YES!!!
Great insight & wisdom in both those observations.
'We men are not pigs, we are just dogs.'
And then, on the other side, that women still have to put up with all the shit of male-controlled...etc., etc., etc...everything.
It's really a wonder that the female half (slightly over, actually) of the population does not rise up -- as has been imagined by more than one SF writer (female and male both) -- and just decide to slaughter all but a token number of the males.
Or socially castrate them into a small, safe zone.