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My husband and I were watching Drag Race: Philippines with a friend (who's 35). They panned on one of the judges, BJ Pascual, and I exclaimed "Wow! He's so hot!". The friend said "Unicorn, he's a twink!". I replied "You're just saying that because you're in your mid 30s, and now think men in their 30s are twinks...". BJ Pascual is actually turning 39 this winter. I've always considered twinks to be lanky men in the 18-25 age range. But I've noticed that many of our friends in their 30s like to think of themselves as twinks (although the 35 year-old friend is too buffed to think of himself as a twink). About two years ago, one of a married couple turned 30, and his husband threw him a "funeral" birthday party, in which we were all to wear black, to celebrate the "death of twinkdom" for the birthday husband. I guess the other husband was tired of his 30 year-old man referring to himself as a twink. So does your view of who's a twink expand as you get older? Do you believe a man in his 30s can be a twink? It definitely went against my grain to refer to BJ Pascual as a twink... Here he is several years ago:

Right after giving a sermon telling his congregation that our lives on this earth are temporary, a priest was killed when a heavy wooden cross behind him crashed on his head...

AI Overview U.S. adult passports have been valid for 10 years since August 24, 1982. [1] The Law: Congress changed the validity period from 5 years to 10 years via an amendment to 22 U.S.C. § 217a (enacted under Public Law 97–241 on August 24, 1982). Who Gets 10 Years: The 10-year validity applies to individuals who were 16 years old or older at the time the passport was issued. Minors: Passports issued to children under the age of 16 are valid for 5 years and cannot be renewed

Although it's not for sale at this time, another iconic Hollywood Hills home of that era in the 90046 zip code is the Chemosphere. Also somewhat impractical, in that it can only be accessed via a funicular, and also with a perhaps precarious architecture, this house at least has three, not two, bedrooms. On Zillow, the house has a Zestimate of $2.5 million, which is more in line with what I suspect the Stahl house is worth. I think the Stahls must be insane if they think they can get $20 million, much less $25 million for their house (the original asking price). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chemosphere "The Chemosphere is a modernist house at 7776 Torreyson Drive in Los Angeles, California, designed by John Lautner in 1960. The building, which the Encyclopædia Britannica once called "the most modern home built in the world", is admired both for the ingenuity of its solution to the problem of the site and for its unique octagonal design...". https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/7776-Torreyson-Dr-Los-Angeles-CA-90046/79797290_zpid/

Today's Los Angeles Times expressed some surprise at the inability of the Stahls to sell this house at $20 million. Yet it's tiny, has 2 parking spaces, and no street parking to speak of. It also has rather precarious architecture. IMHO, probably worth a tenth of this price... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stahl_House https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/1635-Woods-Dr-Los-Angeles-CA-90069/65242987_zpid/ "...The house has been unoccupied since 2007, but available for public tours. On November 21, 2025, it was listed for sale at $25,000,000, marking the first time in its history that it had been on the market. In a statement on the house's website, the Stahl family said "it has become increasingly challenging to care for it with the attention and energy it so richly deserves", and indicated that they were looking not just for a buyer but for a "steward" who appreciated its cultural and architectural importance. As of August 2026, the house listing remains active for $20M...". Los Angeles TimesL.A.'s most iconic house can't find a buyer. 'It's a pair...The Stahl House has been sitting on the market for nearly a year and is currently listed at $20 million. Real estate agents say the price of reputation is hard to pinpoint.Quite frankly, I'd be surprised if it sold for $10 million. One can get a much nicer house in the Hollywood Hills for that kind of cash.

