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I’ll be there, but I try to avoid anything Xmas related.

My doctor gave it to me when I was 52. He got it also around that time and I’d say he was about 45.

You said you were overweight before. Better eat less, I don’t know of any overweight people who made it to 80.

I think you’re getting good advice from the members here. If you were on another gay board you would be given a harder time, and maybe even be accused of being a troll. if $500 you can’t afford, how can you pay all these boys. And not knowing you can get an std from a dick or ass would make me wonder where you think you can get an std, your belly button? im real sorry to mention this, and I assume you’re very sincere. I really want you to get the proper treatment. Please don’t worry about hpv, it takes years to develop and Epstein bar is very common. I believe it’s related to herpes. Many have it and don’t know it or have no symptoms. I would like to think that in the future you’ll be more cautious and try to stick to the same boys. I know it’s tempting to be very promiscuous, I am at times also. Now we possibly have Monkey virus to worry about, so be extra vigilant,lol. Sorry to sound like a Debby downer. keep going, we’re here for support and encouragement.

What’s wrong with discussing the risks of rimming? Certainly doctors don’t have time to talk to us about it. It’s up to us to be proactive about our health. The other forums should discuss these matters more. To protect our health and the boys we bop.

That’s a lot of rimming. I hope they showered well. Bound to be a few that might not have. I hope you have your hepatitis vaccine. like others have said, parasites are a real worry. You need a gay doctor or one that specializes in parasites. You need a swab of your throat and complete std screening. Hopefully it’s a common std, that can be treated with meds. Syphilis is a bit more painful treatment,lol. They won’t know if it’s hpv till you have cancer. The good news is hpv cancer responds to treatment better than traditional cancer. Do you get std screening after your trips every time?

Yeah, they’re very dangerous. To me it would be like shooting heroin now. I regret using poppers in my twenties. It did make the orgasm more intense though.

Well according to Merk, the manufacturer,once you’ve been exposed it’s not as effective. However my doctor as well as his fellow health care professionals all took the vaccine. On the chance that it will provide protection against the four cancerous strains of HPV. I also have lots of sex so I feel it’s one way of protecting myself. The warts are harmless but it means you’ve been exposed to the harmless HPV. The cancerous strains do not cause warts, just cancer.

HPV is a good way to give you head or neck cancer. Even though you’re about 60 and your immune system is weaker, why don’t you try to get the Guardecil vaccine? My regular doctor wouldn’t give it to me, I had to get an expensive gay doctor from a nearby city about ten years ago.

I’m 64 and have been retired for seven years. I spend 5 months every year in Pattaya, the rest in USA. I find I’m happier in Thailand. I still love the sex, even though there’s less choices now. And I spend 2 or 3 months with my money boy boyfriend. I think it’s him that makes it good. He’s not afraid to be seen with me, and we have a nice routine. We wake up about 2 pm and have a meal , sometimes hang out on the beach. I’ve read that paying someone to love you can cause depression. I’m aware ot that and accepted that he loves my money more than me,lol. But I’m certainly not lonely with him. Half the battle I guess. I cannot live in Bangkok because of the pollution. Pattaya is a bit better in that regards. I’m an introvert and I’m easily entertained! I try to learn some Thai but I don’t have to. I’ve found Great Depression since I came back to USA after Covid. I’m very isolated and lonely in the USA. I suppose I could find a guy near my age here. As long as he doesn’t mind me going to Pattaya for 5 months, might be hard to find someone like that. If I was rich I’d just retire in Thailand. It’s the fear of not being able to afford health insurance latter on that keeps me going only 5 months. Also I’m healthier in the USA. The air cleaner, healthy food, and I like my doctors here. I swim in Thailand and in USA I use a gym and walk. I need to break up the workout routine. I think Olddaddy, you’re right about being bored in Jomtien. Jomtien is boring! I sold my vt condo there. I think you’re in a good position though. You’re in Australia, which is nice and close, so you can adjust your trips better. You’re an introvert like me. You can pursue sex and do other things, you need to look hard and you’ll be surprised what you might find. But most importantly is having someone you can count on, if you’re sick,etc. I have same problem! You can contact me if you’re there when I am, I’m always there for my friends.

Reading these boards will make you think everyone is having sex three times a day. It’s like listening to gamblers only bragging about their wins. Enjoy doing other things mentioned. Just have a beer at the beach, shoot a gun, take a ride on a boat. my vacation is long, five months. I spend half going to bars or picking up boys wherever I run into them. I picked up playing pool and I love it now. I swim and relax watching utube, studying Thai and practicing it with people I meet. Perhaps you’re a side, not top or bottom. I find myself in that category more now as I’m older. You don’t have to have an orgasm. When I’m with my money boy boyfriend for half my trip, he edges me several times a day, for a total of three hours of sex a day. Probably sounds strange compared to conventional sex but it works for us.

That’s too bad he wouldn’t bottom. The one I had stopped after about a minute of topping him. He left the room, I thought he was just talking a break. But he came back in with his clothes on, ready to leave. This was about five years ago. He was a skinny sexy twink that had his string hidden in his butt , so it looked like he had nothing on when he walked around the stage.

My worst offs were from Grinder and a boy from Winners Bar in Pattaya. The grinder guy was older and very fem compared to his photo. one of the best was a street guy hanging out in jomtien complex. He took me into a rest room in between the bars and had incredible sex . Plus he was so thankful for a 1,000 baht tip.

