"To sum up, you recognize that Neal was both good and bad, but you only saw the bad so you feel justified in taking revenge on him by coming on this board where you seldom have posted lately and besmirching his name now that he is dead. You clearly see nothing wrong in doing this. Sad, very sad"

 

“People understand me so poorly that they don't even understand my complaint about them not understanding me.”

I'm sure you know who said that, KhorTose.

 

KhorTose, sorry but you're wrong. I have recognised what I considered Neal's good points in a post on another board. I did not post my experiences on this board as I thought Neal was not a member here. Apparently, he was.

 

And I am at a loss how it is even possible to "take revenge" on someone who has died. All you can do is tell your side if the story. That's what i said i was doing in the post above. It's not about "revenge." I'm surprised that you, of all people, can't comprehend that.

 

And I think you'll find I have indeed been making posts here lately, but not about Neal.

 

I guess you feel that if someone dies,then nothing should be posted - or at least, only positive things should be mentioned. As I said, in real life that doesn't happen. Don't you read the newspapers? Never read a warts-and-all biography about someone who has died? God help us if they feel it necessary to censor what they write for fear that someone might feel it is somehow inappropriate.

 

As for your suggestions, I do not have a problem with starting a new thread. Whether or not such a thread should appear on a board dedicated to "Gay Thailand" is, however, debatable.

Enough has been said on this subject. Topic is closed. More discussion is not needed.