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"...On the Wildmen podcast in July 2026, Apa discussed his struggles with substance abuse and an eating disorder, particularly during his time on Riverdale. He explained that the pressure to maintain a fit physique heavily contributed to his disordered eating, which involved bingeing and purging. He also revealed that his eating disorder became so intense that he once urinated on food to stop himself from eating it, only to return again to satisfy his cravings. Apa also confirmed that he had been sober for a year and a half. Apa also spoke about how Cole Sprouse once hit him in an attempt to help him stop using drugs..." Cole Sprouse was the man who played Jughead on the series, with which we both lusted over these men! 🥰

Well, you may like redheads, but KJ Apa is a brunette (hair color changed for TV). From Wikipedia: "Keneti James Fitzgerald "KJ" Apa (born 17 June 1997) is a New Zealand actor and singer. He gained recognition for playing Kane Jenkins in the New Zealand soap opera Shortland Street (2013–2015) and Archie Andrews in the CW teen drama series Riverdale (2017–2023). He has also starred in the adventure drama film A Dog's Purpose (2017), the teen drama film The Hate U Give (2018), and the biographical romantic drama film I Still Believe (2020). Apa released his debut solo album in 2021, the indie folk-rock album Clocks... Apa was born on 17 June 1997 at Waitakere Hospital in Auckland, New Zealand,[1] the son of Tupa'i and Tessa Apa (née Callander). His father is Samoan and a matai (chief) of his village in Samoa...". Yeah, I've jacked off to his photos, too (with his natural hair color). He's no ginger.

Every have days like this?

Recent, during one of his shows in Nashville: Also recent: And older photos:

The most I ever paid was $25 some 15 years ago for some 8"X10" photos of a man I was quite taken by. He didn't have a lot of photos of himself on the internet then, so I was willing to cough up the bucks. 15 years later, his most recent gig was an exotic dancer for Chippendales in Nashville TN, according to AI: AI Overview Zac Trautman, a prominent fitness model and performer for the Nashville Chippendales male revue, is 48 years old. He was born on May 5 and recently celebrated his 48th birthday on the Monday preceding September 30, 2026. Before breaking into the full-blown production performances of the male revue circuit, he worked locally in the elevator repair business. I've been following him fondly Instagram and Facebook. It looks as though he finally got hitched (to a woman). I'm not quite sure how accurate AI is in this instance. Why would he celebrate his birthday a good four months later? Anyway, there's something about him which really pushes my buttons. Here's a recent photo: And here are some from the time he first came to my attention:

Dude, you're waaaay off base. I discussed my wishes in two situations: (1) with my husband, and (2) with escorts. My husband is always free to say no any time. However, when he's not in the mood (for example, when our mutual acquaintance Lulu Drake killed himself), it's never because he finds it a sacrifice to avoid deodorants that day (I wouldn't do it on a day in which he had something to do in which he'd feel embarrassed skipping the deodorant). When hiring an escort, it's intuitively obvious to any fool that the escort has to be willing to accommodate your sexual preferences in order for the client to be willing to shell out the money. Those are, as you say, demands. Escorts are also free to turn down any client. However, there must be clear communication so that the escort can satisfy the client. Very commonly, a client may want the escort to bottom, in which case the escort will probably have to prepare his rectum for the activity. Similarly, if the client wants a top, the escort may need to take certain medications (or penile injections). I do have other demands before I hire an escort--mainly that he has to be willing to kiss. Rarely, I've had escorts say they don't kiss (though usually that's in their profile), in which case I move on to someone else. What I've never had happen in all my years is an escort who's told me he's unwilling to avoid putting on anti-perspirant or deodorant before a meeting. Much more commonly, they express relief that the pre-meeting preparation is so easy, in that they don't have to worry about prepping or even obtaining an erection. I'd call that an easy hire. I can imagine if he had to go to a job interview before our meeting, that the hire would have to be another day. That's never happened so far.

Asking someone NOT to wear anti-perspirant or deodorant is hardly high maintenance. It couldn't be easier. They don't have to top, so no need to take erection aids. They don't have to bottom (unless they want me to top them), so no need to prepare for that. Hell, they don't even have to take a shower! I couldn't make things any easier. All I ask is that they lie back and let me lick them. Some escorts need to have special diets and prepare well ahead of time for encounters. I need none of that. I'm probably one of their easiest customers.

I'm probably in the minority who enjoys man smells. If I ask my husband if he might feel romantic tomorrow, he knows that it's a coded request that he not wear any anti-perspirant, deodorant, or other scents. Doing it after a walk in the park on a warm day would be even better. If I hire an escort, I do so on the condition that he not wear anti-perspirants, deodorants, etc. that day. Bonus if we meet after he's done a gym work-out. I can only remember once when the odor was excessive.