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It seems there’s a new massage place on Suan Phlu, my favorite neighborhood. A young man, Bon, (บอล) I knew and liked from another venue is working there now. Has anyone tried it? I might go when I do my snowbird thing in bkk this winter. Advance reports welcome!

How did it come to this, that being born in a poor country, that country becomes a great big prison you are not allowed to leave? Under what ethical system is that really OK? I agree with the sign held up by a demonstrator here in Boston, demonstrating outside an ICE detention facility: “No one is illegal.” Why is it so difficult to say, “My choice of words was inappropriate; thanks for pointing it out.”

Four to seven ejaculations in a whole month? How could anyone live such a barren life?

Furthest thing from my mind, would never call you cheap!

Oh, Is it really vinapu/4? Now I’m getting interested!

Yes it seems bkk is getting expensive. I think Pattaya is less, no? I’m cheap, like one or two others on this forum, so I just do massage with 1000 tip. No fuss, no muss. But long time is tempting, cuddling a warm naked young guy all night. Sigh.

Loved this report, vinapu! I felt I was right there with you, or at least, wished I had been. And with a little romance too, very sweet how you ran off spur of the moment to Patty’s to see Z. You, and he, got a just reward for that extra effort. And I for one appreciate all the accounting, tips of ST, LT etc. It helps me know what the market will bear. Likely: Market price = vinapu price/2 ;-)

Oh! You are ABBA!

Canada also will not cover health care for visitors or non-permanent residents. There have indeed been issues here with people arriving, needing expensive care, and then not paying. Even for Canadian citizens, if you leave the country for more than six months, seven in some provinces, you are dropped from the Canadian health plan for the first three months after you return. And our treatment of Aboriginal people and our record on climate change are both appalling. Canada looks good from outside only because we are next door to you-know-who.

So if anyone disagrees with you it’s because they don’t understand? Is that what you think?

Very wise words, Divine Madman. I couldn’t agree more. One of the toughest life lessons is learning to see shades of grey. After you start seeing shades of grey, you realize that just about everything in life is shades of grey. I agree with you, DM. There is no conspiracy to make farang life in Thailand miserable. In fact, it just might possibly be true that, just maybe, it’s not actually about us. Strange idea, isn’t it, that other people exist, see things through the lens of their culture and experience, may not think the same as we do, may have other priorities besides our precious little selves. Oh, the humanity!

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I have a similar story. I visit Thailand yearly and met a nice young Burmese man at Babylon. I got together with him three or four times. He never asked for money but it turned out he was a massage boy at a shop near the Malaysia Hotel. We had a very sweet time together. I went back to look for him two years later and found out he had been murdered, beaten to death and left in a room in the Malaysia. A farang was arrested but it seemed he had injected drugs into my friend’s body to make it appear to be my friend’s fault. My friend never did drugs of any kind when I knew him. The farang was released and sent back to his country. The mamasan where he worked set up a memorial service for him, and his two siblings who lived and worked in Bangkok came. His ashes were sent back to his Mom in Yangon. No rich relatives came flying halfway around the world demanding justice for him. No report of any kind appeared in the news. He. Just. Disappeared. My friend had a name. It was Daeng. He was 23. I love Thailand but the way Thais treat some people, especially Burmese immigrants, as garbage, is disgusting beyond any words I can find. Obviously these two boys have been framed.

I only got to Sauna Mania once. I was about 55 at the time. No extra fee but I felt VERY unwelcome there. I think it’s just for younger men.

Thanks all. I just hope hope they fix this before I try to move to Thailand with Dear Husband on a retirement visa next year. Sounds like it has become a nightmare for some long stay faring.

I’ve been reading a great deal lately about the new enforcement of the requirement for landlords to file a TM30 every time a foreign renter or guest leaves their permanent residence. Have any of you run into this? There is a great deal of discussion on Richard Barrow’s blog and in the Bangkok Post. It seems to have developed into quite a headache for everyone involved.

My husband informs me that this shop was raided about two months ago for illegal immigrants. All the positive reviews seem to be from before that.

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Good topic. I am married to a wonderful Thai man I met in 1993. We moved to Canada together, he from Thailand, me from the US, and have made a good life in Vancouver. It has now been almost twenty years, and he wants to move back to Thailand to be with his aging Mom. Having hauled him to North America for all these years, I can hardly say I won’t live in his country, so it looks like, at age 70, I will move to Thailand next year. I will give up a lot, my community, universal health care, creature comforts and cool weather, but hey—it’s marriage and for better or worse. I am trying to look at it as an opportunity for discovery. I am fortunate in that I have a hobby that allows me to meet new people and develop community. We also have a beautiful home in On Nut. So I’ll do it, with moments of fear and sadness mixed with the anticipation. Life does not stand still even when we get old.

and Thailand, before the previous Parliament was dissolved for the election.

In view of political developments in the UK and US over the past few years, is it really so out of line to suggest Caucasians are an inferior race? Just a thought...

I like Google flights. I fly from Vancouver and we have used Korean Air for several years now. They usually have the best price, service is very good, and if you have a long layover at Incheon, they often offer you the lounge or even a hotel. Incheon is a beautiful airport, especially the wing they built for the Olympics. The past two years we have booked in advance for our three month winter stay, booking in spring for a late November departure. Price: $850 and $950 in Canadian dollars! On December 1st the prices jump up to about $1400, so keep that in mind if your dates are around that time.

My favorite neighborhood is Suan Phlu. Close enough to get to Silom or other attractions, far enough away to be cheaper. Making friends, stablishing community is way harder than picking up boys for sex. I'm workng on this myself. A couple things I'm trying: 1. My hobby, which happns to be bridge, but any hobby that brings you in contact with others should help. 2. I just started Thai languag classes, thanks to anddy here in this blog. It's only my first week, but it seems theree are loads of (mostly straight) people to start up acquaintance with.

Are you familiar with the song sung by Alberta Hunter, "My Man...Is Such A Handy Man?" Seems it would be right up your, um... "alley."