do and they know a cheap Charlie coming a mile away.

I am his size or bigger most likely and in 10 years of visiting massage parlors, I have never once had a guy turn me down. I think a lot may also be the vibe that someone gets from another. If your friend is negative or even has a poor attitude the boys may pick up on that. But, also, if he is not a good tipper, they all know that and that may just be the likely culprit. Does he try to get away with paying 500 baht? Or, is he tipping 1,000 baht. The boys in Thailand talk as much as we do and they know a cheap Charlie coming a mile away.

As I off usually long time so there's enough time to talk on quite a  few occasions I asked  boys about their client experiences.

 

Number one 'I no like ' thing was bad smell, specially  from the mouth. It seems that increased use of Listerine may solve many a problem before one  even starts considering tipping patterns and attitudes although you are definitely right pointing it as possible rejection reason.