hungry4dark

Rent.men, adam4adam and grindr are the best for nyc based guys imo

As a Chelsea resident for over 20 years I can definitely attest to the dramatic changes that have come with the gentrification of the neighborhood. Oh how I miss Blue Moon for the best bottomless brunch ever! I was never really cruising in Chelsea tho - there were always far better places for that to me probably because I'm not into the typical Chelsea boy type. Almost all those guys have moved to Brooklyn, Jersey or Hell's Kitchen so the neighborhood is now far less interesting but prior to covid there was still a very active cruising scene on 8th ave mostly surrounding the booth shops and the few remaining gay bars. Its been fascinating to see... glad I got my rent regulated apt in the 90s otherwise I would never be able to afford to stay here.

It was so seedy but I miss it so much. Every major city has a red light district and nyc being the crossroads of the world should have one as well its stupid to force people to take their shit underground but they want the city to be as commercial as possible and that was the first thing they had to do something about. Smdh

Between the app and the website Adam really has done the work- it'd be nice to be able to rate the pro's but otherwise they have the best site without question

So sorry for your loss

Sounds fascinating I love to hear about the behind the scenes stuff lol. If this is your scene you should definitely read Bobby Blake's book, My Life in Porn. We enjoy the end product but seldom understand the dynamics and challenges of working in the industry

I'm usually good with 30-45 minutes but I have a bud who literally takes 3 to 4 hours. I have to admit although i cant do it very frequently because I just don't have the stamina I really appreciate it when I get it lol

Circumcision is literally the first act of child abuse. You don't need your earlobes and men don't need nipples but we don't cut them off. The fact is that the foreskin is there for multiple reasons. First it protects the glans. Second it has more nerve endings than the rest of the penis so getting cut means missing out on a great deal of pleasure . Third the friction dynamics of fucking are directly impacted in a negative way- with natural dicks the friction is primarily inside the penis- the skin stays in and the pipe goes in and out of it. Once cut the friction is skin on skin which is less pleasurable for both parties and increases the likelihood of tearing for everyone involved. You can restore your foreskin but those nerves are gone forever unfortunately. I implore every parent I know to leave their sons intact. Its only been so pervasive because of organized religion, medical ignorance and fathers wanting to (a) have their sons look like themselves and (b) not wanting to have to teach their sons how to take care of their dicks.

I admit I've been that guy a few times - knowing that my schedule is tight but still trying to make it happen. Each time I felt guilty about wasting the guys time and sent him something for his trouble but had to learn to be more realistic and not make any commitments I cant be sure I can deliver on. That said, it was never intentional nor was I being an asshole I was just being unrealistic because I was excited about the opportunity. Ironically it happened with the one guy I see regularly now and the fact that he was cool about it and didn't simply ghost me ended up working out extremely well for both of us. Just a thought... sometimes you have to let it be what it's gonna be and not take it personally.

He touched so many people's lives aand leaves a beautiful timeless legacy. They dont make em like him anymore.