When you visit a massage place or off a boy, do you expect him to cum?  

Whether I expect it or not, they usually do.

Most times they do in my experience.

When you visit a massage place or off a boy, do you expect him to cum?  

straight/ mixed massage places - I don't expect but quite often thay do if I 'm willing to tip properly, usually they ask how much tip will be  or offer their price 

 

gay massage places - I consider this part and parcel of experience and so do boys but by no means always,

if I want them to and don't see suitable activities on their part, I'd ask them if they want cum for me ,

on last trip one of FanClub boys answered question ' I don't want ' , so I countered with ' you want keep it for your wife tonight ' and we both had a good laugh

 

short time offs - I do it rarely , again part and parcel of the deal but I recall one case when he resisted my advances in this direction but helped himself, likely did not like my technique or something, who knows?

 

long time offs - in the evening not necessary, in the morning I like them to and kind I sense they like as well.

Would not force issue though, when off long time I don't ask any question other than  ' do you go with me" and don't put any conditions because I like to see what happens. Sometimes with disastrous results but who said all off money must be well spent? 

 

Generally speaking - as koko above said  they usually do,  whether I expect or no, I 'd not be forcing issue if for some reason they don't. They are young boys so why wouldn't they and get paid for it?

When I visit a massage place, it's usually a non-gay one & that's for a proper massage, with extras.

I expect the majority of massage boys to get it out, but don't expect them to come, although they often do. 

No.

 

Whether the boy cums or not is of little importance to me, I leave it to him to decide. Usually they do not cum, not even get hard.

. Usually they do.....not even get hard.

what????

 

not that it did not happened to my boys but it would be extremely rare ,

I recall 2 cases, one, boy from bar was disaster on all measures so we barely toughed each other, second was massage boy with such ugly. silicone deformed  dick that I did not bother getting there and don't blame him for not raising for an occasion either.

 

as far as I'm concerned is in the boys best interest to get hard as my personal minimum tip is 1000 if boy lets me tough his hard appendage even if place states lower minimum tip

No.

 

. Usually they do not cum, not even get hard.

 

Are they drunk or maybe the the armpits? 

I've never had sex with anyone who didn't cum, and I hope I'll never see that day. I'll probably quit having sex once that happens; if it's all about me anyway, I can take care of my needs myself altogether.

We are talking about prostitution, I fully understand that most of the boys are not sexually attracted to me (there are rare cases where I find a money boy who is sexually attracted to me). I am not fixated on penis, average size limp is nothing I would like to play with, so without touching it stays soft (side note: soft penis in underwear often looks better than hard, and is easier to arrange).

Yes, we do talk about prostitution. I consider getting hard and cum on the part of the boy part of the contract.

For the record, I had some encounters with male escorts (= prostitutes) before moving to Thailand, and they did cum when I met them without exception. I didn't have to talk them into it or make any extra effort, it's simply a natural result of having sex with another guy. I would expect no less in Thailand, and I agree with LoveThailand that it's part of the job.

Yes, we do talk about prostitution. I consider getting hard and cum on the part of the boy part of the contract.

I can easily envision some tops who don't care about boys hard and cum part as long as his ass is available.

 

I guess it depends of what we are looking for in an encounter.

 

Looks that I'm in the same subdivision like Christian , I like them to get hard and cum but if for some reason it doesn't happen

I wouldn't create a fuss over it although as mentioned above not getting hard almost never happens 

In Brazil the majority of the guys at the saunas do not cum because they will look for another client as soon as they leave you. To cum, the guys want extra money - generally double the price. That is understandable, after all they are there for the money.

 

On the S. Korean massage sites, it is written that the guys "do not cum". Reading this prompted me to open this topic. Also, I decided to forego a trip to S. Korea and return to the land of "happy endings" for one and all.

 

Thanks everyone for your input.

Some farangs love watching the boys cum. I'm in the "I don't care one way or another camp" and if I've cum already,

I tell the boy to save it but some need to shot and that's fine but nothing I would pay more for.

No erection or silicon, mooks or deformed cocks are a downer as are micro penises. Hairy butts another downer.

On the S. Korean massage sites, it is written that the guys "do not cum". 

 

He he for a minute there I thought I was reading the venerable teachings and text from of some ancient Porn God scriptures lol  :-)