Nothing wrong to lose will power and off guy we like even if this runs against our religious beliefs in butterflying.
Not sure I miss Mama Lucy as much as you do but friends don't need to agree on everything.
Sleeping alone on 3rd night seems to confirm my finding that day 3 is the worst jet lag wise.
I start wondering who your star CoCo is but no, don't read me as being nosy.
I'm bit worried about your comment that there were no real 'wows ' at Jupiter . I'm not big fan of that bar but looks wise their boys used to be consistently the best, at least for those tired eyes.