I just looked at google flights for my October- April vacation to Pattaya. im thinking of using Singapore premium economy. It’s $1625 round trip. About $500 more than their economy from New York to Bkk. I realize it’s only slightly better than economy, however I’m getting a visa exempt and will need to change the return from November to April. I figure there’s no change charge for premium, possibly a charge if the return in April is more than I paid for the original return fare. And I can have a bit more seat room. The priority boarding is a joke to me, as I like to get on last. I want to spend as little time in the plane as possible. Ill be spending $900 more than usual, however I understand the necessity of paying higher prices in the current situation. is Singapore good?

I pay 300 and a drink in Nice Boys for a guy to chuck wow. But it usually doesn’t stop at one and the bill adds up. I tipped a guy who gave me a nice hand job in the pulpit 1,000 baht. I overpaid probably but he was very happy with the tip. He watched me play pool at their pool bar and applauded evert time I made a good shot.

He’s not well hung and is sort of tall and hairless. I don’t want him to lose face by ignoring him, but they’re others I’d much rather tip. I got there at 11:30 and Beer came in and told the boys to stay on stage. Obviously she could care less about them receiving twenty baht notes. She wants drinks sold. So the only way to be with them is to buy them a drink. When Beer is not there it’s ok. I was going to have number 10 sit with me but he got offed when I got there.

I returned last night but Beer, the owner would not let the guys off the stage, so no tipping. At least when I first sat down I received a large ovation from all the boys on stage.

I mean mouth to something else. Almost all in Nice Boys are straight as you probably know, so to me it seems a chore for them to kiss. I suppose if you buy them a drink and they sit with you then some kissing would be fine. It’s interesting how each bar has its own culture. Where Eros almost anything goes but others have their limits.

I had a lot of fun last night there. For about a thirty second inspection I give twenty baht. I went in with about four hundred baht worth of twenty baht notes(20), and probably spent about 1200 baht altogether on tips handed out. All this over two drink for myself time period. As I ran out of twenties the boys would give me change for a hundred baht note so there was always a fresh supply. I never refuse anyone who comes off the stage but one guy I told him he was too frequently returning. Didn’t like his coy anyway,lol. I have to say I give the prize to number 10 for nicest overall, although it was close. And number 5 is the largest I’ve ever seen, too big imho. I realize I could have an off for the money spent but sometimes it’s a relaxing alternative, not being a full participant. And a nice change from Good Boys as I can spend 2,000 baht there easily and sometimes it’s disappointing. The mamasaans there are fairly innocuous but annoying nonetheless as they usually sit next to me and stare throughout. I tip them about forty or fifty baht, for getting me more ice or if I need change. On a real generous night I might give them 100 baht. What they really want is for you to buy a guy a drink, which I might do one out of five times I go there. I’ll only do that if I want him to chuck wow, but maybe I’m getting prudish in my old age as I can’t really enjoy it with an audience there. I have no oral contact with any of the guys, if that were the case I would think at least 100 baht would be appropriate, maybe more. What you think? Sorry if I don’t reply right away, I’m going out to watch American football over night and then sleep.

I recently sent $300 to a guy I spend most of my time with when I’m in Thailand. He asked for $1,000. It’s only the 2nd time I’ve sent money. I don’t blame him for asking and I had the money. He is getting old though, he’s 30 now, but still looks like a twenty something twink. I’m going to cut back my time with him and turn our long times into short times. Not going to be easy.

My sister was tested and has the delta 32 gene, which I assume means I have it. I’ve had hundreds of unsafe sex episodes with guys and at my advanced age I’m still hiv negative. But that’s my doc saying it was unsafe. I don’t believe receptive oral is very risky. My nephew told me it’s about one in a hundred who have it. I guess I could use it more than my sister,ha ha.

Just got back from Las Vegas and played much roulette. 92% protection rate sucks! The house edge is about 7% at the Venetian. Almost everyone loses over time. That’s why the casinos make money over time. Just a matter of time before you become infected. On a bright note, I won over 3 thousand from the greedy casinos, betting America football and roulette.

There are two message shops at the soi next to Jomtien Condo,near Dicks cafe. The one where they wear orange has a sign saying no sex. The boy I had from there just gave me a message but was fairly sensual. The second time I saw him he stood on a chair to see who was outside and then gave me a happy ending. I think the women running the place knew I wanted sex with him because he was very cute and even though they tried to get me to take another guy from there I insisted on him, only because of his looks. The shop across the soi has workers wearing blue. The cute guy there had no hesitation giving me a happy ending. The boy there was very young looking and sort of Japanese looking, very hot!.

Good point, I forgot about a possible quota. Maybe they realize that their job security depends on the bar selling drinks. I always am a little surprised when a boy I didn’t drink with or tip is so thankful to me on the way out, even though he received nothing from me.

They get about 50 baht for each drink that’s bought for them. So they try to get another drink after about 45 minutes from me. I try to discourage it and tell them I’ll leave them more in a tip. Which I usually do. When I explain to them that I’d rather they get the money than the bar they seem to appreciate the gesture. I leave them anywhere between 100 and 3 or 400 baht. The bar bill is usually about 600 baht on average anyway so the bar is making out with me at least. And at Winners I asked if I could get 25 ping pong balls for 400 baht instead of 500 baht, as they go quick and I had already spent 100 baht for five. The staff was insistent on 500 baht. Geez, give a big spending customer a break I say.